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Lysander, 41

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About Me

[** 9, ***]I am a pretty masculine guy, in the sense that I tend to like anything outdoors and out in nature! I love to go camping, hiking, fishing, and love going for walks on the beach at sunset (yes I'm a hopeless romantic!). I am a total Apple geek, and love everything "Apple", so don't even get me started on "Microsoft" or "Windows"...ewwww! So, if you are a "Windows PC" guy, things aren't looking good for you, unless you're willing to convert, lol! It's actually a dream of mine to one day open up a Bed and Breakfast with a small Bakery/Coffee-shop. Doesn't that sound like a great way to retire with that special someone?I am literally in the process of moving up to the Bay Area to start a new job and new chapter of my life working as a teacher in SFUSD, training teachers how to integrate technology into their curriculum. I have aspirations to become a professor to teach pre-service teachers at a university. I am currently writing my dissertation, and am about to finish up my doctorate degree (Ed.D.) this winter/spring at UCI, in Educational Administration & Leadership with an emphasis in Technology Leadership. I hope to get a job at a as a professor in a teacher education program, hopefully within Educational Technology, once I finish.I am a genuine, kind, and good-hearted man who wears his heart on his sleeve and I am not looking for my next relationship, but my best and most lasting one! I want to meet that special someone who makes my heart skip a beat every time I see his smiling face. Someone who is not only my best friend, but my sexy lover under the sheets. Physically, I "tend" to be most attracted to slim, athletic body type guys who are Latino, Italian, or other white men with darker features, oh um like dark hair and blue eyes for ***! Although it is not the most important thing in a good relationship I have learned, for me, the physical chemistry between me and my man has to be electric, that's how I know it is meant to be. I am the type that loves to hold hands and be affectionate when I am feeling it. I also tend to be attracted to guys that have a little bit of and edge (i.e. tattoos are sexy) and are a little more willing to take the lead at times and who can be more outgoing than me, as I can be shy at first, so it is nice when I am with someone who is good at breaking the ice in social situations. I am looking for someone who would like to build a family together. Someone who wants to, or is open to the possibilty of, having children together. If you've read this far, and like what you've read, let's save the rest for our first date! An ideal first date for me would be dinner at a nice restaurant sharing great conversation and getting to know one another over a nice bottle of wine. A nice walk on the beach or pier to continue the conversation, and a hug or maybe even a kiss, if it goes better than expected!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Antione

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    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Was on this site once before and met some great guys. Nothing clicked, so took a breather and now I'm trying again. I am an outdoors lover, hiking, backpacking, kayaking, camping and adventure travel. But love to be at home as well, cooking, gardening and home improvement.Love a variety of music but tend toward country and folk. I'm educated, well spoken and love good conversation. Looking for someone around my age who is interested in dating and seeing where things go. Oh, and like most men my age I am not looking for younger guys. I'm not a daddy. If we start to chat and you decide you're no longer interested, no worries, just say so. I'm a grown up and can handle truths. Let's all be respectful, and honest to each other. Other than that I'd love to hear from you, even if just to chat and share experiences. Not opposed to meeting someone who is not local, road trips can be fun and who knows what adventure might await. A coffee at Spot with some good conversation and then a walk.

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