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Velma, 34

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About Me

I have been fishing for a long time. I have had to throw back a lot of catches. I have also been thrown can't win every time. Just looking for my lucky break....and yes, it is hard for me to trust someone right away. If things are going too well, I question the sincerity of the individual. If things aren't going well, I question myself. Take note tho that this is only in the beginning...I completely understand that no one should be made to suffer for how someone else treated me in the is something I am working to overcome and I WILL get there. :)Finding the one who perfectly compliments you should not have to be this hard. Yet I continue to search. There is someone out there for everyone, right? :PI am an imperfect person and I honestly believe that imperfect people can never know 100% what they want. That is the way the heart works...shrugs....but I can definately say what I am NOT looking for....Someone who does NOT like children. I have a seven year old son. He comes first. If someone clashes with him, then you gotta go.I do not want a sugardaddy....I do not want your money. I have my own house and car...i can purchase my own "things" and flashy objects mean squat to me. I do not want to be a fwb. I am not looking for an intimate encounter. That can come later. I actually am interested in substance....shocking! LoL...I actually want to get together with a like-minded, easy going guy and go out and have fun...see bands play, have a drink or two, grab a bite to eat, take a walk, take a drive, goof off, know. That stuff.PS...I have tattoos. Quite a few. And will acquire more. Just sayin'....LoL...Dating can be a very discouraging game this day and age. Especially on sites like this one. There are thousands of men claiming to want a "real woman" and thousands of women who claim to want a "real man" and none of us can seem to come together. If you are just as frustrated as I am, message me :) NOT a movie. You can't talk and learn about one another in a theater. far as gameplans...we will decide together.


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  • Katina


    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    What I am looking for...hmmmm....Would like someone to go hiking, golfing, traveling. I play on a couple different slow pitch leagues which I am not quite clear yet if I really like ball or if I really just like beer and splits;) I have a 4 year old Shitzu Maltese that is very cool and as I am sure anyone else says is my baby.I have worked at my career for over 12 years now. Being is sales is nice as it does give me a little extra freedom then having a job that you have to clock in.I do like to travel and am headed to Germany in September. I have been to Thailand and Indonesia as well. I do love Asia it is beautiful there.I do not like to stay still for to long. However I do enjoy my TV time as well. If you do not like Walking Dead or Breaking Bad there is something wrong with you!!!Aaaand Most importantly you have to fit in with my friends. We have a solid group if us and would be a real deal breaker if you didn't like them.I have now been on here for a few weeks and I am really not interested in having *** you would like to contact me ask me to do something. This back and forth 20 times is silly.If you like what you have seen or read message me. First date...Always a lunch or a hike is good. Makes it easy to get a quick first impression and from there can decide if you would like to see each other again.However saying these two things I would not be biast to doing something really different and adventurous.You must be ok with dogs as mine wont be going anywhere...If you have a dog even better as my girl would love a friend.

  • Paulene


    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    i hate these profile things, but apparently they are necessary. i'm a very outgoing person. i love to have fun and try new things. i am a straight shooter, and will tell you exactly what i think, even when you'd rather i didn't. i strive for the best in everything, and am looking for the same.i do have 2 kids and a full time job so i am also very responsible and am looking for someone who is as well. not interested in a quick hook up, not even a little. if you're interested send me message, you never know what will happen. just nothing boring. something where we can have good conversation, where we can get to know one another.

  • Septima


    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Ok here we go again... Maybe my last profile wasn't quite clear enough.... I am as easy going as they get... For the most part .... This does not mean I cannot be an ***hole at times... Come on I am a woman but I can at least admit when I am an ***hole and apologize for being one as well. I can be blunt and to the point and definitely speak before I think, not always a good thing and doesn't always work in my favor but at least you will always know where you stand with me. I don't like being strung along and seriously dislike when people don't truly mean what they say. Don't judge a book by its cover, despite the wild appearance I am not a wild child. I rarely drink and don't do drugs, this does not mean that I never have a good time, stick this girl in some mud, camping or just out on an adventure and I'm happy as shit. I have the mouth of a trucker but can turn it off when I need to although most times there is no need. I have a lot of self confidence... Maybe to much I don't know but I know what I am. I am not that girl that is going to **** every 2 mins about how fat I look... I probably don't... And if I am not looking so sh*thot, I probably know this and don't care. I want someone that can look past the pretty face and see the girl within. I am educated smart and a personality bigger then life... If the first thing your going to say is your hot don't waste your breath I hear it... A lot... Usually followed by want to ****? My answer will be I know and not a chance in hell... I work in the oilfield... I work around a lot of men... I occasionally go to camp for a long time... Thus I have many male friends... They are friends that's it... When I'm with someone I am with them no matter where I am or who I'm around... To sum all this up... I am not perfect nor do i expect anyone else to be.. I can be an ***hole but I can also be the biggest sweetheart you've ever cared to meet, I am faithful to a fault. If you are looking for just another round in the sack please don't waste my time or yours... However if you are truly looking for a good honest caring faithful girl then feel free to message me. Every person is different so go from there!

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