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Velma, 34

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About Me

I have been fishing for a long time. I have had to throw back a lot of catches. I have also been thrown back....you can't win every time. Just looking for my lucky break....and yes, it is hard for me to trust someone right away. If things are going too well, I question the sincerity of the individual. If things aren't going well, I question myself. Take note tho that this is only in the beginning...I completely understand that no one should be made to suffer for how someone else treated me in the past...it is something I am working to overcome and I WILL get there. :)Finding the one who perfectly compliments you should not have to be this hard. Yet I continue to search. There is someone out there for everyone, right? :PI am an imperfect person and I honestly believe that imperfect people can never know 100% what they want. That is the way the heart works...shrugs....but I can definately say what I am NOT looking for....Someone who does NOT like children. I have a seven year old son. He comes first. If someone clashes with him, then you gotta go.I do not want a sugardaddy....I do not want your money. I have my own house and car...i can purchase my own "things" and flashy objects mean squat to me. I do not want to be a fwb. I am not looking for an intimate encounter. That can come later. I actually am interested in substance....shocking! LoL...I actually want to get together with a like-minded, easy going guy and go out and have fun...see bands play, have a drink or two, grab a bite to eat, take a walk, take a drive, goof off, flirt....you know. That stuff.PS...I have tattoos. Quite a few. And will acquire more. Just sayin'....LoL...Dating can be a very discouraging game this day and age. Especially on sites like this one. There are thousands of men claiming to want a "real woman" and thousands of women who claim to want a "real man" and none of us can seem to come together. If you are just as frustrated as I am, message me :) NOT a movie. You can't talk and learn about one another in a theater. Otherwise....as far as gameplans...we will decide together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shayla

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Im an open minded, hard workin southern peach who loves to kick back, listen to good music n just take life for what it iz Somewhere public

  • Karma

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    What can I say... I have a very distinctive personality and I enjoy deep authentic communication with people. If you're like me then you’re intelligent, honest, authentic, with some quirks. After some very disappointing dating experiences recently I can honestly say I'm done with the whole concept. "Dating" implies a specific agenda, and creates a reason to be deceptive and hide things from each other since the objective is to impress the other enough that they will want to mate with you. If lucky enough to succeed with this we find ourselves in superficial relationships where both people are going through the actions, pretending everything is great, but there are a dozen elephants in the room because there was never a foundation of honest open communication... and both people continue trying to be who they want to be seen as but not who they really are. What a recipe for misery. I stopped playing that game years ago but its disappointing to find a lot of men still mindlessly engage in it. Your past romantic partners would all say you were exceptionally genuine and caring and treated them well, communicated clearly, and really made an effort to open up and let them know you deeply, and they'd add that you also made a lot of effort to know their deepest thoughts and desires and understand them. People think you're honorable and you have a high moral standard when it comes to all interpersonal relationships.Hopefully you're a free thinker who's cast away the expectations of our society... realizing things like marriage, retirement, traveling, and material items aren't half as fulfilling as everyone pretends they are. You are not walking the path that leads to a white picket fence...If you’re like me you take care of your body and health, you care about the environment and world around you, you seek a few genuine deep friendships rather than a multitude of shallow ones. Your life is stable, you are content and in harmony, and anyone who brings drama into your life is quickly evicted.If u type like caveman then I wont thik ur attractiv. it won't be a date...if you act like its a date (trying to pay for my lunch etc) I'll terminate the occasion without regret.

  • Jools

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    This is a tough one, I hate describing myself. I'm 34, a Mom, Girl Scout Leader for my daughter's troop. I am between jobs at the moment, I have a new baby boy at home - I'm not with the father romantically and I'm not looking for someone to become Dad necessarily as he has ***but if I haven't lost you with that news, please read on...I've gotten out of shape over the past few years but am motivated to drop the weight and get back into the great outdoors again. I love camping, canoeing, hiking, biking, fishing and pretty much anything else enjoying the environment. I love photography, drawing, doing various crafty things, spending time with my daughter and my family and friends. I love to travel when I have the opportunity to do so, this summer is actually looking to have a few road trips. I am driven, hard working, independent, and though I enjoy getting flowers or being taken out on the town - It's not to the point of materialistic. I give amazing back-rubs, and am one of those people who try to give everything I can to help out a friend or family member. I have a big heart, and am definitely going to be able to cross many of my goals and dreams off my life list - I'm not afraid to try new things.I am looking for someone who enjoys some of the same things I do and who is family and friend oriented. Goals and dreams are a great thing, ambition is really sexy. Someone who believes in some sort of god, though I would prefer someone who is Christian or Catholic, I'm open to others. I'm looking for my life partner. I'm at the stage in life that I'm truly ready to settle down, though I know I have some more growing to do for myself. I've kept this past year totally single, trying to get to know who I am so that I can be ready for the right person. I'm hoping to find someone who has goals in life, likes animals, enjoys traveling and learning new things, has their own place (or lives with roommate/kids), has their own transportation, and has a job/career. I'm pretty open minded, and I love a good conversation. I think that education is somewhat important, but sometimes life can give that as well. I'm looking for someone who enjoys the great outdoors and being active, but also likes a good movie or play or something of the sort as well. Someone who may join me hiking, biking, etc. I like to do a lot of things, and am always up to try something new. I have lots of ideas, but I really like to see the creative and romantic ideas and things the guy I am seeing comes up with too. I like everything from picnics to Museums, concerts, hiking, community volunteering, cooking or art classes would be a great time, but so can bowling.

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