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Jolanda, 26

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About Me

Bottom line- I am looking for a best friend who I can later call my husband. I am not in a hurry to rush in to anything and want to make sure what we have is real. I know the "looking for a husband/marriage" I dont need a man. I do want a man but I will not be in a relationship just to not be alone. I am complete; I have God and my family.Things about youA) Gotta be a man who loves God and will attend church with me on SudaysB) No drugs or criminal background. C) You have to have a job. Yes I can and do take care of myself. No I dont want all of your money. Having said that, you need a job. I feel that it shows you have poor priorities if you are putting energy in to searching for a partner when you should be looking for a job. Things about me :D I can and do cook and clean :D I like to make people fat and happy I don’t chase men,.. I know that it is a common practice here in ***, but I don’t do it. I don’t want to be treated like an "equal" either; I want to be treated like a woman. I am not a snob or a princess. I am a woman and we are different then men. C'est la vie I just write one liners to get the conversation started... Sorry. I don’t have a lot to say until we start saying something. :D I am PNW native and I love being in the out of doors!! Not to waste anytime though I can be just as comfortable at home; creating a cozy sanctuary for my family to enjoy. I use to be in the Army. I served from May ***Feb 11 as an ENG. Since then I got out and am now a single mother of my infant son, Cedric. I work and go to school using my GI bill and have a car. My goal with my schooling is to go back in to the Geo-spatial field in the civi sector connecting people to the land. I have MANY hobbies. You are just going to have to ask me,…. I like taking adventures and trying new things as long as we are being safe. my "perfect match" would be a man from ***. Who loves god and will go to church on Sundays, has a great sense of humor to balance his strong character, a man who wants to be in a relationship and have fun; day in and out. Someone who wont leave if times get tough. (Additional plus would be if he is in the service or held an equally cool job ;) I do not really believe in the traditional first dates. I would much rather do group dates where we can hang out with our friends and get SHOW you who i am *** tell you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Myah

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I hate writing about myself....well I have 2 kids that are my world. If that is in any way a problem or you have any insecurities about that then I'm not the girl for you. I'm politically conservative and socially liberal. The glass is half full. I don't believe you know someone or have a right to judge them until you've walked a mile in their shoes. I'm divorced but I believe in marriage. I try to stay physically fit and eat healthy. But, I'm a full-time working mom and I will indulge once in a while. Sweets are my weakness :) I'm passionate about my job and I love teeth. "Smiling is my favorite". I love comedies and am afraid of scary movies. If you really want to get to know me, send me a message and you will get my attention better if you don't start with the typical "hi, hello, hey". I'm here because I do want to find my best friend and soulmate but if I can make a friend out of it, great! Oh, spelling and grammar are very important! Chemistry is important to me. You could have all the qualities I'm looking for but if we don't vibe it won't work. I'm attracted to positive men who have goals, are self motivated, and self confidence. Non smoking, non drug using men who are active physically. Someone who will value me for me. I'm not looking for my twin just someone I'm compatible with. I love exploring new activities and hobbies and it would be important to me that my other half would want to explore them with me. Anything non-cliche

  • Brande

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I love to sing and I do it pretty much all the time. Favorite place to be is relaxing on a beach with a drink in hand :) Simple pleasures make me happy. I am a true, genuine person who is compassionate and caring toward others. I value honesty, confidence and kindness in others. I am down to earth and easy to get along with. I have pretty good intuition about people, so if you're full of BS I'll pick up on it. Average body type for now, but not for much longer! Yes, I am going through a divorce and I'm a mom so it's time to focus on me for a bit. I am working hard to get where I want to be fitness/health wise. So if you're wanting to see a bikini shot then stay tuned lol ;) I just turned 30, but people usually guess that I'm ***:) So hopefully that answers the question about whether my pictures are recent or not - yes they are.I am a classy girl, so please don't be disrespectful by sending inappropriate messages!!! I would really just like to go somewhere for a couple drinks at first to get to know a guy and then see what happens from there :) If all goes well and things progress then I would love for him to plan things for us and pursue me. Feeling valued, respected and pursued would be the perfect start to a relationship.

  • Roma

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    I love any new experience, finding a new restaurant or a quirky hang out is always right up my alley. I typically spend my leisure time at dinner parties with friends, going to see live music, movies, taking photos or just exploring. I like to try new things, go to fun events and really mix it up.I just moved back to town to finish my Child and Youth Care degree. As well as being a student, I volunteer, I work and I enjoy spending time with my big family and wonderful friends but all this makes it hard to find time to date...so here I am, and you're out there, somewhere. I'm a fun-loving, honest, vivacious, rational, understanding girl who loves to laugh and smile. I stay active both physically and socially. I live a healthy lifestyle. My friends would describe me as honest, genuine, affectionate and thoughtful. I am looking for someone who can handle life's frustrations or momentary setbacks with a patient, steady demeanor,someone who is reliable and someone who can also be spontaneous and adventurous!“The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.” -*These are preferences not prerequisites. I'm looking for someone who will compliment my personality but I'm open to being pleasantly surprised. That being said: Grumpy Gus's, smokers, tokers and those with video game addictions need not apply First Date: coffee/tea if we must (please chose somewhere locally owned and operated) or something original/spontaneous

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