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Deidra, 28
United States, Arkansas, Malvern

Offline, last seen Sun, 15 Mar 2026 18:21:30

About Me

I love life and I love the people and activities that I fill it with. Optimistic, not naive. Secure in who I am. I'm young, but blessed with an amazing support network of family and friends, a zest for life, and oppourtunities that make me blush.I am driven in everything I do and always looking to learn from new people and experiences. I believe that your outlook on life is everything. I don't believe in complaining without looking for resolution. I love to laugh, connect with people, and feel human in my experiences.I love to travel and have done so to some of the most amazing places in the world, with some of the very best friends that anyone could ask for.I have a passion for learning new things. In the last year I have opened up my own photography business, more so to support the work I do and write off my fun new toys than to make money. I hoop, pole, spin fire, and love going to music festivals. In all of my travels, festivals and music in general are one thing worth experiencing anywhere around the globe.Studied television in college and worked on several documentaries, though got out of the work because it was too based on the bottom line. Selling one documentary to one network and then the antithesis of the same documentary to another for money was not something I wanted to be a part of.For the last 5 years I've been producing PSAs and online content for a national charity, and loving it.So a few people have mentioned that I don't really list what I'm looking for. Shared interests are great but not necessary. To be honest, I actually think it's more exciting to date someone with different interests than my own, as I always enjoy learning something new. Sharing, teaching and learning make for great bonding. Other things are more important to me and here's the long version...Please contact me if:You have a passion (or two, or three).You have a CAREER you find rewarding (maybe it's in a field you have a passion for).You're active and prefer to get out and enjoy the day. Though you love snuggling on the couch, it is all the sweeter after a fulfilling day.You see the bright side of life and are regarded by most as a happy person. When something goes wrong, you take the oppourtunity to learn and grow. You ask yourself, "What could I do better or differently?" You realize that you are in control of your own destiny (for the most part) and don't play the victim.You're an effective communicator. You know how to express yourself and your emotions. You don't bottle them up if something is bothering you, nor do you have emotional diarrhea. You believe there is a way to rationally discuss your feelings and expectations in a mature manner, and believe that good communication it is the foundation that every good relationship is built on.You're independent. Your life is full without a partner but you're looking for a special lady you WANT to make time for. Someone to build a relationship with you on shared experiences...who knows, maybe you'll find that special lady and share new exciting things together. ^.^You like trying new things (food, experiences, activities, travel locations) and are up for just about anything.You're interested in personal development and lifelong learning.And I'm sorry but - Looks are certainly not everything, but they are indeed part of the equation.If you think you fit the bill, then let's have a chat. If chatting works, then let's meet for coffee to see if there's any chemistry. If there's chemistry, than let's take it slowly from there and see where it goes. I'm not interested in one night stands, so don't bother. I want to meet a person that I really click with, and I want whatever comes naturally with that person...Doesn't everyone!?! :S

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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