• Hope
• Arkansas
• United States

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Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

i hate filling these things out but anyways here we go.... i love the city but i still dont know my way around that well, i still need a tour guide. i am just looking for someone that is funny and honest to hang out with and see where it goes from there!! hope to here from you soon!

• Hope
• Arkansas
• United States

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Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

If you are just looking for a casual fling then I am not the girl for you. I am a unique individual who is drawn to rational thinking, humanitarianism, hopes and ideals. I love living my life of autonomy and harmony. I am not one to put on airs, nor am I cowed by anyone's wealth or position. I can be stubborn and eccentric from my independent spirit, but I can be the kindest person for I am optimistic and I can cheer anyone up. I can have a wicked sense of humor for I have the ability to shock and amuse at the same time. I am charming, funny, and brainy, but I don't have to play games to fascinate. I enjoy playing the role of myself. In any romantic encounter my first contact has to be made through the mind. Before I can become physically stimulated, I must be intellectually stimulated. I am warm and outgoing, concerned for others, and I do have a romantic streak, but communication is what is important to me. Once my heart is open and my passions are directed toward a specific person, I am loyal and devoted. When I make a promise, I stand by my word. After all, that is what honor and idealism are about, and those are hallmark traits for me. lunch, dinner, coffee

• Hope
• Arkansas
• United States

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Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

I find it's really hard to fill out these profiles. It's like how much should I write about myself and does my personality really come across. And I hate that they don't let you explain your choice of answers in some sections. For example I think I have changed the what I am looking for section on here back from one choice to another multiple times just because I don't know what exactly people think each one means. I mean if I have I'm looking for a relationship does that mean people think I am desperate and going to jump at dating them. Then again casual dating sounds like a polite way of saying I'm looking for one night stands (which I'm not) and Dating but nothing serious sounds like hey I don't really want a relationship but I want you to spend money and time on me. So I guess my answer is that ideally I would like to be in a relationship but that I would like to meet a person and hang out and get to know them before I think about being in a relationship with them. I feel like there's this whole thing where if you go on a few dates with someone then all of a sudden you're in a relationship with them and in all honesty I think it takes more than hanging out with someone three or four times to get to know someone enough to know if you want to be in a relationship with them. Especially since everyone is on their best behavior during the first few dates.Ok so enough about that and more about me (which sounds really self centered I know) I'm not really much of an outdoors person unless I have someone with me. Then I am up for hiking, and Geo-caching, and going to the lake and dunes. I like camping, but I'm not the camp in a tent in the middle of nowhere type. Honestly though I like to read so feel free to message me with something more than "hey, how's it going?" Plus if that's all you message me...I more than likely won't actually answer you. I have my bachelors degree and I do eventually want to go back to college and get my masters degree in Library Science, but I'm not in any hurry to do that. Especially since I want to pay my student loans down a bit.As for my personality, I can be hyper at times, I tend to add my own sound effects to things, I think I have a great sense of humor but I can't tell jokes for the life of me because I laugh in the middle of them. Unfortunately I tend to go more toward humor than seriousness for a lot of occasions. Sarcasm is a great friend of mine sometimes, just because it's easier for me to be sarcastic about something than serious. Umm I have no clue how to accept compliments, I think I have gotten better but it still makes me feel a little awkward. Since I feel awkward when complimented I probably don't compliment other people enough. Although when I do I hope that people realize it's a genuine compliment and not just something I felt like I should say. Really coffee is always a good first date in my opinion. I mean you can either stay and drink it in the cafe or you can take it and walk around a park or lake or something as well. It works out well because it can be prolonged with a hey let's get something to eat if things are going well or it can be over when the coffee is gone. I like it because it gives people time to talk which going to a movie doesn't really allow for talking and getting to know a person. Plus I don't feel bad then if the guy wants to pay because hey it's like $4 at most, but at the same time I don't mind paying my way either if we go Dutch.Also I tend to feel more comfortable if I'm meeting up for coffee, lunch, or some sort of casual or day date. I feel like there are less romantic expectations affiliated with them. I have had some experinces where guys have assumed that since I have gone to dinner with them or met up with them that must mean that I am in a relationship with them and get possesive. Or they start to assume that I'm going to be all lovey dovey like we are in a romantic comedy. That's just not me. I suppose I should also mention here, that I always assume other people lead way more interesting lives than I do, so I rarely, if ever, actually initiate a call or text or e-mail to people. I will reply back or call people back, but I don't just call for no reason. This includes friends, family, and boyfriends. Which means that if we do end up meeting up, hitting it of and dating, and you decide to wait to see how long it is going to be before I get ahold of you. It will probably be about a week, and even then it will be me seeing if everything is ok just because I haven't heard from you in a while. (But what makes this relevant for this site right now, is that basically I'm not going to be the one who suggests we meet up, or be the one who initates the conversation. I may look at your profile a bunch and think wow this person sounds cool, but I more than likely won't e-mail you.)