Total users: 64,420,632 Online users: 231,627

Calantha, 31

Offline, last seen Tue, 25 Aug 2026 13:59:38

About Me

I’ve learned to be upfront about this: I like politics and lean to the left. If you are a member of the Tea Party, good luck in your dating search, but please move on. I’m fairly new to SLC. Still learning my way around. Who I am:Smart ass – Sometimes this gets me into trouble Funny – So I've been told. I think I’m just honestOptimist – I believe there is always a silver lining if you look hard enoughActive and social – But I also love to curl up on the couch and watch a movieFortunate – I have a job that I like. I have 2 great kids.Busy – I work full time. I am actively involved in my local Buddhist organization. I also volunteerEducated – I have my AS in Business administration and my BA in Professional WritingContradictory – I am a liberal who is also a navy veteran. I have a white collar job and also several tattoos. I am an introvert who also loves to go outWho you are:Intelligent – You don’t have to have a college degree. But you need to be able to keep up in an intellectual or philosophical conversationDriven – I don’t care what you do for a living as long as you have goals; personal and/or professional31ish to 37ish – I’m not a cradle robber and I don’t have daddy issuesTall(er than me) – I can’’m only 5’2” so this isn't usually a problemDone having kids – I have 2, and I can’t have more. If you have kids of your own, all the betterDrug Free – I don’t judge what my friends do. But I also know what I do and don’t want in my daily life and around my kidsNot LDS – I’m never going to change my religion for someone, so I don’t expect anyone else to change theirs for me. I drink coffee, and like to have a few drinks every now and then Anything else will largely depend on chemistry. If it’s there, it’s there. If it’s not, it can’t be forced. A first date should be to determine if there is chemistry or not. Lunch is good. It keeps expectations within reason. And if it is unbearably awkward, it's only lunch. Second dates should be longer. Once you know there's chemistry and you decide you want to get to know a person better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Shevaun

    Offline

    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I'm down to earth, looking for the same in the guy. I have a 6 year old son who is my world and I keep very busy with him:) I generally try to eat healthy and my son does too. I cook a lot from scratch and stay away from a lot of processed stuff although I do have a weakness for cannoli cake:) I enjoy fishing and I actually put the worm on the hook haha. I like to go to county fairs and outdoor festivals with my son. I love life and try to enjoy every moment of everyday.I believe in communication & respect to have a good relationship. Coffee is always good :)

  • Cathi

    Offline

    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I'm pretty laid back. Life's too short to sweat the small stuff. I enjoy hanging out at home whether it be with friends or just watching movies. I enjoy going out too. Either way I know I'll have a good time. I can make the best out of most situations. I've learned to surround myself with good people and positivity. I'm looking for a man who could be my bestfriend and the love of my life. I honestly havent dated much since my last relationship so im learning how to balance dating and being a single mom. I tend to be shy at first but I love to laugh and smile. I can be pretty silly sometimes too. I don't claim to be perfect and I've made my share of mistakes. But I'm loyal. I love to cook, watch movies, listen to music, go to the races, camp, fishing (even though I haven't gone in years), minature golf, and so many more. :-) Dinner so you have time to talk and get to know each other. Then do something fun to where you can just let loose with each other! Surprise me :-)

  • Jazmyn

    Offline

    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Not so sure about all this but here goes... I would love to find the guy that still knows what southern manners are. Who is honest, faithful, funny, loving, caring, silly, serious, independent and God fearing. I am a mom of 2 and I am not looking for a Daddy for them but someone, if and when it comes to that point, who will help me raise them in the light they need. I am pretty shy at first but once I warm up to you, you might ask me to hush. I am not afraid to get muddy, actually I prefer to get muddy if I'm riding 4-wheelers. I know when to be silly and when to be serious. I wear my heart on my sleeve, tend to be a giver probably too much of a giver. I will accept your kids with open arms as I expect you to do for mine. I'm not into the bars, partying, FWB, or flat out booty calls... I am too old for that lifestyle. Anything else feel free to ask

Follow Us: