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Carmelita, 31

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About Me

I don't like douche bags! aint nobody got time for that.im blunt and tell it like it is. im a giver not a taker. ive always taken care of myself and others. I like to treat my man like a king as long as he proves im his queenIm hilarious and very sarcastic.ive experienced more than some and have made even more mistakes . I dont judge and will always be understanding.Being a great mom is important to me. "dont try and church it up" make me laugh.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Twanda

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Hi there! Welcome to my profile~ I think that life is too short to be taken too seriously but also one should be open to finding love and a special connection, even if its online. Being a busy person I haven't had much luck trying to meet people and the dating pool is very small here, so I figured I'd give this a shot. I'm an optimist that needs to believe that my special person is out there and I need to at least meet the Universe half-way on making an effort in finding him. Please don't take it personally if I don't respond to you, I'm just super picky (and you all should be too with our millions of users, we need to narrow it down somehow!) I just know exactly the type of guy I'm looking for. I'm a pretty self-sufficient individual that loves my freedom, my many blessings in life and my family and friends whom I try never to take for granted. I am fortunate enough to have work that I love at a local hospital and I've got plans to graduate with a bachelor's degree in environmental and sustainability studies with a minor in anthropology from the U in about Spring ***. I have a few ideas what I'd like to do afterwards but we'll see what options may lie ahead when I get there. I'd also like to pursue a master's degree in a wildlife ecology conservation degree maybe about a year after this degree but I need time off to travel and get some experience in my field. This year I have taught myself how to crochet and I will be become one of the cliched 'single ladies with a cat' soon as I want to adopt a cat for my birthday present to myself this year. I have one beta fish right now as well. (We can't have dogs at my apt., but right now a dog would be too much responsibilty, down the line I'd love to have a few dogs that I can train to be therapy dogs and take to visit people in the hospital). My dream is to find my place that feels like home and accrue a small urban farm with a little collection of rescue animals and do the whole organic sustainable garden lifestyle, I'm not a full-on hippie, but I think that its a really necessary thing to be able to take care of yourself and keep connected with the Earth and nature. I'm equal parts city chick and nature lady. I've never been to Europe but I know I'll love it and want to stay a while. Maybe we can go together? Around here, I've become a complete hiking nut and go all year-round with my best friend and whomever will join us. I love music of all kinds with few exceptions (Country is just NOT in my blood thank you very much! Everyone has a soft spot for Johnny Cash though). Attending the operas every season is very important to me, you don't have to go or like it, but I can talk about the reasons why I love it for hours...you'll also find me dancing to rave/techno/trance/beats antique style music and I was pretty into punk rock/goth/rave music for much of my early 20's. Traveling, exploring and adventure are all in my blood as well. Timing for me currently is terrible to try and do much of it while I'm in school, but this summer I went on my first back-packing trip to Kaua'i's Na' Pali coast with my bestie and her two boys. Next year we're going to Australia and New Zealand to visit her Dad while he's still around (an important trip I'd say!). I've also been to a number of international locations but most of the really exotic ones were when I was younger. Time to also get my passport renewed! As much as I love traveling~ I also really love to have a place to call home and feel comfortable. I do like stability as much as the adventure. I'm really not an adrenaline junkie, in fact I'd rather stay home and watch movies or read a book than sky dive. I guess I'm kind of an oddball. Actually, really more of a nerd to be quite honest. I get really into Arthurian mythology, archaeology, science, animals...random things that most people don't really get into..and I'm totally attracted to like-minded individuals who have passions and don't care what other people think. There's just something so sexy about an intelligent guy with a sense of humor. Speaking of guys.... (If you can't show your teeth in your 'bait' photos, it makes me nervous of what's in there... I don't care if you work out every day or have a few extra places to love, I just care about your health and that you do too. If you can't find joy in some kind of physical activity (besides sex) than we might not have that much to connect over. I'm scared of bicycle riding around here so I don't (too many deaths and accidents) and I'm 'over' skiing as I did so much of it growing up, plus its expensive and I'd rather spend my time and money learning something new. I like rock climbing but haven't been able to do a ton of it (yet) and I like going to yoga when I can. I want to know about you, what you love about your life, what your goals and dreams are, if you get along with your family, if you have pets, passions, interests, strange but cool stories, have a zest for life but with a healthy measure of balance and grounding, if you are 'spiritual, but not religious' on some level, are not a litter bug or complete slob, if you care about yourself and have decent self-esteem (I can't tell you how many depressed guys I've dated, and after working so hard on myself I just need someone who's optimistic and decidedly happy in their life). If you are also finding that the thing you're missing in your life is someone to share it all with and to come home to. If things get serious, I'd be completely open to marriage and having a little family at some point, but no rush. I'm not baby crazy and there's no need to rush things, I just think I'd be really good at both if the right guy came along. I guess if you're that guy then you're into that possibility too.) sounds romantic, trecking off the beaten path to discover ancien Coffee / brunch date is the best for the very first meeting. Public spaces are good. Alcohol is not necessary to make a good impression. If you're a complete dork and we have chemistry, I'll probably like you.

  • Lola

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I am not hot or gorgeous. I dont have an amazing figure or a flat stomach BUT I'm me. I am caring, honest, straight forward sarcastic and loving. I have a big heart . I'm also very laid back and I go with the flow. I am no girlie girl and do like to have a good time.Like the headline says I am a shy gal. Once I get to know someone and feel comfortable with them then I open up and be my fun loving self. I don't play head games and expect the same in return. Please be honest from the start . I need a caring loving strong man who is a little ruff around the edges. I am who I am, you can like me or not I won't change. I am a 33 year old single mother and I will tell you that my boy means the world to me.Happy fishingPS. Good kissing is important to me. I am sure we can come up with something together.

  • Elna

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Once upon a time, I thought of the perfect description to write here. It was witty and engaging, with just the right amount of sarcasm (much like myself). This description would have caught the attention of just the type of guy I am hoping to meet, and it would have warned all the creepy staplers that I demand more than they have to offer... Alas, I managed to forget said description before I could transcribe it here, so this will have to suffice. In almost every profile, everyone wants to meet "an honest, caring person." So here is your dose of honesty: I don't know what I want. I haven't met him yet. So I don't know how to place my order. But until I figure that out, I'm just hoping to steer clear of the weirdos and have a good time. *I do realize my auto-correct changed "stalkers" to "staplers" in the preceding paragraph, but it made me laugh out loud (literally), so I left it that way.

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