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Allegra, 51

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About Me

Hi there :) I don't have much experience in the dating world. I was married for 17 years and been divorced for 5 or 6. I have one son, he's 21. I work a lot. Not by choice, lol. I keep busy and have a lot going on (this one is by choice) but will make all the time in the world, for the right one. I have a variety of interests. Love to play cards, board games, etc. I play on a triva team once a week. It sounds nerdish, but it's a lot of fun. I like to think of myself as a hybrid or work in progress. I dig sports. Love to go to Wings and Tiger games. GO BLUE!!Since I don't have much family left, I've been blessed to have a great circle of friends. Most of my pals have been my pals since grade school. They keep me busy. (another choice) lol. I'm looking for someone to compliment my life -- not be the sole pupose of my existence, lol. I think it's important to have a variety of interests together as well as apart. No one wants ***... do they ? Who knows, maybe I'm wrong and that's why I'm single, lol. Don't get me wrong. I don't want to grow old alone either. I just don't want to settle for the sake of settling. I'm fine being just me until he shows up ;0)I don't mean to sound rude, but please note my age preference. Somewhere close to my age works great for me. Thanks for reading my profile and good luck in your search. I'm pretty flex on this. Nothing elaborate. Maybe lunch or dinner ? I'm a coffee freak. That works for me as well. No movie for the first date. You can't get to know someone sitting quietly in a movie theater. (Huge fan of going to movies though, just not first time meeting.)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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