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Yolonda, 54

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About Me

Looking for you for long-term, passionate and loyal relationship. You are intelligent, open-minded, independent, witty, kind, compassionate and preferably very well-read, if not college-educated. Open-minded for discussions about politics and religion. I hope you like people watching, love laughing, and have diverse interests. Good grammar and the ability to use both paragraphs and the phone when communicating help! I hate lots of texting conversations to get to know someone. I also can't believe how many "great" guys want sexting/naked pics by the 3rd contact and a quick hook-up. If that's you, get a prostitute, and go away; far, far away!!! Not trying to be shallow, but you need to be physically FIT! IF you need to lose ***lbs, you are NOT fit. We all gain a few pounds as we age and a good intellect is the most important, but still....Me--looks: 5'7", ***lbs. Size ***if that helps. Body type is somewhat more athletic than average, but that wasn't an option.; blond highlighted brunette (hair is soooo variable!!). Known for my fashion sense, high heeled shoes and my legs, so if you like the always natural type women without high heels and any makeup you won't prefer me; though I do hike, ride horses, and bike without them! Likes: I like good wine and good food, but can't get obsessed with being a "foodie". I also enjoy live music (jazz/blues/rock/singer-songwriter) most anywhere. I really like hikes and camping; love riad trips exploring small towns with antiques and a nice lunch; seeing special exhibits in museums and educational talks at the Mind Science Foundation. Sitting in front of a TV is not a preferred activity--I'd rather read or go do something physical like hiking or dancing. When I'm in a relationship I do like evenings in, cooking, with a good movie (or whatever else we think is fun without a TV)! I actually have a nice TV, so if I watch it, I see Big Bang Theory, Bones, or shows on history, science, and sci-fi; occasional (not every weekend) footballl or basketball and racing--auto and horse. The rest of me: intelligent, active, considered funny, admittedly often intense (okay, sometimes neurotic) professional woman with two careers that I really love and which fuel my passion for life. Consider myself really very blessed that way, but I do work more than I'd like. What I do triggers bizarre jokes and come-ons, though, so I don't put them here! Love children, but never had any--my careers involve other people's children. My time off has to be full of laughter and fun--I never know what my friends and I might get up to. That's one of the pics. The space, the primordial feel of the mountains and the stars were unbelievable.--amazing. Have a list of "DONTs" for you--unfortunate, but necessary: Must not be married! Must not smoke cigarettes (cigars are cool), or need a 6 pack of beer, or lots of recreational weed, etc.to "unwind" everyday. Please be fit and active. Don't have a "hater" relationship with your ex- and/or kids--life has enough drama without those fights. Not predjudiced, as I have long-time best friends from all races/ethnicities, and all walks of life that I don't want to give up. I work with about 80 PhD's so insecurity also is not a good thing. I have good long-term men friends too, but if we wanted to date we would--so jealousy is a real turn-off. (And please don't contact me to chew me out if you don't like the statements above!)Finally: I am interested in dating, but with an eye to finding a last great love, which would mean the "M" word someday. If you think you will never re-marry then you aren't right for me. Doesn't mean right this minute; we'll see how that all important chemistry (mental and physical) goes. I would like to be friends first, so please NO requests for "random acts of intimacy"--yes that includes naked pics! Really think that meeting for a simple coffee or glass of wine is best--where conversation can be heard and some sense of potential chemistry can be assessed. A first date for me--that's next, when the chemistry is obviously there. And I'm a little old school--I don't want to set up the first date--be spontaneous and surprise me is best.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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