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Otelia, 54

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About Me

I have decided to try this dating thing again. I was on for several months, but became discouraged so bugged off. However; guys I work with said I should try again, so here I am...I am in a great place in my life. Have a great day pretty much everyday. Have great family and friends and do a lot with them.I am in a mans field, am with guys everyday so I hear a lot of stories, true or not, not sure, but fun to listen too. Love my job.I have a huge heart and would just like to share it with someone willing to be honest and share in return. Humor and music are good for the soul both make things seem not so bad.I make a better impression in person than anything I can write. I am confident most of the time but like most have my moments. I go to the gym, I do look forward to working out, I always feel better but I'm not where I think I should be, so I keep trying. I go up a few pounds I go down a few pounds, Hey 3 kids and 54 not easy. Damn, why can't there be a beer that doesn't cause weight gain? lolNot looking for perfect, just looking for 'perfect for me"I like to dance, wish I could find a partner to become better. Classic rock and country is what I listen to. I have a 5th wheel camper on a campsite that I own, enjoy being there often. Soon will have the truck to haul it and can start traveling this great beautiful country again. I think what is agreeable between two people.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Yolonda

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Looking for you for long-term, passionate and loyal relationship. You are intelligent, open-minded, independent, witty, kind, compassionate and preferably very well-read, if not college-educated. Open-minded for discussions about politics and religion. I hope you like people watching, love laughing, and have diverse interests. Good grammar and the ability to use both paragraphs and the phone when communicating help! I hate lots of texting conversations to get to know someone. I also can't believe how many "great" guys want sexting/naked pics by the 3rd contact and a quick hook-up. If that's you, get a prostitute, and go away; far, far away!!! Not trying to be shallow, but you need to be physically FIT! IF you need to lose ***lbs, you are NOT fit. We all gain a few pounds as we age and a good intellect is the most important, but still....Me--looks: 5'7", ***lbs. Size ***if that helps. Body type is somewhat more athletic than average, but that wasn't an option.; blond highlighted brunette (hair is soooo variable!!). Known for my fashion sense, high heeled shoes and my legs, so if you like the always natural type women without high heels and any makeup you won't prefer me; though I do hike, ride horses, and bike without them! Likes: I like good wine and good food, but can't get obsessed with being a "foodie". I also enjoy live music (jazz/blues/rock/singer-songwriter) most anywhere. I really like hikes and camping; love riad trips exploring small towns with antiques and a nice lunch; seeing special exhibits in museums and educational talks at the Mind Science Foundation. Sitting in front of a TV is not a preferred activity--I'd rather read or go do something physical like hiking or dancing. When I'm in a relationship I do like evenings in, cooking, with a good movie (or whatever else we think is fun without a TV)! I actually have a nice TV, so if I watch it, I see Big Bang Theory, Bones, or shows on history, science, and sci-fi; occasional (not every weekend) footballl or basketball and racing--auto and horse. The rest of me: intelligent, active, considered funny, admittedly often intense (okay, sometimes neurotic) professional woman with two careers that I really love and which fuel my passion for life. Consider myself really very blessed that way, but I do work more than I'd like. What I do triggers bizarre jokes and come-ons, though, so I don't put them here! Love children, but never had any--my careers involve other people's children. My time off has to be full of laughter and fun--I never know what my friends and I might get up to. That's one of the pics. The space, the primordial feel of the mountains and the stars were unbelievable.--amazing. Have a list of "DONTs" for you--unfortunate, but necessary: Must not be married! Must not smoke cigarettes (cigars are cool), or need a 6 pack of beer, or lots of recreational weed, etc.to "unwind" everyday. Please be fit and active. Don't have a "hater" relationship with your ex- and/or kids--life has enough drama without those fights. Not predjudiced, as I have long-time best friends from all races/ethnicities, and all walks of life that I don't want to give up. I work with about 80 PhD's so insecurity also is not a good thing. I have good long-term men friends too, but if we wanted to date we would--so jealousy is a real turn-off. (And please don't contact me to chew me out if you don't like the statements above!)Finally: I am interested in dating, but with an eye to finding a last great love, which would mean the "M" word someday. If you think you will never re-marry then you aren't right for me. Doesn't mean right this minute; we'll see how that all important chemistry (mental and physical) goes. I would like to be friends first, so please NO requests for "random acts of intimacy"--yes that includes naked pics! Really think that meeting for a simple coffee or glass of wine is best--where conversation can be heard and some sense of potential chemistry can be assessed. A first date for me--that's next, when the chemistry is obviously there. And I'm a little old school--I don't want to set up the first date--be spontaneous and surprise me is best.

  • Alaina

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Looking for Mr. Right! Must be genuine ! If your a cheater, move on! I'm looking for a long term relationship, and someone to share my life with! Someone who has a sense of humor and a value for life! We can chat on this site for a while, then if we feel we want to move on mabye we can start talking on the phone and if the interest is there we can decide. I'm not into hanging out at Tim Hortons, so we shall see!

  • Corynn

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I find it hard to write about myself but here goes. I am a person that looks at life as the glass is ***full. I enjoy being outside and taking in all the great things God has given us nature, water etc. I do enjoy going to the beach but I do have a pool and I know what is in it (no sharks LOL) and enjoy just hanging out there and having a nice BBQ. Whether it is Hot dogs, burgers or steaks cooking on the grill is the best. I enjoy family and friends and feel very fortunate to have many wonderful, caring, people in my life. I value their honesty and the fact that I can be myself around them is priceless. I don’t like confrontation and believe that life is too short to pretend to be someone you aren’t. If you are into the bar thing then I am not the one for you. If you would like to know more about me just drop me a note. Spend some time together to be able to talk and get to know each other where over dinner or coffee

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