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Alane, 53

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About Me

I’m a lady and love to be treated as one. I’m comfortable in jeans but also love being a girly girl wearing alluring dresses and sexy heels being desirable. I love to travel.....guess all that military moving around stayed in my blood! I love music, movies, sunsets and quite times. I cry at movies, I’m passionate, loyal, loving, caring and a true romantic. I love to spoil my man, wear his shirts and brighten his day by just walking into the room. Love to send cards or leave little notes just because and show him how much I’m thinking of him. I play no games and want no drama, been there, done that, and never want it again! I’m not into one night stands, young boys or someone wasting my time. At this point in my life, I’m ready to love again, settle down, and give one special man my heart forever. I love a clean cut men who smells good and takes care of themselves. I like a man who opens my door, pulls out my chair , sends cards or flowers just because and makes me smile. I’m looking for my lover, best friend and someone to have a great conversation with and to be a great listener. I want to feel his breath on my neck and feel the Goosebumps and butterflies in my stomach when he touches me. I want to lay in his arms all night and wake up to his breath in my ear. I want to spoil him and to always take care of him and be there when he needs a shoulder to lean on. He must be honest, loyal, and above all faithful. I’m looking for a man who believes in God, family and loves children. I'm also looking for a man close to my age. I want a man who looks at me as my father did with his love, compassion, and adornment for my mother, to be there with one another until our last breath on earth together. I want a man who just can’t live with me, but who can’t live without me. I want to long for one another when we are apart and count the minutes till he walks through the door with passion in his heart and eyes for just me. I want to always make him feel he is as special, loved, respected, and adored by me and as I am to him. If you are this man, I'm the woman that was meant for you..... I don't do the whole club scene any more but do enjoy still getting out and listening to good music. I'm happy to just walk hand in hand along the beach, hold one another on the sofa and watch a movie, quite romantic dinners, and spending time with family. It wouldn’t matter what we are doing as long as we are doing it together. I am only looking for a meaningful relationship that can grow into a lifetime of memories and great times.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jeri

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Friendly, loving, slightly impatient, kind, smart, inquisitive, genuine, serious, funny. I am kind hearted and quick witted. I love philosophical and religious discussions as well as laughing as much as possible. I try to live every day to the fullest and try not to take the important stuff for granted like life, health, loved ones.I titled myself 'sapiophile' from the drop-down menu because I didn't see anything I truly related to otherwise. I'm not that well-versed but I am very quick to catch on and love to learn. I like trying new things, going places I haven't been, meeting new people. I am happy being in a crowd of people or being alone. I am a very well adjusted person for the most part. But, lean toward being a type A personality. I have no weird kinks or habits (at least none that I have been made aware of). I hope to always be learning something in life - growing spiritually and mentally. I have no need to try and change or control anyone or for anyone to try to change or control me. I am told I do look like my photos (or better) and they are current. I'm not perfect but I am happy and I am real. I am fairly slender and active but am working on being more athletic.-seeing, etc.Perhaps I am one of the few but I have never been drawn to 'bad boys'. I like honest, kind, sweet men who are secure in who they are and don't have a need to prove something to others. I have always been a go-getter, taken care of others and myself and like people that have a lot of energy to put into life. I like people with a high IQ and an even higher EQ and just get life without a lot of explanation. I also like people who don't feel a great need to teach or correct others...I am looking for a man who loves life, loves people, is kind hearted, smart as hell and wants to find their lifelong mate. I am looking for a genuine friend/lover/mate someone who is looking to invest themselves in a long-term relationship. Someone who has some kind of active faith in God or a healthy inquisitiveness at least...I have a lot to give and am looking for someone that wants to give back. Meet after work casually for a walk on the beach or PB boardwalk or for a drink to see if there is a spark...

  • Ola

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    ok..here I go..I have been back on this site for about a month now, so I figured it was time to write a profile that more accurately describes me...I am a 52 yr old woman who is single, by virtue of my age..truth states I have been around the block more than once..that said people often guess me as younger..whether it is by my looks or personality Who knows?...some days I look and feel older..other days I look and feel younger..I prefer the younger days :)..as for my looks..well I am neither beautiful or ugly..somewhere in between I think..my weight is a little higher than I want it to be, but it is shrinking by the day:)..my hair colour changes quite often..right now I am a brunette...I am very much a girl which means I wear dresses because I like to, and I own a lot of shoes..I also have an extreme collection of nail polish..although I still only have 10 fingers and 10 toes..but that doesn't mean that I go into cardiac arrest if I break a nail...I have stated that I am looking for a relationship, and that is the end goal, but I have just ended one, so I realize I am not ready to jump into another one right away..finding a new friend is a good start..How to describe my life? Well I have known both agony and ecstacy..I prefer ecstacy :)been through a lot in the past few years....so doing some life changes and transitions...trying to be more introspective, get in touch mother earth, but always running from father time :)and moonlight should be shared:)...trying to spend a part of each day doing a little meditation...working on becoming a better version of me :)as for music I love all kinds from the memories of my youth, the Beatles, Eric Clapton, Springsteen etc..to the stuff that has just come out like Lady Gaga, Pink etc. and can be found dancing around my house like a bit of an idiot..I am open to trying new things and sometimes I have been know to be a bit bit of a daredevil..so be careful if you ask me out skydiving..I'll probably take you up on the offer..I am a lousy golfer, but I love it....summer rocks..winter is bleah...not sure what else to say..if any of this interests you send me a note :)P.S. I love to laugh..and I believe everyone has some good in them first meetings are always so awkward...maybe a coffee or drink in a busy area where if we run out of things to say we can people watch...going for a walk is nice too

  • Christin

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I would like to find someone who is interested in getting to know someone who is honest, loving and very family-oriented. I work full time in the financial area, but still like to cook dinner. Don't get me wrong, going out to dinner is nice also. My music taste is wide, I will listen to classic rock one day, country the next and then switch to pop and musicals. I take line dancing. It's fun and great exercise.Haven't done a lot of dating. Hope you give us a chance. A first date to me is somewhere quiet to sit and get to know each other better.

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