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Leyla, 31
United States, Alabama, Valley

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About Me

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting the same results. So I guess that means that I should at least update my profile some so that I can say that I am not doing the EXACT same thing over and over again. I must say that it is amazing that taking the time to sit and write about myself and suddenly, I am speechless. I mean really, those who know me, know that speechless is not something that I can normally claim. I think that I am a pretty funny person, some people may just think that I am weird. I think that I do a good job in balancing living a serious adult life with being a little whimsical at times. I also put travel as something that is very important to me. I tend to travel alone because I am stuck in that whole "everyone wants to travel with their partner" stage. I am at a point in my life where it is time to set new goals and I believe my next "big" goal is putting into works plans to take 6 months to a year away to travel but that is a little far off because I have a good career here and I need to respect that!What would I like to find in another person? Someone who shares my sense of humor, someone interested in the whole process of food- not just eating or avoiding "yucky" foods, someone who is open and open minded, someone ready to explore all possibilities in life and not just take what they believe has been handed to them, I like people who can find balance in their lives, I like people who take risks, someone who can understand my love for plans and my love for when the plan goes right out the window.;je ne sais quoi" isn't there, then I am not going to worry about wasting time- mine or yours. I appreciate the challenge that goes into writing a complete stranger but I really do not understand the "Hey what's up?" only messages. Or the inability to provide a good rapport in messages. If you send me a one liner, I will send a one liner back. If you message and act disinterested, I will act disinterested right back. Remember, you reap what you sow!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Classical
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