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Hey, I'm new on here and looking to see whats out there. Since I'm not really into the whole bar scene and no one seems to meet "the old fashioned way" anymore. It seeems that the new way to meet people is online, so here I am! lol Oh wait.....before you read any further....Liars and cheaters can stop reading now... I'm not interested! No one night stands either, I'm just not that kind of girl.Now that that's out there.....I'm a single mom, have been for a while, so there is no "ex drama" here! I'm just looking to meet someone nice that makes me laugh and that I can have fun with. Ultimately I would love just to find my someone special to share my time with. But we'll see :) I have a tendency to wear my heart on my sleeve, which means it tends to get hurt more often than I would like, but those are the scrapes and bumps of life. Without them I guess you wouldn't really know what you like and what you don't or even have a clear picture of what you want. It's acceptance.... lol..... ok that sounds very philosophical and all that lol but I guess you could chalk it up learning the hard way! Yes....soooo.......back to what I'm looking for...obviously someone that doesn't mind kids...after this long they've kind of grown on me! lol someone who is patient and understanding whose are huge must have qualities!!! You would have to be kind and caring, selfish people are a huge pet peeve of mine!!! And definitely someone who I can trust and can talk to about anything. If you think that's you....don't be afraid to say hello :) The first date is where all the magic happens, but what you're doing and where you are doesn't matter half as much as much as who you are with! Although, I don't really think the movies is a good idea, it's kind of hard to get to know someone when you're some place where you can't really talk. In the end it should be somewheres where you both feel relaxed and comfortable! There's enough pressure on first date night as it is ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Ok me.....Well I am artsy, silly, out going, and a bit crazy (crazy fun, not crazy stalker) I am a mom, so that is the a big part of who I am.I am easy going, and love to laugh. Life has changed a lot for me in the last few months, and I feel like im on the right path. I think I have finally figured out my type, but im open to other options as well. Im attracted to big personalities, sarcastically funny, confident, open minded men! Im not looking for some one who parties like they are 22, but I do like to have fun still! Someone intelligent is actually a requirement! Common sense can take a person far in life! I have grown up on the water, love boating, swimming, anything water related. Would love to sail some day, or own a boat and travel.Conspiracies are kind of my geeky side, im pretty passionate about certain topics lol. Music is another passion of mine, I play in a Steel band, dont worry if you dont know what that is, most dont, and it will give us something to talk about. :)I am not like everyone else, and in fact, try really hard not to be. I would like someone who thinks out side the box, someone with a big personality, someone who knows who they are. Everything we want in life is on the other side of fear! I am not looking for a "good time", so please dont ask me if I am. If you dont have a picture, im going to assume you are married, or have a gf!!!If you are looking for someone who knows who they are, and where they are going then maybe we should talk :) I hate picking!

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I've been on here before, and each time I get tired of the messages I receive. I'm sure you guys can relate too....I've heard stories. :) This time, I'll stay until I'm sure I've found someone worth keeping. I'm an all in kind of person. Casual dating isn't my style. I know what I want out of life, and expect a partner to be the same way. Don't say you want a relationship if you're afraid of commitment. Don't say you want something casual and then ask for forever. It's pretty much that simple.Single mom of three boys, ages 12, 6 and 4. (common question, so figured I'd just post the answer). I do work full time, but my hours vary between day and night shift, so it's not always super easy to find a night to go out, but I do make the effort for the right person.My musical taste is all over the map, and I'm always open to suggestions on new or favorite artists. Not a big fan of rap though.When I'm not at work, I'm usually outside doing something. I like to stay active by biking, walking, camping, fishing, swimming, etc.No kids and no work...I'm headed out with friends for a couple of drinks. Anything can be a perfect first date as long as you both walk away smiling, right?

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I have traveled the world and have met a lot of people so I am open minded and not afraid of changes, I welcome them! I like people of different backgrounds as I love to learn anything and everything, so I have friends living in other countries, which comes in handy when I travel :) My man has to like to travel as well as experience is nothing if I cannot share it with someone. I absolutely love skiing and try to do it every winter. I am flirty and fun. My friends tell me I have great sense of humor.). I came to States number of years ago coz I have never been and thought it could be great experience. I take life easy as I am very hard to offend as I prefer to laugh off mean people rather than ruin my day. I am at the point of my life when I want stability rather than games. I want a guy that gets my jokes, makes me laugh in return (sense of humor is the biggest turn on) and is a good friend I can count on. I can make him feel good about himself every day. I also think physical attraction is important as this is the first thing that we notice before getting to know people. I hate to be contained or dependant on someone, but if you see me as a partner rather than a sidekick, we will do just fine.If you say in your profile: wants to date but nothing serious or casual dating/ no commitment, I will not reply back; just as a side note. If you made a conscious effort to choose that option rather than neutral "dating", that spells out "looking for a hookup" to me. Like to be no pressure casual - like a coffee.

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