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Merla, 35

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About Me

I Am HONEST FEMALE LOOKING FOR A MAN THAT I CAN SHARE MY NEW LIFE WITH . I HAVE ALOT OF GOALS SET FOR MYSELF AND I'M WILLING TO LET A MAN EMBRACE THAT WITH ME . I HAVE A DAUGHTER THAT'S COMES BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE THOUGH, SHE IS WHAT MAKES ME GET UP IN THE MORNING AND GET THROUGH MY DAYS.I AM OPEN AND HONEST AND WILLING TO TRY NEW THINGS. I DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME TO ADD A MAN INTO MY LIFE CAUSE I WORK TWO JOBS, BUT IF I MEET THE RIGHT ONE I WILL MAKE TIME FOR HIM. I DO NOT WANT ANY MORE CHILDREN AT THIS TIME AND MY DAUGHTER IS UPSET, BUT ITS TIME FOR ME TO START LIVING MY LIFE. I WENT THROUGH A RUFF MARRIAGE AND I DIVORCED HIM IN FEB AND BEEN SEPARATED FOR TWO YEARS WITHOUT DATING AND NOT BY CHOICE, I LOST EVERYTHING SO I WORK HARD TO GET EVERYTHING BACK ON TRACK AND WOULD LIKE A MAN TO ENDURE THESE THINGS WITH ME SO THAT WE CAN ACHIEVE GOALS TOGETHER AND MAKE A GUD LIFE FOR BOTH OF US. I'M WILLING TO LEARN AND ACCEPT THINGS ABOUT THAT PERSON I DONT AGREE WITH CAUSE IM SURE THERE ARE THINGS THAT PERSON WONT LIKE ABOUT ME CAUSE I LIKE TO RUN THINGS LOL LOL. i LIKE R&B MUSIC AND SLOW JAMS AND A LITTLE RAP!!! I LIKE SPENDING TIME WITH MY FRIEND OR MAN DOING CANDLE LIGHT DINNERS , WATCHING MOVIES AT HOME CUDDLEING ON THE COUCH , OR COOKING DINNER FOR EACH OTHER SOUTHERN FOOD ALL THE WAY BABY!! SWIMMING IN THE POOL, GOING TO THE MOVIES AND BOWLING.!!!!!!!! UPDATE AS OF ***!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! do not try to holler at me if you are in a relationship but you're having disagreements or are split up if you are f***** married or you're searching area codes because you're in town on business trying to find A F buddy I am NOT the one I am NOT looking for none of those above so warning I find out everything so if you want to lie because you're just trying to get your stuff wet i will destroy you so remember that when you're trying to play games with females that are trying to be serious on a website tired of the little kids s*** . I just want to meet somebody that I can go out with and have a good time I haven't been out no where really in a very long time. My first date would be dinner and then a movie. Then maybe go somewhere for a drink, and end it with a kiss. IT WOULD BE A DECISON WE MAKE TOGETHER REALLY ITS SOMETHING THAT WE BOTH AGREE ON

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Christi

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Let's get some things out of the way first, we'll all feel better.1. I will still block you if you send me random shots of your man parts. That hasn't changed.2. I will NOT EVER meet anyone at a hotel, ever. Understand that I am a mother, my child depends on me exclusively, and I will never risk my own safety like that. If you can't comprehend that, please move on. If I want to meet, it will be a public place or not at all.3. In my opinion, it is the rudest thing EVER to have expressed an interest in someone (with both parties messaging back and forth multiple times) and then just stop responding. Do NOT be cowardly. Use the consideration and respect your Mama should have taught you, and speak the F up. A simple, "I'm sorry, but this isn't working for me" or "I've met someone else" is much less hurtful and less rude than just *** Now, about me. I'm different. I'm actually one of the few good girls left in this world. I'm a giver; I love making the people I care about happy. Unfortunately, this also makes me a great target being taken for granted and has caused me to be hurt. I'm honest, and if you're not, move on, cause if you lie to me, that's the end, I'm done. I'm very affectionate when in a relationship. I'm not a super girly girl. I love getting my toes and hair done and sometimes love dressing up, but I love lounging around in my sweats, hiking, or kayaking too. I love tattoos; No, it's definitely not a rooster and no, it's not on my arm...I keep getting weird, random questions.What I'm looking for?•Honesty• Loyalty• Communication. This and the first two go hand in hand. If you don't want someone anymore, tell them. •Someone who takes care of their body. •Make me laugh. Humor is second only to intelligence in the sexiness factor.•Speaking of intelligence, please be smart. And I don't believe you have to have a college degree to be intelligent.•Be able to take care of your responsibilities. Have a job (preferably a career), pay your bills.• Openminded•Be an affectionate person. As I said, I'm very affectionate when I'm with someone. If that bothers you, or you can't/won't reciprocate, I'm not your girl. As far as looks, I don't really have a type. I do, however, seem to have a weakness for guys with full lips, military types, guys with tattoos, and Jax from Sons of Anarchy. ;-) I also have a tendency to end up being attracted to guys younger than me. I want to eventually find the right one. While I have serious doubts about finding that person on here, I'd like to at least meet some new, hopefully cool, people.And if you message me and tell me how exhausted you were after reading my "book of a profile", don't be surprised if I don't respond. I am a writer at heart (for my pleasure not my career) and I can be wordy at times. Don't like my profile? Move on to someone with whom you'll have more in common. It is that simple.

  • Hye

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Getting back out here to see what's here. I work as a market research analyst. I love to cut up and have fun, but also know when it's time to be serious. I like going out but I also love staying in for a movie n snuggle nite, or just a movie if yo aren't big on snuggling. I would like to get to know someone who can balance me and learn to like me as I am with our without faults. Everyone isn't perfect and we all must accept each other with the good and bad. I love art, culture, great music...I am an avid music lover and love all types. Drama isn't acceptable, been there, done that. I want to explore one day, and travel. God made the earth beautiful so I would like to see it all one day. I'm the type of girl who will make you breakfast in bed, while you are still asleep, and do sweet things of that nature. I have values and expectations of my own self and life. I don't need a mother or daddy, I have one already, and they are plenty enough. I have a nice and nephew are the apples of my eyes (they are just too darn cute). I am huge on the beach, I LOVE THE FREAKIN BEACH...lol. It is blissful and relaxing and a place to relax my busy mind. My physical body isn't perfectg and I am not a Barbie doll. God made me with curves and some hips, so if there are issues, I'm sorry and apologize that you are so *** think that, that is what totally makes a person attractive, bc that's not true. If we all looked the same, this world would be boring and not colorful. I just want someone to share life with, take the good with the bad, be normal, make dinner and have fun. Simple as that. If you think we may have something in common, then mesg me. I am not a hard ass, stuck up and am very friendly. I am a good listener and a great friend, and have a heart of gold. Sometimes too good of a heart, but that'sthat's me :) I love the ocean, the mountains, I just love traveling!!Sometimes I enjoy the nigtlife scene, while some nights are ok out doing different things, maybe a dinner date with each other or another fun couple.Love music and movies, amusement parks or attractions... I am new to thinking again lol...hit me up, I'm a great person, with a good heart and ready 4 adventure!! I'm not racist one but...just don't date outside my race... Depends on the person..but definitely talking and getting to know each other is a must...

  • Yessenia

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I am a fun loving person, Im not hard to get along with I have 2 kids ages 8 and 7 they are my angels. I live day to day taking care of them. I dont have much but what I do have I cherish it. I guess my friends would say im the shy type, but can be wild when I feel the mood. Im looking for my one true love that can take all my sadness away, if there is anything else you want to know just message me im open to whatever you want to know. Hanging out maybe take ride on some back road, talking and getting to know one another's interest and whatever go's from there

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