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Ricarda, 31

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About Me

On each step of my journey, through each mistake and every success, I learn more about who I am and what I want. Now that I am 31, now that I have gotten to know and love myself, now that I am no longer afraid to be who I am despite what everyone thinks I should be, I am ready.I am a mother of 2. I work second shift in a call center. I write poetry, I read a lot of spiritual "self-help" I am fascinated by quantum physics, the law of attraction, aligning with the Tao, pursuing a peaceful path.-- I am studying the Tao, but incorporate beliefs and practices of Buddhism, Hinduism, and Paganism into the individual tapestry I have woven for myself. I love all kinds of music, anything that touches my soul.;I don't watch TV shows, but I do enjoy documentaries, indie films, horror movies (psychological thrillers, not gross gory zombie or chainsaw movies) and comedies. I am a Gemini and I definitely fit the profile. I am a vegetarian.I don't know what label to put on myself. I feel like whatever category I put myself in, someone is going to argue that I don't belong there. I considered myself bisexual forever and honestly even after I realized I was never going to "find the right man" who could make me feel like a woman could, I kept trying. I told myself I could marry my best friend and it would be "good enough" and I was wrong. Twice. I know I want to be with a woman. A SINGLE woman -- I don't want to be your good time on the side. I don't want to be a third to a married couple. Obviously the perfect first date will depend on the girl, our connection, and our mutual interests.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sharri

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 28-38

    I lost a few friends during my last relationship and the majority of my other friends have families so being spontaneous doesn't really workout to well these days. It would be nice to meet some new faces and broaden my horizons a bit :)I love animals and the outdoors. I like all types of music and love to dance. I have a pretty open mind. I can be interested in a lot of different things, maybe even things i don't know about yet. That's where you come in. :) I'm looking to get out of my comfort zone a bit so it might take a little coaxing at first, but you only live once right? I'm a responsible and independent person. Hoping to find someone with the same traits. I appreciate a good sense of humor and love to laugh. I've realized one thing that stays with me the most about people is their laugh. It always brings a smile to my face. It would be nice to find a girl with a hint of tomboy. I enjoy dressing up, but at the same time i don't mind getting a little mud on my tires. One thing i can't stand is two faced lairs. Big fan of common sense! I admit I like cheesy romance stuff. I'm not the most creative person in the world, but i try. I plan to go back to school for Zoology and one day be working with tigers and primates. Therefore I'm not sure where my roots will decide to take ground. There are many sides to me so on the contrary: what you read is not all you get ;) (I don't mean that in a batsh*t crazy way lol)I hear that great relationships start with great friendships...And great friendships can start from anywhere :-}Looking forward to sharing new adventures! Our options are endless...

  • Jong

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 32-42

    It is hard to explain oneself on here. You can read what everyone has to say but really none of it matters until you meet and know if there is a connection or not. But here is a little about me..... I'm down to earth and laid back county girl. I like going out and I like staying home. I work really hard at my job and love to get away on the weekends. I have dogs and a horse and always love my time at the barn. I also enjoy fostering dogs and work with a couple rescues. I really love doing anything outdoors, but especially riding. I also enjoy traveling and would love to find someone adventurous to share those experiences with.I enjoy all kinds of music, from country to rock to pop but will listen to most anything. I come from a very musical background and needless to say I always enjoy going out to listen to live music. I love to be spontaneous and I love to plan things too. I really enjoy amusement parks and roller coasters. I love the water and anything to do with it. My family has a lake house so going up there and boating and swimming are always fun. I also really enjoy festivals and fairs and such in the summer months or catching a Cubs or Bewers game. In the winter winter I love to go see the Blackhawks a few times.Still interested after reading my rambling? Say hi. :) Something causal where we can talk; coffee or dinner. Or anything really laid back so we can get to know each other.

  • Ashlee

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 29-39

    Hey there. I am looking to meet new people and let things happen naturally, whether that be friendship or more. I am into playing tennis, writing, riding the bike I just inherited and learning to play disc golf. I love hanging with my friends and having intense conversations about any and everything. If you are looking to hang out, let me know. Just hanging somewhere that we can talk

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