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Ricarda, 31

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About Me

On each step of my journey, through each mistake and every success, I learn more about who I am and what I want. Now that I am 31, now that I have gotten to know and love myself, now that I am no longer afraid to be who I am despite what everyone thinks I should be, I am ready.I am a mother of 2. I work second shift in a call center. I write poetry, I read a lot of spiritual "self-help" I am fascinated by quantum physics, the law of attraction, aligning with the Tao, pursuing a peaceful path.-- I am studying the Tao, but incorporate beliefs and practices of Buddhism, Hinduism, and Paganism into the individual tapestry I have woven for myself. I love all kinds of music, anything that touches my soul.;I don't watch TV shows, but I do enjoy documentaries, indie films, horror movies (psychological thrillers, not gross gory zombie or chainsaw movies) and comedies. I am a Gemini and I definitely fit the profile. I am a vegetarian.I don't know what label to put on myself. I feel like whatever category I put myself in, someone is going to argue that I don't belong there. I considered myself bisexual forever and honestly even after I realized I was never going to "find the right man" who could make me feel like a woman could, I kept trying. I told myself I could marry my best friend and it would be "good enough" and I was wrong. Twice. I know I want to be with a woman. A SINGLE woman -- I don't want to be your good time on the side. I don't want to be a third to a married couple. Obviously the perfect first date will depend on the girl, our connection, and our mutual interests.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Caroll

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 28-38

    what I enjoy in no particular order: Art, Painting, Live Music, Spirituality, Woodworking, Learning, Improving, Loving, Good conversation, Fixing things (not people!) Lol, My faith, Physical Health...Also important to know: I'm actively and seriously considering relocation to the East Coat within the the next year:)Last but not least: I am a serious type at times, a deep Thinker/Nerd and information sponge...however I think I balance that out quite well with a positive outlook, goofiness, my love for fun and active/outdoor activities, and an ability to make people smile. I believe in healthy unconditional love. I believe in Love like "The Notebook" minus the unnecessary drama;) I was raised by Parents who have been committed to each other for over 40 years and are still in love. I am hopeful, and a huge fan of inspiring others and being inspired. I believe trials in life are often the greatest opportunities to learn and refine ourselves. Living in the moment is a big seller, but if we forget the past, and *** future, the present can be quite empty. Life is too short to settle for anything or anyone just for convenience sake:) The park, the ocean, or dinner on a patio at night with light ambiance and wine ;)Orrrr....meeting up at a local cafe...taking a walk, sharing good conversation, with coffee or chai tea in hand:))

  • Mariella

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 29-39

    Ladies, lets just be real, these introductions are not the best eye catchers. We all know that we look at the picture then read a little bit right? With that being said, here are a few things about me. I listen to all kinds of music, club music being the most frequent listened to. I am a full time student/ forklift operator/ Navy reservist, but still unsure of my end result with school. I'm hoping to find the right direction soon. I am very easy to get along with, love cuddling up on a chilly night watching movies, or spending the warm evenings outdoors. My temperment is very mello. I dont do well with attitude or being controlled. My life is driven by priorities, job, paying the bills, family, tending to responsibilities. I am very outgoing and love to meet new people. My hectic lifestyle is not ideal for having all the fun, but I am getting to the end of my school experience, so that will free up lots of time.I think that is about it for now, feel free to ask me anything. These blogs about people always seem so vague, as we tend to not boast our valuable assets that make up our character. Looking forward to chatting with you. I am up for anything, so long as good conversation exists.

  • Dulcie

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 30-40

    A hopeless romantic who is pretty upbeat, financially responsible, and light-hearted. I tend to lend a helping hand when appropriate so if you do not have a compassionate heart we are not a match.

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