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Debera, 35
United States, Alabama, Selma

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I'm short, simple, and sweet. I don't lie or play games and I'm not here to find a hook-up. I'm real and I will be honest about everything and very open about who I am. I would prefer to meet someone who is just as open and vibrant as I am because it would make things so much easier. If you're the type that stays closed and not value how important communication is, or if you're just a dead head,please don't contact me. I don't do drugs, I don't smoke, I don't hang out at the local bars/clubs because I'm not much of a social drinker and I don't like the having a hangover, and I'm disease free...yay! I am not a zombie so you don't have to worry about me eating your brains as I would prefer you pique my interest with it than have me find that your brain taste like poo. (LOL!) Oh and you must have a sense of humor. If you can't get down and get goofy, I'd guess I would get charged for murdering boredom. I enjoy making others around me laugh. Last week i had a nasty wreck on my bike (no damage done to it thank goodness). My leg should've *** the impact but I was very fortunate not to have sustained serious injuries. A teenage boy twice my size ( more like an ogre) goofing off with this friends sprinted backwards right into me but he took 99.99% of the impact and the curb but my leg is like a living mood ring...ever changing colors! Now if I add glitter, maybe I can say its a nebula or supernova. I get weird and goofy like this as I try to see through to the best of the worst of things....as if looking for the light at the end of the tunnel...so laughing at myself is not hard. I just don't like wasting my time meeting tight-asses and jerks here -- I'm going to be brash about putting that out there. As for appearances go, I would say that I'm more of a girl-next-door type. I stand at 5'1" and I weigh around ***but I look more like 140. Another perk about me is that I just recently got into cycling this summer and I'm loving it. Bought a mountain bike in june and have been riding the hell out if since. In the near future I do plan on getting a road bike. I wanted to do something different for myself and have something fun to do at the same time. For an update, I recently participated in a sprint triathlon on a relay team for the first time and i had a blast. I served 9 yrs in the army, though ive been out for nearly 10, however, i don't run due to a bad knee, and don't swim because i just panic if the water is too dark, but i have restored my love of being outdoors once again. I don't consider myself perfect as I will say straight up that I have my flaws, however, I will be honest and show just as much respect as you show me. As I come across many of the profiles here on this site, I may take a moment and send a message -- if I do write you, take it as a compliment that I found something interesting in your profile but don't feel pressured that you have to write back. If you're interested in getting to know someone who is real, genuine, and sincere, all you have to do is just ask. I'm pretty much looking for someone in the slow lane. Someone grounded; someone who knows who he is; someone who knows that although life itself isn't easy but works hard at it; someone who is brave; What I find disappointing lately in our human race is the short-comings and lack of respect and apathy we have for one another. The main goal that I have is to meet a super-bad-ass friend. You know, the kind of friend that's there for you when they say they'll be there. I find that friendship is one of the most important things to build upon in any kind of relationship. So with that said, if the sparks aren't there, hopefully I've made a new friend :)Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken. ***NietscheWTF Facts: Psychology claims--Pain makes you stronger, Fear causes you to become Braver & Heartbreak makes you Wiser.Cake -- Open BookIt's a tragedy when I cut my finger. It's a comedy when someone falls in a sewer and dies. -- author unknownogres -- great for breaking your falls to the curb when avoiding getting hit by cars. a casual, calm environment where there's not much noise going on. I'm open to anything. thanks :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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Canadian English Adventure Comedy Family & Kids Martial Arts Sci-Fi
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