Total users: 50,822,965 Online users: 183,121
Debera, 35
United States, Alabama, Selma

Online

About Me

I'm short, simple, and sweet. I don't lie or play games and I'm not here to find a hook-up. I'm real and I will be honest about everything and very open about who I am. I would prefer to meet someone who is just as open and vibrant as I am because it would make things so much easier. If you're the type that stays closed and not value how important communication is, or if you're just a dead head,please don't contact me. I don't do drugs, I don't smoke, I don't hang out at the local bars/clubs because I'm not much of a social drinker and I don't like the having a hangover, and I'm disease free...yay! I am not a zombie so you don't have to worry about me eating your brains as I would prefer you pique my interest with it than have me find that your brain taste like poo. (LOL!) Oh and you must have a sense of humor. If you can't get down and get goofy, I'd guess I would get charged for murdering boredom. I enjoy making others around me laugh. Last week i had a nasty wreck on my bike (no damage done to it thank goodness). My leg should've *** the impact but I was very fortunate not to have sustained serious injuries. A teenage boy twice my size ( more like an ogre) goofing off with this friends sprinted backwards right into me but he took 99.99% of the impact and the curb but my leg is like a living mood ring...ever changing colors! Now if I add glitter, maybe I can say its a nebula or supernova. I get weird and goofy like this as I try to see through to the best of the worst of things....as if looking for the light at the end of the tunnel...so laughing at myself is not hard. I just don't like wasting my time meeting tight-asses and jerks here -- I'm going to be brash about putting that out there. As for appearances go, I would say that I'm more of a girl-next-door type. I stand at 5'1" and I weigh around ***but I look more like 140. Another perk about me is that I just recently got into cycling this summer and I'm loving it. Bought a mountain bike in june and have been riding the hell out if since. In the near future I do plan on getting a road bike. I wanted to do something different for myself and have something fun to do at the same time. For an update, I recently participated in a sprint triathlon on a relay team for the first time and i had a blast. I served 9 yrs in the army, though ive been out for nearly 10, however, i don't run due to a bad knee, and don't swim because i just panic if the water is too dark, but i have restored my love of being outdoors once again. I don't consider myself perfect as I will say straight up that I have my flaws, however, I will be honest and show just as much respect as you show me. As I come across many of the profiles here on this site, I may take a moment and send a message -- if I do write you, take it as a compliment that I found something interesting in your profile but don't feel pressured that you have to write back. If you're interested in getting to know someone who is real, genuine, and sincere, all you have to do is just ask. I'm pretty much looking for someone in the slow lane. Someone grounded; someone who knows who he is; someone who knows that although life itself isn't easy but works hard at it; someone who is brave; What I find disappointing lately in our human race is the short-comings and lack of respect and apathy we have for one another. The main goal that I have is to meet a super-bad-ass friend. You know, the kind of friend that's there for you when they say they'll be there. I find that friendship is one of the most important things to build upon in any kind of relationship. So with that said, if the sparks aren't there, hopefully I've made a new friend :)Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken. ***NietscheWTF Facts: Psychology claims--Pain makes you stronger, Fear causes you to become Braver & Heartbreak makes you Wiser.Cake -- Open BookIt's a tragedy when I cut my finger. It's a comedy when someone falls in a sewer and dies. -- author unknownogres -- great for breaking your falls to the curb when avoiding getting hit by cars. a casual, calm environment where there's not much noise going on. I'm open to anything. thanks :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian English Adventure Comedy Family & Kids Martial Arts Sci-Fi
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Laylah from Selma | Woman | 33 years old | Libra
    Laylah

    Online

    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I am enjoying being single and in the dating scene again after getting divorced. I have a 5 year old daughter and she lives with me most of the time. Dating is fun, really fun, but lets face it at 33 years old I am really hoping to find that guy that is everything I am looking for, the guy that I can share the rest of my life with. I am close with my family and they are a big part of my life, it would be perfect if I found someone that appreciates that and is as close to theirs as I am. I have great friends and always have the best time whenever I am with them. They are all very awesome people, and are hoping that this time around I have more social guy by my side :) Fun Toni Fact: My eyes are like a chameleon, they change to different shades of green or blue. After work on those Fridays my bag is packed and my car heads in that direction.Sushi Junkie. Movie Buff. Concertgoer. Theater Watcher. Penny Slot Loser. Chi Town Sports "Fan" (fan of the fun, friends and tailgating). Terrible Karaoke Singer (but still love going!). Beer Drinker. Game Night Winner! Vacationer. Crafty Gal. TV Series Watcher. Bargain Hunter. Always Smiling. Most Importantly .... RelaxerJust a word of advice. If you are not smiling in your pictures, how am I supposed to know that you are a happy person..... I can't speak for all women, but I know that I like and look for a smile :DI don't talk to people that do not have a profile picture or only one photo, I watched too many episodes of catfish I guess. Seems like all my first dates are always meeting for dinner or coffee ;) I am not one that thinks the first date needs to be over the top exciting. This is where we get to know each other, and as long as it is a place that is not loud so we can actually hear each other we will be fine. We can come up with something better together for the next date ;)

    Chat
  • Gabbie from Selma | Woman | 35 years old | Virgo
    Gabbie

    Online

    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I think I'm solar powered. I'm a country girl at heart but I have friends scattered all over the country that I love to visit. I am a very active person who loves the outdoors. I work out most every day. I am always up for a good adventure. In the summertime, I think if the sun is shining that I need to be near water (hanging at the lake, toes in the sand on the beach, skiing, swimming, scuba diving, snorkelling, riding the boat, kayaking...) I also enjoy hiking, snow skiing, and a good sports game. I believe that God's plan is the best and try really hard to let Him have control; I enjoy mission trips and serving others. I am a witty person who can usually come up with a smart comment. Experiences in life have made me a very independent person. I don't necessarily "Need" someone but I "want" some one to enjoy life with. I believe that true friends are meant to share good times and bad; and I have been blessed with some of the greatest. I really don't know what to think about this online stuff, but the older I get, the harder it becomes to meet quality people. I tend to pursue friendships first and figure anything else can build off of that if it is meant to be.Just a few things that have become my pet peeves; they are not necessarily all bad things (and a few are things that people can't really help)... please do not contact me if any of the following apply to you: you can't make it through a message or a sentence without the "text acronyms" (that is my word for lol, lmao, ... you get the idea); you're less than 5 inches taller than me; you're non religious (there is no way we could ever see eye to eye on fundamental beliefs); if you're married; if you just want a sexual encounter***night stand/ naughty girl. Enjoy time together outdoors or with a group of people watching a good game... food is always a plus:)

    Chat
  • Gregory from Selma | Woman | 34 years old | Aquarius
    Gregory

    Online

    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am a down to earth,fun,loving,caring,honest affectionate person. I work in the nutrition department in the hospital as a chef/cook. I like to go out for dinner, have a few drinks, cooking, baking, bowling, movies, road trips, sightseeing, staying in and watching tv, even sports, or even shopping with that special someone. Canoeing or paddle boating is also a fun activity I enjoy to do. I like to have a social life and go out from time to time.I am looking for a relationship. Wants to find a guy that is ready for a relationship. Send me a *** and we can get a chance to know each other more! A alcoholic or non alcoholic drink. Somewhere will we will be able to talk and get to know each other. Even playing a game of pool or bowling. Or what ever we decide on doing.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: