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Kandi, 32

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About Me

If you aren't willing to share a picture, I'm not interested in chatting. . I sucked it up and put my pictures out there....just sayin'If you take issue with what I'm looking for/think I am too 'demanding', there's no need to message me and spew hatred. Why even waste your energy? We can happily go about our separate lives....Not looking for FWB. I'm not saying I am a total prude, but I don't need to hook up with a bunch of randoms to feel validated. I'm a one guy kind of girl. (Obviously that does not include meeting guys for coffee, because I'll have to meet a few people before I find what I am looking for.)I'm basically looking for someone that isn't a total douche. If you are genuinely a good person that treats others with respect, that goes way further than looks in my book. I tend to consider my partner's feelings when making decisions. I would expect that if you want to date me, you have the ability to consider the feelings of another person. (Chill out guys, that doesn't mean I want to control your life, but if you are totally self-absorbed, it won't last long)I surround myself with friends that are awesome and can speak their minds. If you prefer someone that gets in line with your way of thinking, I'm not that girl. That isn't to say that I will fight you on everything, it just means that sometimes we won't agree. Hopefully you are able to have calm discussions about things. Deal breakers:Liars - I feel like this goes without saying.Drugs- if you use them, chances are I won't be hanging around youDrunks - drinking once in a while is alright, but all the time...I'm not interested. Abuse - if you have ever raised your hands to an ex, I am not interested in dating you.Avoiding family - my family is pretty awesome, if you don't want to spend time with them, then you won't be dating me. Hopefully you have a family that you like to hangout with as well. Sad Pandas - I'm not here to fix your problems. If you have a 'poor me' attitude, I'll lose interest really quick.Drama - I really hate playing games. (unless it's board games. If it's board games, I'll probably win.)Anyhow, that's pretty much it. I'm sure I'll update this at some point. Drop me a line if you want. If not, happy fishing :)In the meantime, I'll be scrolling through the 'Meet Me' feature and working up the courage to say hello. Whatever we decide that is PG in nature.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Camille

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    ...you can make a girl do anything...Well, here we go! I'm here in the search of something fun, something new, something to build on, something real. Could you be it?I've been here before and have had both good and bad experiences but, that's life right? I believe in taking chances and making life what you want it to be. Like everyone else, I've been burned in the past but, I still believe in love and chemistry and laughter. I'm smart, funny, and loyal to a fault. I can be challenging and downright stubborn at times, and I'm looking for someone who can keep up and keep me laughing at the same time! I'm typically drawn to emotionally strong, funny guys and dig a guy who'll be sweet with me and a rock star with his buds. I work very hard at a career that I love...while definitely making the most of my down time: love spending an afternoon with my monster-dog, dinners with my friends and taking in live music (anytime, anywhere!)If you think we're a match, bait your hook and drop a line my way (too cheesy? Hmmm). :-)

  • Sequoia

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Will start off with the obvious... I'm all kinds of awesome ;) lol Honestly, you have to toot you're own horn cause no one else will!!! Seriously though, I'm far from perfect but have plenty of amazing qualities a man would be proud of having in his partner. Am I overly confident? No, but I do know my worth and am looking for someone who would value that worth.I'm looking for someone who would be as excited about me as I would be about them :) I'm at a point in my life where I'm sure of what I want and am ready to start that next chapter in my life. I'm looking for that someone to share life's simple pleasures with. My reason for choosing undecided/open as my answer as to whether I want children... I love kids. They are special little creatures ;) As long as children are part of the family unit, I'm open to whatever way it happens... Either my partner already has children or I have one of my own. PS... please don't think that I'm solely attracted to muscular/athletic guys, I'm not :) Lets be honest, the first time you meet someone isn't really a first date. It's like an informal interview!!! Meet up, grab a drink or whatever and decide if this person is someone you'd like to get to know better. If not, interview over ;) if so, then plan a follow up interview...or that first date :)

  • Ulrica

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am looking for a man who is confident, fun, stable, and either a (non-creepy or overly religious) Christian or accepting of the fact that I am. I enjoy being outside, so being willing and able to do outdoor activities is pretty important. I am happy with my life and with who I am, so I am not looking for someone "to complete me" but, rather, someone who I can enjoy life with. I am looking for a partner; someone I can cuddle with, talk to, enjoy activities with, and maybe share the rest of my life with... It seems necessary to get a few things out of the way in an effort to not waste your time, or my own... **If you are interested in someone who cheapens themselves by sending out naked pictures in an effort to get your attention, I am not that person. **If you aren't interested in getting together and connecting in person, don't bother contacting me. **My kids are older (16b, 14g, 10b), with solid male role models, so I am not looking for a "daddy"... I've done a great job raising fantastic kids. **We all have baggage we bring to the table, but if you haven't found closure in your previous relationship please don't use me as an emotional distraction from dealing with it.I am loyal and dedicated... a highly passionate person, honest and direct sometimes to a fault. I work hard and am a lot of fun to be around. I like to get life's "business" out of the way to keep from taking up the time of living and enjoying what there is to enjoy with the time we have. I am independent, difficult, sarcastic, and the best friend you could ever ask for! I will do anything for those around me. I love life and having fun and am often looking for ways to fill the hours of my day... I love to be outside when it's nice and equally enjoy cuddling on the couch to a good movie. I'm the kind of woman who is just as comfortable eating barbecue in my flip flops as I am in a formal dress and a five-course meal. I get along and have fun with anyone, in any situation! I am strong in my Biblical faith, though I am pretty anti-religion... I'm willing to explain that if it's important enough for you to ask.I love music of all types... it all has a time and a place... but you will usually find me listening to some kind of rock or country! Anything that gives us the opportunity to get to know each other. I think it's always a good idea to do something fun as it helps to at least limit, if not eliminate, the awkward factor.

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