• Ragland
• Alabama
• United States

Online

Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

Update: Let's get one thing straight... I am not looking for sex of any kind from anyone on here. If you can only see the outside of who I am then get to stepping and find someone else. I am so sick of men coming at me as if I have no brains or conversation. Yes, I have a "sexy" photo as my cover photo but who I am goes further than skin deep. So many of you say you want to "get to know me" but all you talk about is bedroom activities. With that said....I am a single mother, 4 children but only 3 live with me. I go to school full time (double major in nursing and social work) and I am always a mother before anything else. Once I receive my Associates I will then proceed in getting my Bach. then Masters, the PhD. Ultimate goal is to be a Nurse Practitioner and work withing my community with abused children. I am a strong willed and determined woman. I speak the truth and I speak my mind. I don't play games. I make friends easily but my attention is very short when it comes to men. I believe there is a difference in *** stupidity but I don't tolerate either one so come at me correct. I love conversation. I have grown up on my own since I was a young adult so my knowledge of many things are wise beyond your beliefs. If I told you what my first ideal date is then that would take the fun out of you being creative and striking my interest. So try me.......

• Ragland
• Alabama
• United States

Online

Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

I've been divorced for a year now from my husband of fifteen years, and with three kids who are all spoiled rotten demonspawn, and angels with huge hearts like their mom's, we (well, mostly I) have managed to have quite the adventure in independence and freedom! Since I've never dated or been able to experience any kind of single life, I am in some ways making up for lost opportunities, which also serves to keep me busy!, Clearly, I'm not looking for Mr. Right, but I am not interested in one night stands, either, so please don't ask. I am definitely looking to meet a few new, decent friends and get back out into the single world. It can be lonely out here. =/I love music. I love to dance, when I'm in the right mood, and am not in the least bit shy about it under most circumstances. I tend to be easy going and passive about most things, but definitely have opinions and ideals about life and where I am heading in mine. I have an adventurous side, that yearns to be fed, but I am a good girl through and through. I am what I am, and have no real desire to change. I like to laugh, and have fun, and want to surround myself with like-minded people. I'm a very open, honest person and do not like those who are not the same way. Any questions, just ask. And count on me having a few of my own. =)Romantically, you won't find better than me. It's taken some time for me to realize and lift my standards to more suit my lifestyle and goals in life. I am loyal, honest, and do my best to make sure the one I'm with feels both appreciated and cared about/for. I have a huge heart that tends to get stepped on and used, but I strive not to let that jade my love for life and happiness. I want to be swept off my feet, and am willing to wait for what I deserve!UPDATE: I am not desperate, and am not interested in desperate. Creepy can follow the stalkers right past me. Gross falls under creepy, not flattering. I don't want your naked pics, and I'm not interested in giving you a few of myself. I have class, and standards, and am simply not interested in trading off either. If you send me naked pics of yourself, I will stop speaking to you. Period. Show me your eyes. Your smile. Your hobbies. Yourself having a good time. I love all of those things. But please, have some respect for yourself. Thanks! My Update's Update. =) Okay, so I've given a little bit of thought to what I'm looking for, and in the interest of smiling faces all around, I am seeking the following:Physically, I prefer white guys. I have a thing for broad shoulders with at least a little bit of muscular definition. I'm a tall girl who loves cute shoes, most of which make me over 6 foot. I like to meet you eye to eye, at least a little. I'm also a sucker for pretty eyes and an easygoing smile.Got a criminal record? I'm not interested, sorry. My record is squeaky, and my ex is a ****tard. Nothing is worth losing my kids over.You must not be married. I've learned my lesson about the 'getting a divorce' line. I'm divorced, You should be too. Seriously. it's not that difficult. .You must not be an idiot (acting like one is okay). Do I expect Einstein? Not especially. But if u tipe like dis (or speak like that), don't know that - I - am important enough to capitalize.. if you don't know that you, you're, and your are three separate words, you likely will not capture my attention long enough to achieve a date, much less anything further. I have a brain and I'm not afraid to use it!You must have a sense of humor. I like to laugh. I do it. Alot. I want someone who can laugh with me, and help me see the bright side when things look bleak. I -always- try to look at the bright side of things. I am a firm believer that it is the answer to happiness, and I strive to be a happy person. If this isn't something you do as well, we're not going to make it.I ABHOR liars. I do not lie. Ever. At all. I see no real reason for it. I don't have time to keep up with lies, and if I have to keep up with yours, I'm going to send you packing. Better to tell the truth and end things early than to string anyone along with a weaving plethora of stories and deception.I expect a moderate amount of success. This does not mean you must make a ton of money, but I do expect employment that you find enjoyable and the basic expectations of independence. This means your own place, your own car, and some sort of career. I'm not looking to be a sugar momma, and I expect any man I'm with to be self sufficient. I bring the same thing to the table.There are likely more things, but as I'm just now discovering what I want, I can do no more than add to the list as more specifics arise. Happy fishing. xoxo Something I don't have to plan. I plan and organize and schedule all day, every day. I break down children's schedules, work schedules, school schedules, and activity schedules so that they work together cohesively. I don't want to plan my time off. Does that mean you have to? Nope, I'm completely okay with spontaneity. I'll share any opinions I have. I just don't want to plan it.

• Ragland
• Alabama
• United States

Online

Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

Why is it so hard for someone to take a chance? Go outside of your comfort zone and you might just be suprised in what you will experience. Im far from perfect & that's ok with me because that means I'm one of a kind. I'm looking for a friend & you never know maybe more but I would like to start a family one day and in the process meet a guy that I can call my best friend. I know I may not be a gorgeous supermodel or a trophy but I am educated, honest, trusting, caring and the list goes on. I am willing to put in as much as someone else is in a relationship. I have reached some of the goals in my life but not all. I am working on those little by little as time allows.I tend to stay active and love to be outdoors as much as possible. I love animals, sports and just spending as much time with friends and family as possible. Being down to earth and open minded allows me to embrace others qualities and not judge anyone. If you can make me laugh and smile that is a plus. Going for a hike or exploring an art exhibit is ideal. Yet anything to have a good time and conversation.