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It's about follow through, men. Words and actions must match, communication must be present, and connections must be made. I only show interest to those people with whom I intend on following through; and if I am no longer interested, I will say so. I will not say one thing and do another, I will attempt to effectively communicate, and I do hold integrity at a very high value. I expect the same! If this is not who you are or what you are looking for, we may just not be on the same page or compatible...With that said... I used to teach 6th and 8th grade science and have a passion for working with teens in a counseling environment. I also used to play and coach competitive volleyball, so I am a sports type of girl. I will be back in the Valley in December.I am looking for an educated (military, entrepreneur, college grad, or life/self built) passionate man who is tall, dark, well-spoken, and driven. I am at a turning point in my life, and I am simply not looking for something casual. I have no idea if I ever want to be married or have kids, but I know for sure that I want to spend my nights and weekends with the love of my life. I am tall and have a curvy figure, although I enjoy and make an integral party of my weekly routine lifting, cardio and pilates as often as my back/spinal injury will allow. To relax, I am the type of girl who loves a sports bar during college basketball season, beer and wings, and serious flirting with a cute guy (on a date of course). Otherwise, I am drawn to my wine bars and more intimate settings when I am not working, doing research, writing, or nannying (which I do part-time while in graduate school). I am a complete sucker for classic comedies with true comedians like John Candy, and any tasteful dry/sarcastic comedy like office space is amazing for incessant movie quotes with someone who shares my sense of humor (laughing from the gut about silly/stupid/inane/classic things). Finally, I do enjoy my off time, my "me" time, and independence away from another individual is a necessity for everyone's sanity. Who can't agree with that??!!!??? :) There are 3 non-negotiables when it comes to relationships on which I will never budge...if you do not meet all 3 of these, we will not ever be compatible for dating or more. I have had too many men continue to contact me regardless of these 3 basic requirements, and I ask that you please meet all 3 prior to contacting me.1. You must respect and honor our military, as I come from a strong military family2. You must not pay money for sex in any fashion, i.e. strip clubs or any other venue where women degrade themselves by selling their bodies. 3. You must not do drugs or be a smoker (yes, that includes pot).Otherwise, let's talk via phone once some level of interest is there on both parts (texting is not always the best option) and we can go from there! I look forward to meeting you :) Let's do something totally chill and fun... No matter what we do, there will be laughter, sarcasm, making fun of "whatever," and silliness.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gwendolen

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I'm very smart, level-headed, woman who has a great personality. I am very down to earth woman who enjoys a lot of things and sometimes can be rough around the edges. I believe in what you put out is what you get back.If you have any questions about me...just ask...but that doesn't mean I will answer it ;-) I am looking for a fun, caring, funny guy who has similar interests as me and interests of their own....if you like to spend a lot of time in the gym and have to go out every single night...we probably won't be compatible...just to be honest and upfront. I find that personality is EVERYTHING for me...if it sucks, chances are we will not get along. I like someone with a great personality :) Simple as that. I like hiking, shooting, gun shows, going to see the movies, cook, road trips, watching movies at home, painting, drawing, tattoos expo events, camping, going to events....or whatever else...I like going out to get drinks...shoot pool...or just relax..but I'm over the clubs to meet people.My profile says "want's to date but nothing serious"...I prefer getting to know someone...and take it from there. If you play games, and have no intention of meeting after we exchange numbers (if that happens), don't waste my time or yours. Move onto the next profile :) ps. semi-naked pics won't do you any justice...they are actually a turn off considering we don't even know each other. Just a heads up :) meet up for food and/or drinks...see if we click or not.

  • April

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Hmmm, what to say... I am somewhat new to single life and to this whole on-line dating thing. It is soooo weird! I mean, am I right guys??? I don't remember dating being this "interesting" last time I was single.I laugh all the time and find humor in pretty much everything. Unfortunately, I've been known to laugh at very inappropriate/serious moments as well. And being reprimanded only makes me laugh harder. What the hell is wrong with me? Don't answer that... There is nothing sexier to me than someone who can make me laugh until my sides hurt (especially if he is chiseled and bronzed and extremely rich - haha, just kidding)!I am definitely a girl who likes to try new things. Life is too short not to. I'm learning guitar right now and absolutely love it! Also, I love being outdoors. Hiking or running on a beautiful day is the best! I have been doing a lot of yoga lately and really adore it. Meditation as well. Keeps me sane, at least I think that's what they call this... Maybe not.I'm pretty well-rounded and non-judgemental. I am a great listener as well. Just be honest with me about who you are or what you're looking for. for that silly stalking charge... J/K! It will save us both a lot of time. I am very low drama and don't want or need it in my life. I don't care what kind of car you drive or how much money you make - it is not substitution for a personality and the ability to carry on an intelligent conversation.... Also, I cannot date a guy who I can't have an actual conversation with where we both have different takes on an issue! That's what makes the world go round and I love being shown something from another point of view I might not have thought about!! It is not an insult if another person does not have the exact same beliefs and opinions as you do. Agree to disagree.... Or I will slap you.I only seriously date guys that I can hang out with. Gotta be great friends and not make me want to bang my head against the wall until I lose consciousness. Almost all of my good friends are guys - I think my sense of humor is more easily translated by the male species - even though they are the weaker sex. Lol! I would hook you up to a lie detector and have my dad ask you some questions. I'm kidding, I would only do that on a second date. Seriously though, I would love to pack a picnic and go on a hike to somewhere beautiful. Or maybe get some Chinese and play frisbee at the park. And if we are truly enjoying our time together, we could do some whip-its and rob a ***!!!!

  • Jilly

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    ************* Why do guys think it is OK to take the time to send a message to a girl that says "Hey sexy" or "Hello Beautiful" and that is it. That is the biggest turn off for me. I will not reply to short messages like that. I don't expect a paragraph, just a little substance. If you are serious about wanting to get to know me--> Leave a little bit more of a message than that. I will have to feel comfortable with you before I agree to give out my number to call or text with you. I am not going to call you or meet you the first time we talk. If you don't want to spend the time to help me feel comfortable with you then please move on. I am a big girl...if you don't like big girls then please go fishing somewhere else. Thanks! ;-) ****************** I left everything to move here to help take care of my parents. It is beautiful here. I can't wait to spend a lot more time here!!! Hopefully, I can find someone to share it with soon! I am slowly starting to date again. I will move pretty slow into getting to know someone. I am not going to meet you within the first week of talking to you. Please be patient and persistent with me as I haven't been on an actual date in quite some time and I am pretty shy. I was in a long term relationship for way too long and single for even longer. So, if that is not in your future please move on. I am a very honest person, I expect the same. I am looking for something real. Basically what I would like to find is an honest, down to earth, trustworthy guy. I am looking for someone that has good communication skills, that can hold an intelligent conversation. Someone who enjoys spending time together. Also, if we have some similar interests that is good, but I also like to have different interests as well to expand on. I do not know how to cook very well as I am a very picky eater. I hope you enjoy cooking. I definitely want someone sweet and affectionate who loves to just stay home, have some dinner, and cuddle up with a good movie. Open the door for me. Be polite and know your manners. Be fun and goofy. Hold my hand. Want to travel and explore. I think you'll find that I can be a lady who is also just one of the guys. I would like to find someone who loves sports as much as I do. Someone who is spontaneous, outgoing, and definitely romantic. Someone who is funny, has family values and has some manners. I just want to have a good time with someone new.I Love FOOTBALL, UFC, Newly into Hockey, Baseball, all animals, music, dancing & the outdoors. Love theme parks, concerts, comedy clubs. Shy at first, but I will warm up quick! Love romance, little surprises and cuddling. Can be comfy in PJ's on a Sunday watching the game or dressed up for a company party. Love the beach, the woods and the city. Camping, playing softball, snowboarding and fishing are great. Love to dance, love my family and LOVE my pets.; cat Smokey. WE ARE A PACKAGE DEAL...LOVE ME-->LOVE MY PETS!!! Don't give up on me. Don't pressure me into giving up my telephone number before I am ready. Make an effort to help me feel comfortable enough to want to meet you. Just be persistent enough to talk me into meeting you...That is the first step...You can decide what we do. I am game for almost anything... Surprise me!!

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