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Ulla, 32

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Is putting yourself out there making yourself vulnerable truly worth the risk of having your heart broken into a million little pieces???I am getting to a point if no return.... just when i think my luck will turn i find myself looking around noticing that it is me against the world.. I hate the thought of being alone but maybe it is truly time to face reality...I have to start off with I am not even close to perfect and I have and will never claim to be... I do have my faults and I will be the first to tell you about them... I am a very honest person and I do tend to speak my mind.. I do not get a kick out of being a hag but I stand my ground.. With that being said I am also an amazing woman!! I tend to open up to people and end up getting myself hurt.. I fight for what I want but yet I hold on so tight when I finally get what I was after that I end up losing it.. I am a single mom who not only works full time but I am also a firefighter and on rescue squad.. I am a very dedicated person. I like to let my hair down when I don't have my daughter but when I do have her I'm a homebody unless we do something together..I am a lover and a people pleaser but I love to joke around I always have some kind of smart remark ready when opportunity comes knocking!! I know I am a good person I just need someone who will accept me for me and of course be patient!!I am suspicious by nature and constantly over think everything... I never forget... It only takes one wrong thing happening to me from you for me to start backing down and shutting off otherwise I stand up and fight for what I want..I am a very PICKY person and head strong. I absolutely hate fighting unless I have an alternative motive- making up ;) I am very shy when I first meet people but once I warm up to you it's always a fun time!!!You may call me shallow but I do have to be physically attracted as well as emotionally!! If I have to look at you I want to enjoy what I'm seeing as well...I am a very kind person which has been mistaken for more than intended... If you are confused on my reaction to you feel free to ask... I will give you my honest answer as it may upset you but it's better to know the truth then to hang on to hope.... I'd hate for you to feel like I'm leading you on when that's not it at all.. The very last thing I want to do is to hurt anyone because trust me I too know how it feels.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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