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Jael, 52

United States, Alabama, Oxford

Offline, last seen Tue, 08 Sep 2026 02:12:24

About Me

I enjoy relationship!! I like to ask lots of questions. I want to know about your past, your hopes for the future, your favorite birthday memories, your least favorite birthday memories (those make for great stories, unfortunately), etc. I want to know and be known. My faith is of primary importance to me. However, I have issues with current Christian culture and am not a typical churchgoer. I am hoping to find someone who feels the same about expressing their faith in practical and non-religious ways.My kids are leaving the nest and making their own way in the world. That places me in the strange place of being independent and yet very tethered at the same time. It's a tough one to explain...so I won't even try. :)I was married for 21 years and have been separated for over two years. Getting divorced has been a long and miserable process. I'm hoping that the end is in sight!! I'm a little hesitant to plan anything too detailed for a first date. I think a quick coffee is a good choice, though not the most creative or romantic option; those can come later when it doesn't feel so weird (am I the only one who feels so awkward on that first "meet and greet"?).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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