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Friends for Now :) But ultimately looking for a long term relationship :)I love small independent movies and theaters. I like to rent movies and cook fabulous meals for my friends and loved ones. I enjoy fine wines and an occasional marg. :) my job:I am a postpartum doula and caregiver - I work with families after the birth of a baby to help them transition. I also do caregiving for the elderly and/ or disabled.. I am NOT a bigot and do not tolerate people who are not open minded well at all. I am openminded and embrace all races and cultures.my religion:Spiritual :)my education:I majored in Psychology and also Philosophy and African American History. I attended college at Hunter in NYC and at PCC in Portand. I have learned alot more in my day to day life but did enjoy my classes alot.favorite things:Fav movie...away from her Lovely and Amazing, the diving bell and the butterfly, once.. , 103.;).. Tv. Newsroom!! homeland! walking dead ..the moments and not the hours or eventslast read:Three Junes... It was wonderful and profound :) All time fav book is I know this much is true by wally lamb.. about forgiveness :) Love to attend book club which forces me to complete a book in 30 days.. love to read and frequently at 3rd place bookAbout my life and what I'm looking for: I relocated from NYC and headed west about 15 years ago and still love the NW. I am looking for someone who would love to catch a good indie movie, read at my favorite book store, attend book club, or just catch a movie on dvd with a glass of great red wine on the sofa. I am more about the moments than the events in life. I was married to a good man who has MS and in the last several years has deteriorated. It has been hard to face the end of our marriage. It is important for me to share that it was not my choice, however he could not come to terms with his changing body and turned to alcohol and became a very angry and depressed man. I take marriage very seriously and was prepared to support him til the end of our lives but the disease turned him into an entirely different person. Sit by the beach, Have a cup of coffee, and / or a martini and talk :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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