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Bernice, 54
United States, Alabama, Oxford

Offline, last seen Sat, 06 Sep 2025 21:59:19

About Me

Hi, thanks for taking a look.A little bit about me. Integrity and honesty are the most important things to me, so make sure they are important to you before you send me a message. Friends and acquaintances have told me I am kind, giving, positive, with a welcoming smile. You can choose your attitude and how you treat others everyday and I try to always make a choice to smile, be positive and greet everyone with a smile. It may be the only one they see today. I don't believe in judging others, I can only change the person I look at in the mirror every morning. I am open with my feelings and want an intimate relationship which includes reveling to my partner my inner person, feelings, fears, spirituality, and passions. Sharing our true self makes the physical passion more intense and the icing on the cake.I love to do things outdoors when I can. Picnics, walks on the beach, camping, quiet nights watching the stars and hearing the rain. I even like the rain on my face at times, although the sun on my face is nice as well. I was born and raised here so I don't melt. I enjoy socializing, entertaining, cooking, dancing and too many other things to list here. I have 2 grown children. They live in the area which is great.I work in Healthcare education and love it, most of the time. I have no idea what dating in my 50's is about, or how to do it, but I try. It is a new journey so I have to look at it like a new learning experience. LOL I do know that if we meet, and especially if we go out a couple times, please be honest and tell me how you feel. Sorry, but I have met several men that we have gone out a couple times, he says let's get together again, and then I never hear from them again. I am a big girl, and only want someone who is really excited to be with me. At our age there is no reason to play games. I don't! What you see is what you get.Send me a message and perhaps we can chat.Sorry, I only respond if I see a mutual interest, and only expect a response if you have an interest.Enjoy the ride!!!! something where we can talk and get to know one another.a walk on the beach, a glass of wine in a quiet setting.sitting at a park, watching people and chatting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Metal Dance Japanese Spanish Vietnamese Adult Documentary Sci-Fi Thriller Shooting Sports
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