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Lisandra, 55
United States, Alabama, Oxford

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About Me

Adventurer? Creative? Risk taker? Willing to get past the awkward 1st meet up? We might really learn something about each other.My motto: "life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage." a quote from Anais NinI am creative and artistic with a passion for learning all things old and new. And that passion spills over to a more sensual side with the right person.Down to earth, I have a big personality and am open-minded. Words turn me on and I enjoy verbal banter and quick Wit!Not too serious, but I am very spiritual with deep faith.Independent minded and move to the beat of my own drum, I like adventures and exploring ( anything from a farmer's market, flea market, winery or path not yet taken.)I like to be Feminine; dress up, polish my toes...but equally comfortable in jeans/tee to sustain a pretty tough hike or plant a good garden,then cook up a 'mean' stew.; though I love the blues, jazz and zydeco) and dancing. Prefer moving and doing, I consider myself active and fit (that is NOT Skinny or Fat). Looking to spend more time outside hiking, finding out of the way swimming holes, or biking. I swim several times a week or fast walking for exercise. Slow walks for romanceMy spirit is young, age is a number.Self employed as a clothing and accessory designer ; I also have also been a teacher for many years. I teach all ages anything from general ed to sewing and how to use the creative process. I have a full schedule, but with flexibility. Seeking a man with Confidence and intelligence and who cares how he presents himself; a Respectful mature man that has space and time to value a wonderful woman by his side for some of life's highlights.I hope you like your work ( maybe passionate about a cause?) and have your life mostly together. Please be someone that can handle a smart, sassy (not mean or rude) personality.Looking for a Friend to build some shared experiences like:Travel, history, wine tours... your ideas *** me something; golf, fly fishing?)Dating is Less about 'the thing we are doing" and more about who I am with; comfy companionship matters.WANT to meet in person if a few *** indicate interest. PLEASE: NOT interested in *** and forth for weeks! Early dates can have possible pressures. The setting can make one more relaxed. Unpredictability in the first few dates keeps things fun.Maybe a drink while listening to great jazz or, tea/coffee or happy hour.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a single white female looking to find someone with like interest and character to spend time with. I have a good personality and I am fun to be with most of the time. I have many talents and enjoy them all. I am a bartender and a waitress in a nice restaurant. That means i work nights and weekends a lot and it seriously cuts into my dating possibilities. It also means i am sometimes to brash and lots of you guys find that hard to take. Sorry, I am who I am.Having said that, being a bartender, I make a lot of acquaintances and if i like someone, i immediately care what happens to them, Don't talk to me for hours and days then blow me off thinking i won't worry. Caring people worry. Then i end up looking like a texting stalker or something cause i care. Be honest.My interest vary from reading a good book by my favorite author, knitting, sewing, designing, cooking, baking (yes they are different), painting, singing, Nascar, power tools, a football game as well as snuggling up to watch a good movie.Not your average woman. Very honest. Sometimes to a fault. openMy greatest accomplishment in my life are my two sons.This describes me perfectlyPISCES - The Partner for Life (February 19 to March ***Caring and kind. Smart. Likes to be the center of attention. Very organized. High appeal to opposite sex. Likes to have the last word. Good to find, but hard to keep. Passionate, wonderful lovers. Fun to be around. Too trusting at times and gets hurt easily. VERY caring. They always try to do the right thing and sometimes get the short end of the stick. They sometimes get used by others and get hurt because of their trusting. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good sense of humor!! Thoughtful. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. Good friend to others but needs to be choosy on who they allow their friends to beAfter bing on here for a few month I have found that a lot of men on here are:A. just looking for either a one night standB. afraid they will pay for a night out and never see you againC. just want some cyber funE. plain scarred to tryF. look way older then me even when they are younger.(whats up with that)Update, if you have a game plan on how to manipulate someone into caring for you, then using them, back off. I am not into being hurt.Don't put looking for long term relationship in your profile unless that is what you want. I read the profile and will believe thats the plan.If any of the above apply to you don't bother messaging me.Update: on July 13, ***I met a wonderful gentleman on here and it is going great....hope it continues to so i can delete this profile.Update: 10 months ago i fell in love, today he broke my heart, May 25, ***Our first date would be a simple one. Drinks in my local bar to talk and get to know one another. I never meet in a place i am not familiar with.

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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