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Jesse, 51
United States, Alabama, Oxford

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About Me

I am not a high-maintenance babe, and not into drama --Those women wear me out!! I am Genuine and Passionate about much in life. Strive for balance and moderation but enjoy occasional excess. No where near being spoiled, but like to be treated well, and like a lady. Not a perfectionist or extreme in anything. I try to see and uphold the positive side to people and life. Am generally fun and happy; serious when important. Most people find me intelligent not scholarly. Not a big reader, yet a writer and story- Enjoy a variety of wine, foods, movies and music. Live music is great. Happy Hour is a happy event. Love living in jeans, but dressing up nice or spicy on special occasions is feminine, FUN and good for my soul :) I exercise pretty consistently and eat healthy.-body perfection, keep looking... I hit the gym ***times a week, cardio and weights and LOVE IT. I am 51 now, but I look and live much younger. The girls are 100% natural (no surgeries). I'm fairly easy on the eyes, and very confident with my body & sensuality in a committed (yes, I will expect that...) relationship. Physical intimacy means a great deal to me in a committed relationship and I look forward to giving that passionate, romantic expression and love to the right man. Really appreciate family. She's occasionally living with me and a small part of my life, time-wise. Spiritually, I believe in the truth of scripture. I attend a great non-denominational church and desire a partner who is appreciates the benefit of his spiritual life in the Christian faith. I do not have a legalistic mindset, at all, but my faith and relationship with the Lord mean very much to me, and I will not give those up for anyone. I enjoy travel, exploring, and outdoor activities that do not tweak my knees. Not into camping, hunting, fishing, rock climbing, snowboarding...Even so, you will have my happy and supportive encouragement to go have fun...l will keep the sheets warm for your return, after you shower and shave ;) Enjoy mild-to-moderate home improvement. I love a good handyman! If you are good with carpentry, construction, plumbing, electrical, gardening and cars, it makes me SMILE and find ways to show my deepest appreciation... Have 2 friendly long-hair cats and a loving ADHD dog (aka: golden retriever***they are "family" members. Hope you're not allergic… Was in a 20-yr marriage that ended 8 yrs ago due to his disabling anxiety-disorder issues. Easily recognize players and have zero tolerance for that kind of selfishness. Tend to gravitate toward men who smile naturally a lot, have dark hair and are between 5'9-6'3. Confess I prefer fairly short hair (shaved head is nice too :) Really like clean-shaven face...and more...Just sayin’… LOL Putt-putt golf. Some place to talk and have a nice conversation. I enjoy sharing an appetizer and/or drinks. If it's nice out, a walk by the beach is always interesting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Metal Greek Mexican Middle Eastern Snowboarding
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