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Kyoko, 51
United States, Alabama, Oxford

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About Me

I was raised in a family where faith, manners, responsibility, and doing the right thing were drilled into my head, so these things are important to me. I have good common sense, love to garden and re-purpose old things and would rather learn how to do something myself (if possible) than ask someone else to do it for me. I am fiercely loyal, more liberal than conservative, and I'm not afraid to speak my mind, (I have an opinion on just about everything) and respect others opinions as long as they are based on facts, not speculation or theory. I am an animal lover and have 2 cats and a dog. (cats were rescues) I'm not a bit spoiled and I'm generally very happy and content with my life. I can't see myself dating anyone entitled, arrogant, rude or insensitive. If you think you are more important than others, like to complain, or are looking for someone to cook and clean then please stay away from me! I enjoy "old classic" rock-n-roll and new country music. I've traveled to just about every state and like the mountains but love the beach. I have not dated for several years, and I'm not looking to spend all my free time with someone although would enjoy being in a relationship again. My schedule varies from week to week and I tend to be a very early riser. I will need to go slowly, spend time talking and getting to know you, so if you're not okay with that, then please do not contact me. I am also not looking for a professional dater, or someone who needs to be constantly going and doing to be happy.Added ***This may sound harsh, but if have trust or commitment issues or are just looking for the initial excitement of a new relationship then please pass me by. We all have been hurt by past relationships that have made us who we are today, but if you bring that baggage into every new encounter you will never be able to have a meaningful lasting relationship. I am a person who has a small group of long-time lasting friends not hundreds of people in my life that I barely know and I'm looking for the same in a partner. Added ***I will not answer *** say "HI", tell me why you are contacting me and what, if anything, attracts you to me and I will do the same. I am a reasonably intelligent woman and the daughter of an English and Communications teacher. I find spelling and grammar important and if you can't put together a cohesive sentence, we probably won't be a good match. The only thing I can tell you is money does not impress me ... Just be yourself, be honest about who you are and what you want and I'll do the same.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cooking Caribbean Italian Japanese Thai Crime Drama Horror Baseball Ice Hockey
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  • Sandie from Oxford | Woman | 54 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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