Total users: 58,132,318 Online users: 209,550
Merilyn, 53
United States, Alabama, Orange Beach

Offline, last seen Thu, 24 Jul 2025 14:14:27

About Me

Don't like drama. Love to laugh, enjoy good conversation, friends, good joke, arts, books, travel, good food (will try anything as far it is not overcooked, can be raw, and despite my small frame and femininity can enjoy a good steak once in a wile). If you can cook or at least help me to cook it's a plus :). Have wide variety of interests, very good sense of humor, never boring. Can be very active but also enjoy quiet moments. Can really listen to other people without imposing my own opinion. Appreciate all good things in life and cherish every good moment. Very grateful to the people who is good to me, do not have enemies. Smart, sharp and wit (this is what the other people saying). My pictures are current. The way you see me on the pictures - it is the way I look every single day all my live (minus evening dresses and Halloween costume), can wear jeans if I really have to, but like to dress up (don't worry - I am not full of myself, some times can call myself an idiot but not going to allow anybody else to do so :) ). Really enjoy being a WOMAN. Very feminine but not uptight. Despite being in committed relationship for about 30 years, I'd used to be one women among guys (practicing surgery - it is mostly man's profession, sometimes very cynical), so I get guy's jokes and sense of humor. I am not prissy at all and you don't have to find "special woman subjects" in conversations. I can discuss fashion and shopping with my girlfriends if it is boring for you. I treasure commitment, intimacy, sharing, mutual respect and trust. Don't like to play games. The life has to be enjoyable for both sides, and I really believe in reciprocation. You are good to me, I definitely will be good to you. Soul-mates, partners in life. Both have to be genuinely interested in each other and try to make each other happy - reciprocation is a key word and it has to come from the heart...Have to be intellectually equal (I am not even talking about education - a person can be educated and have no intellect, but still - I do have 2 dr's degrees), otherwise - it doesn't work, no matter how hard and how long you'll try to make it work - eventually it will fall apart.- no initial, even very strong chemistry will work - it WILL fade away....I am looking for a "mensch" in my life, why also can make me smile and be my best friend.Also - I am a great believer in chemistry, so if I don't see your face, your eyes and your smile (AKA - NO PICTURE***I can not talk to you or you just can be married :). I am really tired of accusations in superficiality because I am refusing to communicate with people without pictures. I understand that the human soul is the most important thing, but in the same time I am absolutely sure that no sane man would contact me if I wouldn't have pictures posted, so please, let's level the playing field. Women are humans too. If you are a busy professional and have a life - it's as inconvenient for you as it is for me, sorry...Because I was raised as a Woman, I feel kind of strange contacting a man first - it's just my "thing", the rest of me is normal - lol-(if I checked your profile, it might be because I'd liked what I'd seen), so if you like my profile - make a move first, please, just a couple of your own words. I promise - I not going to be nasty... And if I am not answering - please don't hold a grudge against me. You can be the nicest person in the world for somebody else, but we all looking for somebody to light our fire, if it doesn't feel like it- it's just not happening, but some times worth to try, you never now. No harm done...PS. I am looking for my male counterpart and as you can see - I am taking care of myself. I expect the same from the man. When you look like a "schlepper" even on the first date - it's a turn off. It's not because I am shallow and can't see the man's soul behind the disheveled appearance. I want to be proud of the man I am with and it includes the whole package. Sorry, if I am offending anybody...PPS. My first language is Russian, I am fluent in English and very Americanized, long time in the country, but common culture and upbringing is very important to really click, soo... if you speak Russian - it's a big plus Nice and quiet, have to talk, let chemistry do the trick...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Adventure Comedy Music Sport
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Callie from Orange Beach | Woman | 34 years old | Gemini
    Callie

    Offline

    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 22-30

    Hi! My name is Callie. I am woman from Orange Beach, Alabama, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

    Chat
  • Priscila from Orange Beach | Woman | 51 years old | Scorpio
    Priscila

    Offline

    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    HiI am so happy you took the time to read my profile. I consider myself to be an intelligent,attractive, fun, outgoing person and I am looking for a man who is kind, honest, handsome, genuine, romantic, caring, passionate, intelligent. I want to meet an emotionally stable and available man who knows how to be demonstrative in showing love and affection and knows how to treat a woman with respect to share in this life with me through the good times and the bad. I enjoy the finer things that life has to offer but I am a very down to earth person and one of the most important things to me is to be with my best friend and lover all wrapped up into one amazing relationship!! I have still yet to find this! I believe that the eyes are the windows to ones soul. I have alot of energy to live life to the fullest! I am into a healthy lifestyle and I hope you are as well. I believe in taking good care of ones self in every respect. I love to cook great organic meals and love good red wine but it would be best if shared with my special someone. I am a Mom to a 19yr old son and I love children. I live my life with great enthusiasm and passion and I hope you do as well! My perfect first date although nothing in life is perfect would be meeting for drinks and or dinner or just meeting for a cup of tea and knowing that we have made a connection.,Having great, flowing easy conversation and alot of laughs. Looking into each others eyes.. Not feeling like I cannot wait to run out the door...LOL. We would feel the chemistry between us and not want the evening to end!THIS FOLLOWING PARAGRAPH WAS WRITTEN IN A RELATIONSHIP ARTICLE AND I WOULD LIKE EVERY MAN WHO READS MY PROFILE TO READ THIS BECAUSE I FEEL IT SAYS IT ALL:ITS ENTITLED FIRST DATETHIS IS WHAT THE AUTHOR WROTE:FIRST DATEI DONT KNOW MUCH BUT THIS I KNOW: When a GIRL is quiet...millions of things are running in her mind. When a GIRL is not arguing...she is thinking deeply. When a GIRL looks at you with eyes full of questions...she is wondering how long you will be around. When a GIRL answers "Im fine" after a few seconds...she is not at all fine. When a GIRL stares at you she is wondering why you are lying. When a GIRL lays on your chest..she is wishing for you to be hers forever. When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered. When a GIRL says "I love you"...she means it. When a GIRL says "I miss you"...No one in this world can miss you more than that. Life only comes around once make sure you spend it with the right person...FIND A GUY...who calls you beautiful *** hot...who calls you back when you hang up on him...who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who....kisses your forehead. Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats. Who holds your hand in front of his friends. Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you..Who turns to his friends and says "thats her"....

    Chat
  • Tesha from Orange Beach | Woman | 52 years old | Cancer
    Tesha

    Offline

    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Family is really important to me, I love spending time with them. I am really trying to look after myself with proper diet and exercise. I am looking for someone who has the same interests and values that I think are important. I am an early riser in the summer, I love to sit outside with my coffee and watch the sun come up when its all quiet. Just me and the birds.Its not important to me what a man has or how much he makes, whats important to me is who he is. I love big warm hugs and I am a warm & affectionate person. I am looking for someone who is caring & honest.I like to work out and do so 5 times a week. I love the warm weather where I can be outside either walking, or relaxing with a good book. I love all animals but I am partial to cats and have a great passion for horses. I have great friends who are dear to me and I would do anything for, but they don't replace that someone special. I am down to earth and low maintenance, not much into material things. I appreciate the beauty and fury of nature and try to respect it. My musical preference is soft rock, mostly from the 80's and I love The Beatles. Good luck to all in your search. Like to meet over coffee, no pressure and see where we go from there

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: