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About Me

OMG I thought I'd come in and update/improve my profile, but it is already exactly what it should be. This is me, and I'm sorry that it seems to only attract men who are so much older as to be inappropriate, but it''s (my profile) still correct. We're all getting older, cause it turns out that life is actually long, not short but the maxims hold true as in 'do you really want to carry that baggage any further?"Hi, I am a tall blue-eyed blonde who loves to cook, maybe spends too much time thinking and enjoys her kids and grandkids, but would like to find someone to share time with. I will listen to stories about almost anything, laugh in the right places, go to movies, out to eat, pretty normal stuff, no ski-diving or bungee jumping, please.Would like to meet someone employed or comfortably retired, sane, healthy, and funny. Preference given to those with old pick-up trucks, Harleys, dogs and completed 'project houses" cause I have one, too.And, yes, I'm ready now and looking for you.Just to be successful (according to the advice of this website): my hobbies are mostly solitary pursuits, I garden/landscape (once you're using shovels, picks and moving wheelbarrow loads I think you've moved from the former to the latter), I read, do needlework, sew, volunteer;; my taste in music: everything from classical to classic rock to country to jazz and yes, even rap, there is a place and a time for everything :) A first date could be anything... I'm open to new things and partial to the inclusion of food.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Merilyn

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Don't like drama. Love to laugh, enjoy good conversation, friends, good joke, arts, books, travel, good food (will try anything as far it is not overcooked, can be raw, and despite my small frame and femininity can enjoy a good steak once in a wile). If you can cook or at least help me to cook it's a plus :). Have wide variety of interests, very good sense of humor, never boring. Can be very active but also enjoy quiet moments. Can really listen to other people without imposing my own opinion. Appreciate all good things in life and cherish every good moment. Very grateful to the people who is good to me, do not have enemies. Smart, sharp and wit (this is what the other people saying). My pictures are current. The way you see me on the pictures - it is the way I look every single day all my live (minus evening dresses and Halloween costume), can wear jeans if I really have to, but like to dress up (don't worry - I am not full of myself, some times can call myself an idiot but not going to allow anybody else to do so :) ). Really enjoy being a WOMAN. Very feminine but not uptight. Despite being in committed relationship for about 30 years, I'd used to be one women among guys (practicing surgery - it is mostly man's profession, sometimes very cynical), so I get guy's jokes and sense of humor. I am not prissy at all and you don't have to find "special woman subjects" in conversations. I can discuss fashion and shopping with my girlfriends if it is boring for you. I treasure commitment, intimacy, sharing, mutual respect and trust. Don't like to play games. The life has to be enjoyable for both sides, and I really believe in reciprocation. You are good to me, I definitely will be good to you. Soul-mates, partners in life. Both have to be genuinely interested in each other and try to make each other happy - reciprocation is a key word and it has to come from the heart...Have to be intellectually equal (I am not even talking about education - a person can be educated and have no intellect, but still - I do have 2 dr's degrees), otherwise - it doesn't work, no matter how hard and how long you'll try to make it work - eventually it will fall apart.- no initial, even very strong chemistry will work - it WILL fade away....I am looking for a "mensch" in my life, why also can make me smile and be my best friend.Also - I am a great believer in chemistry, so if I don't see your face, your eyes and your smile (AKA - NO PICTURE***I can not talk to you or you just can be married :). I am really tired of accusations in superficiality because I am refusing to communicate with people without pictures. I understand that the human soul is the most important thing, but in the same time I am absolutely sure that no sane man would contact me if I wouldn't have pictures posted, so please, let's level the playing field. Women are humans too. If you are a busy professional and have a life - it's as inconvenient for you as it is for me, sorry...Because I was raised as a Woman, I feel kind of strange contacting a man first - it's just my "thing", the rest of me is normal - lol-(if I checked your profile, it might be because I'd liked what I'd seen), so if you like my profile - make a move first, please, just a couple of your own words. I promise - I not going to be nasty... And if I am not answering - please don't hold a grudge against me. You can be the nicest person in the world for somebody else, but we all looking for somebody to light our fire, if it doesn't feel like it- it's just not happening, but some times worth to try, you never now. No harm done...PS. I am looking for my male counterpart and as you can see - I am taking care of myself. I expect the same from the man. When you look like a "schlepper" even on the first date - it's a turn off. It's not because I am shallow and can't see the man's soul behind the disheveled appearance. I want to be proud of the man I am with and it includes the whole package. Sorry, if I am offending anybody...PPS. My first language is Russian, I am fluent in English and very Americanized, long time in the country, but common culture and upbringing is very important to really click, soo... if you speak Russian - it's a big plus Nice and quiet, have to talk, let chemistry do the trick...

  • Devorah

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am a 55 yr old woman who is looking to find a nice guy. No games.l am a lover of The Beach Boys, Billy Joel, and the Boss. I am looking for a man that can cook. I try, but I'm not real good at it. I love art as I was an art major in college.I enjoy romantic comedies in the movies as well as comedy clubs. I love dancing and enjoy clubbing. I also love to stay at home and watch TV. If you think I am the woman for you, please contact me. I would like to either go out for coffee at a place like Starbucks or go out for dinner and a movie.

  • Rosaleen

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am silly, funny, crazy...I love to break out in song and dance anywhere and everywhere. But I can be serious when I have to be. I have been told that I have a gentle heart and a good soul. I am ready to share that with the right person. My friends say I am a good listener and give very good advise and would give the shirt off my back.....ummm...burrr....I am not necessarily a “prude” or a "saint," but the overall I am very cautious about to whom and under what circumstances to surrender to romantically. By nature, I just prefer taking things slowly in making someone's acquaintance or in getting involved in a relationship. In wooing it may take a while to "warm up" to you, though this should not be misinterpreted as disinterest. According to my personality results…Once I feel comfortable, you will find the rewards great. I will let you be the judge.I try to be grounded and realistic, and quite good at sniffing out insincerity and ulterior motives. So, PLEASE Don't play games or even bother trying to manipulate me. My personality results advise you to be upfront, direct, and completely honest with me – (you've few chances to impress someone like this).A Few Truths1. NO I am not contagious!! I was bitten by an infected tick and I cannot help that I have this. Some days are good and some are not so good but I am a fighter and I will never let this get me down if I can help it. I am not called LATIGRE (TIGRESS) for nothing. 3. I am a Pagan/Naturalist...Not all pagans are witches who do magic spells, with big cauldrons, eye of neut and toad warts! Contrary to what those who choose to persecute or lie about us wish to believe. My faith is a very peaceful, harmonious and balanced way of life which promotes oneness with the divine and all which exists. It is the morning dew on the petals of a beautiful flower, the gentle caress of a warm summer breeze upon your skin, or the warmth of the summer sun on your face. It's the fall of colorful autumn leaves, and the softness of winter snow. It is light, and shadow and all that lies in between. It is the song of the birds and other creatures of the wild. It is being in the presence of Mother Earths nature and being humbled in reverence. When we are in the temple of the Lord and Lady, we are not prone to the arrogance of human technology as they touch our souls. To be a Pagan/Naturalist is to be a healer, a teacher, a seeker, a giver, and a protector of all things. If this path is yours, may you walk it with honor, light and integrity. I believe in God. But I also believe in a famine side of God. If you want to know more I would be VERY happy to talk to you more!!I believe everyone is special in their own way....sometimes it takes a special someone to bring it out and make it sparkle even brighter. I personally like myself. I don't profess to be perfect. I have my faults and will always try to be honest with myself and others to admit to them when needed. I believe:A negative mind will never give you a positive life. "I am still determined to be cheerful and happy, in whatever situation it may be; for I have also learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances." ~;Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it." ~Groucho Marx I am easy to please...I think for our first date it would be nice to just walk on the beach and talk. Assuming that at this point we have txted and chatted several times and both agreed that it is time to meet face to face. This is not the time to feel pressured.

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