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Xara, 55

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About Me

just a very special lady (talking about what is on the INSIDE..:))..,still waiting for that right one for me...certain things i look for and need,want and deserve,and none of these things are anything unreasonable or unrealistic..you kidding??...hard enough just finding "half normal" these days..:)..i AM real tired of and frustrated with always having to ,unfortunately,run into only the nuts and the wrong ones..and at times it seems finding my dream mate is only a hopeful wish..lol..BUT!!!!!....I do not give up..i keep the faith and the hope that SOMEWHERE he must be out there...:)..anyway....even though i have hope that that right special one for me IS out there..i am not expecting or holding my breath (would have run out of breath LONG ago if i did THAT..:))..so.,would be REAL nice to ,AT LEAST,run into some decent,polite,"mostly normal" at least,lol.interesting,REAL(as opposed to phony)people to hang out with,do thing with,have some fun,...a good companion...i do respond to messages that give me SOMETHING to respond to..most do not..communication style is way too important to me and one of the keys..and let me say this..i ONLY respond to messages,,,nothing else...well...that is it for now...all you need to know for now you can see and read here..need any more info...ask...now..here goes..and hope it starts getting better here for me now...so far have not been impressed by anything...lol...ciao when i meet someone for the very first time i do NOT consider that a real date...that is just getting together for the first time to see if there is any connection and any potential for a date... there are PLENTY of things i like to do for fun on a real date..,and almostanything can be fun with with the right company..i listed only SOME of my interests and things to do in the "interests' section...there are much more.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dionne

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I like all kinds of out door activities in the summer. Camping, swimming, fishing, boating. I like watching movies, walking, playing/watching sports. Nascar. I love to keep busy..an idol mind is wasted. I have 3 adult kids and 6 grandkids.Looking for the one guy that knows how to have fun in all aspects of life. Life is way too short to waste it wondering what might have been. If we can't find fun I'm sure we can make our own fun. One should never judge a book by it's cover as the story inside is more important than the look of the book. I am hoping to do it again this summer. I also would like to try sky diving and parasailing.If you are the type of guy that likes this kind of adventure then send me a message. If you are a couch potato and don't like anything about the outdoors then we will not be a good match. If you have young children, then we will not be a good match. I want someone in my life who isn't afraid to try new thingsand isn't tied down to kids, mine are grown. I love kids and do spend time with mine and the grandkids. meet for tea...as I don't drink coffee and see where the meeting takes usIf you are not really interested please do not bother to contact me.I am really tired of guys that message and text all week long and say they want to meet and thenthe day comes that you are supposed to meet they disappear, don't answer text messages oremails. Tired of the games. If you are into games do not bother sending me a message.

  • Elza

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    "Real men don't love the most beautiful girl in the world, they love the girl who can make their world the most beautiful"Hi! Just dropping a few lines about myself, so sit back and enjoy...lol! Although I have a serious side, I enjoy a laugh, joke or witty comment just about any time of day and believe if you can dish it you'd better be able to take it...however being deliberately mean or hurtful just sucks. I also enjoy cooking/baking, good movies and documentaries, long slow walks, a good book, lovin' on my kids and grandkids, spending time with friends, my cat and last but not least, singing along to karaoke or the car radio (former member of Sweet Adeline's acapella choir***I would love to sing a song for you too. I enjoy almost all genre's of music, with the exceptions of opera, heavy metal and certain kinds of rap. Currently my favourite is country - back to my roots. 'You can take the girl out of the country, but you can't take the country out of the girl'...lol. I firmly believe that any relationship depends on two things: trust, which must be earned and honesty, which must be given. being genuine and open minded are other qualities that I admire in others. Kind and warm hearted is a must! Romance has been gone from my life for a long time and is sorely missed. I believe sexy is in the attitude, not just the appearance, and that anything worth having is worth putting effort into. Communication is key. Even though I am generally a homebody, I do love to go out on "dates", may seem a little old fashioned, but is definitely fun. Public displays of affection, must be welcomed or at least tolerated easily...lol I can also be spontaneous and like a "little run for my money"....spice up my life. P.S. Respect and Common Sense goes a long way with me. I grew up with excellent morals and values and hold on to those to this day (not to say I am perfect, far from it indeed).I know that a persons physicality is not a measuring stick to "size" up a persons worth, but I am a tall woman and prefer someone at least my height or taller ***cm). I am working out and getting more exercise and cooking healthier, making a better me with a brighter, healthier outlook on life.Life is short, take a chance and always remember...." Time flies like and arrow, Fruit flies like a banana " ....pun intended! No pic? not willing to supply one? - I think there are reasons for this, don't be offended if I do not respond to your requests.Happy fishing!!! A get-to-know-you date, nothing stressful or full of pressure, maybe a coffee or glass of wine and enough privacy to talk without having to yell at each other....short, sweet and too the point...just like me, except I'm tall...lol

  • Griselda

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm looking for someone who is fun, caring, spontanious, and just country. no game players, i'm looking for a friend first.i want someone who is honest about life and willing to be there through the good and bad times.( is there any good ones left?)I enjoy being outside. Would love to learn how to ride a motorcycle.I'm tired of the players , cheaters, I enjoy all types of music except rap..love to read ...spent a lot of time with my grandkids..anything else that you want to know just ask...would like to find someone who accepts you for what and who you are and knows what the telling the truth means.. hope that all of you find what you are looking for .. My ideal of a good first date is, you meet somewhere where you can talk , Quiet, good conversation, and being able to just get to know more about the other person

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