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Aiah, 54
United States, Alabama, Opelika

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About Me

We are all a mix of nurture and nature. In my case the nurture included a lot of arts, culture and liberal politics. Nature gave me my pale skin, red hair, blue/grey eyes and a perfect 0.7 hip to waist ratio. Before I knew the curves were an asset I found I had a pretty good brain that needs a lot of stimulation. I've heard "treasure" and even "odd duck", meant in the nicest way, to describe the fact I don't exactly follow the herd. So unique brew is probably an apt description. It's no big surprise I work in a creative position. And it follows that I frequent galleries and lectures probably more than most. I listen to NPR, watch Charlie Rose and have been buying my food from farmers markets since I was a kid. Those that don't give their word lightly. People who are passionate, be it for their work, their hobby or life in general. Friends describe me as an ever-curious good conversationalist who can make people feel comfortable. I have a knack for finding those interesting little places and things that aren't on the public radar. So there's the touch of the explorer. Very often you'll find some leaf, seed pod or shell in my pockets.On a day-to-day level I possess a good amount of stick-to-it-ive-ness that keeps me grounded. I don't match the flighty artist stereotype at all. After eighteen years of marriage and over twenty years in my vocation, commitment and tenacity come naturally.But being grounded doesn't mean I've spent a lot of time standing still. I have adventured to some out of the way places. Travel is a mind-expanding experience.What might be a matching brew? Not sure...I am like my worst client in that regard, I keep thinking I will know it when I see it. I do think taking any action ripples out toward a final positive outcome. Even if it seems like a numbers game or random chance, to my mind even the small step of coffee, increases both our odds of finding that someone we are seeking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House Latin Cooking Crime Horror Sport War
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am a music lover and play guitar and sing. I used to play the worship music at our church and enjoyed it very much. I hope to find a music lover that shares the same passion for music as I do. I like most all kinds of music, with classic rock and contemporary being my favorite. Not real crazy about rap and heavy metal, although I still appreciate their artistic value! If you can sing and play an ***, you will have me eating out of the palm of your hand! Things I love: Dark skin, sensitive eyes, white teeth/great smile, non-smoker, low-; loyal person. I'm compassionate & understanding. I genuinely strive to make my partner happy. No relationship is perfect, but in those difficult moments I would rather agree to disagree! I tend to look for positive attributes in my partner & not focus on anything negative. I'm emotionally & psychologically stable. I'm not into playing games. I believe in total honesty, because that is a strong basis for a relationship.I'm an easy going person who loves life & enjoys the simple things in life. I have three wonderful children. They are well established, grown and on their own. The only thing missing is my soul mate! I'm a good girl with a little bit of a wild side! I'm not a serial dater & I'm not looking to date one! My hope is to find my new best friend who may "become" my new partner in life. Thanks for reading my profile! Good luck with your journey here and best wishes for finding your new love! Mary For me, an ideal first date would be one that would facilitate good conversation! That way we can get to know each other better. Perhaps over coffee or dinner! Of course I'm open to other suggestions! What would you like to do?

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Like to bike ride, rollerblade, paddle board, work out at the gym. Love to cook, watch movies, go to happy hours, dance. I work a lot so I need a match who is understanding and has their own work and hobbies. Looking for a confident, trustworthy guy. I am trustworthy and expect the same. Like all music except for classical and opera. Lunch or happy hour to have a casual non obligatory meeting

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I have been changing this a lot lately. I guess I'm just trying to discover life again. I like country music and southern rock but can listen to any kind of music, and I love to dance. I'm honest no matter what. I have a daughter who is a single independent woman raising three amazing grandsons, and I have a wonderful son all who live on their own. I like drag racing, camping, boat riding and watching the sun set on the water I like just sitting and looking at the stars on a beautiful night.

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