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Aiah, 54
United States, Alabama, Opelika

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About Me

We are all a mix of nurture and nature. In my case the nurture included a lot of arts, culture and liberal politics. Nature gave me my pale skin, red hair, blue/grey eyes and a perfect 0.7 hip to waist ratio. Before I knew the curves were an asset I found I had a pretty good brain that needs a lot of stimulation. I've heard "treasure" and even "odd duck", meant in the nicest way, to describe the fact I don't exactly follow the herd. So unique brew is probably an apt description. It's no big surprise I work in a creative position. And it follows that I frequent galleries and lectures probably more than most. I listen to NPR, watch Charlie Rose and have been buying my food from farmers markets since I was a kid. Those that don't give their word lightly. People who are passionate, be it for their work, their hobby or life in general. Friends describe me as an ever-curious good conversationalist who can make people feel comfortable. I have a knack for finding those interesting little places and things that aren't on the public radar. So there's the touch of the explorer. Very often you'll find some leaf, seed pod or shell in my pockets.On a day-to-day level I possess a good amount of stick-to-it-ive-ness that keeps me grounded. I don't match the flighty artist stereotype at all. After eighteen years of marriage and over twenty years in my vocation, commitment and tenacity come naturally.But being grounded doesn't mean I've spent a lot of time standing still. I have adventured to some out of the way places. Travel is a mind-expanding experience.What might be a matching brew? Not sure...I am like my worst client in that regard, I keep thinking I will know it when I see it. I do think taking any action ripples out toward a final positive outcome. Even if it seems like a numbers game or random chance, to my mind even the small step of coffee, increases both our odds of finding that someone we are seeking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am a Terrace girl looking to find friends firstLife is about people to enjoy and love...........family, friends and a special someoneI would love to do some travelling, travel for me is adventure, culture and freedom..............love it and my passion is to create beauty....everything from renovations to sewing to creating the perfect pie but most of all I want someone to enjoy the simple pleasures of life with, after all that's where we spend most of our time coffee is always good

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    like to stay busy-work-out***x week-garden-bake-home-owner projects-keep a tidy homelooking for someone that is truly looking to meet someone and has dealt with all their old baggage-will take the time to allow a relationship to grow-not looking to hear about all your past relationships..lol.life is a new day each day..so find something good about it!!!I prefer positive people-music varies but not into the head-banging kindlike to vacation as we all do--lots of sun and beach please!!!-not really into fishing or motorcycleslike to meet in person-not much into all the texting and phone calls..only respond to profiles with pics-sorry-SORRY NO SMOKERS...Come on guys put some new pics up....be brave..be very brave.. :) lets just decide together!!!! :)UPDATE: TAKING A BREAK FROM THIS SITE>>LUCK TO ALL!!!

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