• Opelika
• Alabama
• United States

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Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-51

Hi! My name is Rachelbarnesia. I am separated spiritual but not religious caucasian woman with kids from Opelika, Alabama, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

• Opelika
• Alabama
• United States

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Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

We are all a mix of nurture and nature. In my case the nurture included a lot of arts, culture and liberal politics. Nature gave me my pale skin, red hair, blue/grey eyes and a perfect 0.7 hip to waist ratio. Before I knew the curves were an asset I found I had a pretty good brain that needs a lot of stimulation. I've heard "treasure" and even "odd duck", meant in the nicest way, to describe the fact I don't exactly follow the herd. So unique brew is probably an apt description. It's no big surprise I work in a creative position. And it follows that I frequent galleries and lectures probably more than most. I listen to NPR, watch Charlie Rose and have been buying my food from farmers markets since I was a kid. Those that don't give their word lightly. People who are passionate, be it for their work, their hobby or life in general. Friends describe me as an ever-curious good conversationalist who can make people feel comfortable. I have a knack for finding those interesting little places and things that aren't on the public radar. So there's the touch of the explorer. Very often you'll find some leaf, seed pod or shell in my pockets.On a day-to-day level I possess a good amount of stick-to-it-ive-ness that keeps me grounded. I don't match the flighty artist stereotype at all. After eighteen years of marriage and over twenty years in my vocation, commitment and tenacity come naturally.But being grounded doesn't mean I've spent a lot of time standing still. I have adventured to some out of the way places. Travel is a mind-expanding experience.What might be a matching brew? Not sure...I am like my worst client in that regard, I keep thinking I will know it when I see it. I do think taking any action ripples out toward a final positive outcome. Even if it seems like a numbers game or random chance, to my mind even the small step of coffee, increases both our odds of finding that someone we are seeking.

• Opelika
• Alabama
• United States

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Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

Looking for a friend first. as that is how all relationships begin. I have been separated for over a year, with no chance of reconciliation.I enjoy camping, fishing, bon-fires, flea markets, sunsets, listening to the rain while falling asleep.., drives in the country, animals, a really good home-made hamburger, Bbq's, good conversation.. a good joke, board games, music, all kinds of things. Also been told the sex appeal just rolls off me! lol.Or is that after the wine...A good glass of wine or mabye two...(yup there is the wine) SHRIMP! And Lobster , well that goes without saying.lolI have been told I am a pretty good cook.Life is as simple or as complicated as you want to make it. Myself, I prefer simple. Enjoying what life has to offer. The challenges, the laughter, quiet times, hard work, graditude, paying it forward, family and friends. I enjoy being near the water. Seems to bring a calmness to my soul. I have been studying the law of attraction, and applying it into my life. I am a Spiritual person who is learning to tap into the environment, my mind, and the universe and the energy it offers. Separating the negative from the positive takes practice... lol. Be careful what you wish for....I am easy going, patient, kind, , been known to make a few people laugh, and always willing to try something new, Just a normal gal, looking for that someone special ...to compliment my life, not complicate it. lol.. Integrity is really huge for me.Kissing, cuddling, laughing till it hurts, scary movies ,comedies, holding hands, fireplaces, long drives to no where in particular,, wine, grandkids, family and good friends.I spend a lot of evenings at home, (lately) chillin, doing things that interest me, like surfing the net, learning, reading, a little tv but not much, writing my book,, planning my life and my next goal. I also enjoy theatre, strolling this beautiful city, family, and getting to know new people. I will chat anyone up and find doing so only enhances my life. People are so diverse and we all have something to offer. Can not think of a better way to spend time then taking the transit and engaging in good conversation with another traveller, exchanging life experiences and thoughts. How cool is that. No judgement, just talking, freely. That is a bit part of who I am. We could be walking along, when suddenly you relieze I am not beside and you turn around, and there I am , chatting away with someone. I just enjoy people and am a friendly person. People don't talk to each other anymore. We are either on our phones, staring out the window, or avoiding eye contact. We have forgotten how to communicate with our neighbours.So if you are still reading this then you are either thinking, wow what a nut case, or, hmmm maybe she is worth checking out...I don't need a hero or to be rescued. I am content with my life and myself. I know myself more now than I think I ever have. And I am good with that. Life has a way of repeating the lesson until you get it. well guess what... I get it! lol. Finally. Whew!Honesty, Integrity and mutual respect are vital to any relationship or friendship., including mine.You can be yourself with me, and I ask for the same respect. I am just looking for someone who is willing to allow us to grow together. We will and should have some different interests, different opinions and different likes and dislikes., as well as commonalities. I mean I do not want to date myself, but sometimes I think that is not such a bad idea! lol.I am looking for a partner who knows how to also be a friend.....Happy fishing and may your day be full of wonder and enlightenment.Cheers..Whether you think you can or you can't , you are right... Henny FordAsk me what you want to know...No players, or married men, not interested in just an intimate encounter and must be at least 46, Also you must have a recent pic, or no response. only fair as you have seen me. A drink, lunch, museum, flea market,,a coffee, a walk, ice cream, the list is endless.. whatever we are comfortable with.