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Joy, 53

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About Me

I am honest,loyal,easy to get along withoutgoing,respectful..i would like to meet someone that is funny,has sense of humor and I can laugh with,outgoing,honest and caring for a long term relationship..Friends and family is important in my life...I am looking for my best friend and someone who can put a smile on my face and loves family .Looking for a smart, kind, reliable, generous, and successful refined man who wants an honest monogamous relationship. Ideally, I hope to fall in love, get married, and build a wonderful life with the right man.I believe that a healthy relationship takes love, effort, and compatibility. Hard work is needed for a career, but not in love. Dating should be fun and low maintenance. I prefer for relationships to develop naturally without pressure. Meeting a good man, having a lovely date, and learning new things are great by-products in my search of finding that special someone who might fulfill me mind, body, and soul. I appreciate a healthy attitude towards life and I enjoy the small things that make life easier...a smile first thing in the morning..your arms wrapped around me..I love being a woman...listening to a bird singing outside the window...a hot cup of coffee . I want someone who can be honest, loving and caring, and who knows how to treat me like a lady. I want love, I want to be loved and I want to give love back in return. I miss what it feels like when a man holds me in his arms and looks into my eyes and tells me he loves me. I want my man to hold me, kiss me, talk to me, kiss me, give me back tickles, kiss me, hold my hand, kiss me, cuddle me on the sofa, (I like to be held and touched), oh did I mention kiss me? I like that too! simply I want to be loved and feel someone's love and in return Love them back. I like to travel and try new things. I want to make new memories with the right man an honest and faithful man. I know he is out there! In the same breath I would like him to be able to talk with me, keeping the lines of communication open so there is no misunderstandings on either side. I believe in God. I would love to find a man who has God in his life too. I am helpful, kind and giving and I treat people with respect. In return I expect my new man to act the same way towards me and others. I'm new to dating, cautious and ready. I am looking for a man who is willing to be my friend and soul mate to build a long and lasting relationship with. To share the good times and bad times. To sit with me around the fire pit roasting marshmallows on a cool Autumn evening sharing our dreams for the future. Or will you whisk me off into the sunset for a whirlwind romance to last a life. I am a little old fashioned though I love to receive flowers and to be treated like a lady. I love to smile! life is too short for anything else :) So why don't we risk an *** by telling each other about our dreams, wants and desires.I tend to be attracted to a man who has depth and also vitality, someone who has strong interests of some kind and deep friendships. I find a combination of strength and vulnerability very attractive in a man: also, a combination of earthiness and cosmopolitan-ness; a little bit of grit along with a kind heart. I feel drawn to someone who has been willing to risk for what they care about. In relationship I’d like my partner to be kinesthetic … to enjoy touch. I think I have the above qualities too: we’ll probably express most of them in very different ways…

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Hello, I'm new at this whole online dating thing so I'm giving this a try.... I enjoy having fun, I like to laugh and have a good time,I love to cook and bake, I enjoying going to the movies. I enjoy the beach. I would love to travel more but my sense of direction a little off :) haha I also like to play card games. I dont know much about the area because I havent really been out anywhere. I'm looking for someone that wont judge me for size but for the person I am. I have a good sense of humor and love to laugh. I enjoy most music just not rap or heavy metal. My grandson has become a big part of my life. I enjoy having fun. I am not looking for a everlasting relationship from the beginning lets take it slow and see where things go. Let it be a natural connection. Nice place to meet and sit and chat get to know one another and have a few good laughs, who knows can see where things go from there.

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