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Ludivina, 53
United States, Alabama, Odenville

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If not interested - especially if I sent you a message first - please just be kind enough to send a message back.. no one likes to wonder and I can appreciate honesty. To see UNREAD DELETED.. means you are super judgmental, married, in a relationship, can't read or have some other issue.. But if you are interested in exploring a possible connection, I invite you to read on....I am looking for honest relationship with someone who isn't all about themselves. A true loving relationship is never one-sided. I am drama and baggage free..well unless you count the luggage waiting to be packed for the next adventure. I plan to explore new places in the future and it would be more enjoyable with someone to share it with. Motivated to meet the right one but not in a hurry -- true feelings take time to cultivate. like a rare flower. I am educated and love life. Friends would describe me as a "glass overflowing" type of woman as I choose to look at the positive side of life..finding beauty and joy in the simpler things -. looking to find a man that can share that appreciation. I am financially independant and do not need a man for security but life is too short to live it alone. I would love companionship and spending time with a guy that can be true to both themselves and me. Looking forward to meeting you and having a great first date.. Not intested in a hook up. I don't have the body of a 21 year old but do have a heart of gold. My favorite music is modern country but have a love of good jazz, blues as well as current hits. I do not like rap music.. sorry. My interests include reading, gardening, exploring small town charm, flea market treasure hunting, traveling and enjoying new experiences. I want to experiment with new foods although I will admit that if it looks nasty.. I can't try it.. People watching is also a favorite pastime.. I enjoy watching my favorite sports teams play - Falcons, Dawgs and Braves. My enjoyment is not limited to those teams though.. watching football is my favorite. If you get to this part of my profile and aren't totally bored.. another interesting fact about me is that I ride.. and have my own bike.. I shoot.. and have my own glock..be afraid..very afraid..lolOctober plans -.. wanna join me?- Just The Way You Are meeting for coffee or a walk around the park..anything that doesn't feel like a job interview. I saw a profile that although he was too far away to attempt a connection.. he had some wonderful first date ideas. I decided to create a list of my owne..check out the list, choose one that sounds like fun.. and let's enjoy.1. create a piece of pottery (Think Ghost)2. go yardselling3. rent a movie, pop some popcorn 4. go wading in a local creek5. bake cookies together6. Go to a little league game7. have a mexican night.. 8. watch an entire season of your favorite show9. walk the downtown area of a small town10. Visit a cemetary and find the oldest headstones11. hike up Stone Mountain12. Volunteer at a local animal shelter13. go antiquing14. Gocart racing (warn you.. I am very competitive)15. Putt-Putt (see number #14 warning)16. go to the Planetarium17. Play board games (again read the warning on #***. Have a carpet picnic19. window shop20. Bowling22. Go to an ethnic festival23. Carriage Ride24. Go to a hobby store and work on a project together25. Read to seniors at a nursing homeHe had ***ideas.. my list is under construction.. but you get the idea.. anything that is less stressful than staring at each other over a cup of coffee

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Japanese Thai Crime Documentary Family & Kids Bowling Boxing
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