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Dervila, 55

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About Me

I'm a very engaging, easy going, down-to-earth woman with charisma and full of life! I checked "NO SMOKING" as my goal is to quit altogether; I do smoke E Cigs, however, which are only vapor and odorless.I love to make others happy, much laughter, enjoying each other's company. A person without humor is void within - life is meant to be fun, enjoyable & fulfilling, we only go around once or at least that's what they say!! Appealing qualities for me is a man with a great sense of humor, DEPENDABLE/RELIABLE (if u make a date w/ me, please keep your promise, UNLESS it's a matter of life or death or work related, I will understand), inner & physical strength, integrity, honesty, sincerity and loyalty. Physically, I prefer TALL men ( 5'10"-6'4") with average build and easy on the eyes. I found my own family many years ago - to give back to others is very rewarding personally and emotionally fulfilling!If we find we are attracted to each other by our pictures, that's a great beginning, but we really won't know till we meet in person to see if there's any REAL chemistry between us. So for this reason, I would prefer seeing you after a few chats *** endless hours of online talking or texting - if you're looking for a buddy or just someone to talk to because you're bored out of your mind, having nothing better to do, or too shy to meet and are a serial chatter, please move on. I am searching for a meaningful relationship, but not one that suffocates and doesn't allow my freedom as an individual; someone who enhances my life as I would yours; someone I can trust & is there for me, as I would be for him.I am a very happy woman, I like where I'm at in life and I know I am blessed with wonderful life-long friends and family here in America & Next trip planed for ***. Besides many other interests, I would have to say music is at the top of the list and has always been a huge part of my life - I play the piano and keyboard, making up my own songs/tunes if the mood strikes me! I look forward to weekend or during the week getaways - have seen much of the USA & Europe.; I believe in keeping fit, not only physically, but mentally as well. I belong to a gym, going ***days per week. I have a curious mind, enjoying reading biographies, philosophy, different lifestyles and far away exotic places. I have two choc labs (brother & sister) and one orange kitty whom I consider my "kids". A kind heart towards our four-legged pals is a plus. Thank-you for reading my profile and may the "gods of fate" bring happiness & love to everyone on this site. Public setting for Tea/Coffee, Appetizers/Drink, Lunch or Dinner where we can talk & get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kaylon

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-34

    Hi! My name is Kaylon. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Northport, Alabama, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Lynell

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    A little about me... I love to travel and take weekend getaways. I love to cook, order in or fine dining. I am a true romantic, passionate and affectionate. Love camping or hotel room service. I try to stay fit so I can indulge in most cuisines. Always spontaneous and into new adventures. I am a giver, not a taker, not materialistic or superficial. I am as genuine as they come, extremely young at heart and have a zest for life. I am looking for a gentleman who loves life and lives life;a man in which I may have great conversations, is confident and communicative. I would love a man that is honest, has integrity and a great personality along with a great sense of humor. I seek a man that has great character, charisma and is also a romantic. Hoping this special man likes to travel also. I also believe it's not what you are doing but who you are with! A truly faithful man that loves to love and treasures the smaller things in life and me, of course!I'd just like to add...Please make sure you have a picture when you contact me if you would like me to respond. Talking on the phone first and then decide from there as to what would suit us best.

  • Aleena

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    This is the short version:I love to kick back with a glass of wine or pint of beer or forge ahead into the great outdoors. I'm a paddler and have my own canoe. I love adventuring in the city or out. I am a cat lady though dogs are cool too (and kids).I like midnight swims, spring showers, cooking over an open fire, dinners with friends, jeans and sweaters, good food, ice-cream, strong coffee (and 5 minute steeped tea). I like badminton, movies, books, dancing, singing, gardening, kissing, hiking, camping, feeling the wind against my face and the crunch of snow under my feet. I like to howl at the moon but I'm sometimes shy and need a push. Other times I light up a room.This is the longer version:I wanted to keep my profile short but perhaps I need to speak more to who I am and what it is I'm looking for. Perhaps this will narrow the responses I get...I only need one.I'm not lonely. I like where I'm at in my life. I like what I do, the things I've discovered about myself and the roads I've traveled down. I have a great family and a wonderful and ever growing group of friends. If I find someone to hold hands with ...well, that would be lovely and that's why I'm here.I want that special feeling that two people have when they look at each other across a crowded room. It's cliche, but it works.We need to be on the same page when it comes to humour. There's no hope if we can't make each other laugh. I can be silly, the clown, witty, dry, sarcastic or just cute and goofy. If you can make me laugh you will win my heart. I hope that's how I will win yours.Dancing. I love to dance. If you dance like a crazy ass punk rocker than we may be perfect for each other. This is not a prerequisite. It would just be nice.I almost didn't put relationship because it puts so much pressure on that first meeting. Or maybe even more so on the next which would really be our first date. The first meeting is really to see if we're on the same page or at the very least, the same chapter. And see if there's an attraction.It's important. Attraction. For women it's not necessarily how good looking you are. It could be your words, your confidence, your shyness or boldness. It could be your love of the outdoors or the way you smile. I like earnestness. I like handy men. I like soul. I like someone that isn't afraid to get his hands dirty. I like passion both with me and for the world. You needn't be vocal about your love of people and the earth. You just need to have it. It's important to me that your political views lean more to the left. I work-out because I have bad knees. I don't have a drop dead gorgeous body. I work-out so I can do the things I enjoy and not kill myself. I like to relax. I'm pretty laid back and so not high energy. I simply like to do a lot of different things. This doesn't mean I have an insurmountable amount of energy. In fact I need my down time. I'm not always good at communicating my feelings but I think it a very important part of keeping a relationship healthy. I like discussion. But I don't think we need to fill all the silence with words either. We all deserve respect and kindness. If we meet, let's keep it simple and easy and maybe at the very least have some intelligent conversation and a few laughs.I'm pragmatic. It's the journey, not the destination. Ok...the destination is good too!Yikes - That's one freakin' long profile. :) Let's meet and take it from there.

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