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This is not your typical read. It is 2:30 in the morning as I write this and I find myself compelled to get it "on paper" before I close my eyes to end this day. In the past, I have written the typical profile.....filled with "data". I have written the humorous profile (and I can be a very funny girl). This profile is from the heart, plain and simple. If you find yourself not comfortable with what you read here, that is ok! It just means we are not a match. But if you can feel my heart in the words I share, then perhaps we should talk.I am a woman with an open heart. Open through pain, hurt, joy and rejection. With each heart encounter, it only opens wider, waiting for the opportunity to open even larger to the love of a deep man. I long for that connection. It is my hearts desire.. A desire I had as a very young girl....even then I knew it was possible. Funny how that happens. The children we are born to be are so shaped into what society expects of us. Women are taught to be strong and self sufficient. But what about the natural *** have as men and women? What of them? I have rediscovered that desire within myself. To revel in the feminine being that I am. It continues to grow within me and burst forward, refusing to remain dormant. Such an awakening for me. Such a blessing. Such a relief. Such a joy!In the peace of this early morning hour, I am lonely. Learning to be alone is a gift in itself, but I know in my heart that I am not meant to be alone. I have so much to share....so much to give. What a wondrous thing it would be to find a man who is as interested as I in exploring all our possibilites...mentally, spiritually and physically. A man who realizes that it is the little things that matter the most. A man who is willing to face his fears and be drawn into my waiting heart. I want to bury my head into his chest and feel at home. I am a work in progress and know that I will always be. Growing and learning are as important as breathing. I am multi faceted and not always as serious as this! (remember it is 2:30 in the morning as I write this!) I find myself most content with a man that I can express myself to verbally - I am big on communication. I love the written word and writing poetry feeds me. I always have a song in my head and often on my voice. (maybe you will sing with me?) If you want to know more about me, or just sing with me (!), please drop me a note. I am going to sleep now. Feeling a little lighter having written this. Best wishes to you in your journey. Update: Just heard a quote from a movie that kind of sums up a lot of what I feel. "You want a man who will lead you down the beach with his hand over your eyes just so you can discover the feel of sand under your feet." That thought covers so much.....trust, care, adventure, discovery.....all important things to me in a relationship!. OK.....here is another one that gets to me that will show you just how sappy I am! "I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss of her mouth, one touch of her hand than eternity without it. ONE." (City of Angels) My ideal date would be anywhere that I could have a meaningful conversation over a glass of wine. I have the wine....am full of conversation...all I am missing is you. Want to know more? Let's grab a bottle and sit over here....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Traveling Archery Boxing Golf
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  • Lani from Northport | Woman | 52 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    First of all, thanks for stopping by. I'm glad that you enjoyed my picture :-)Let me first start off by saying that I am a mature woman who knows what she wants. I do not date men under 45 years old or over 53 years old. Please do not try to convince me. Please don't find this rude or mean but I don't want to waste anyone's time. Also because I am tall and I like to wear heels, I only date men that are 6'-6'3". I like to be able to look into my man's eyes so over 6'3" is too tall for me and I'm uncomfortable.For those who have criticized and yelled at me for having a very long profile, I'm sorry but I'd like you to know some things about me first. With all that being said here's a little backstory on me first.... I am a native Californian. I was adopted as a baby and grew up with the most wonderful parents. My sister that I grew up with found my birth family about six years ago. And I now have three full-blooded siblings to add to my family. I am truly blessed to have two wonderful families. I was a model and a beauty queen and I won several titles. I was also a playboy bunny at the Century City club and was a placard bearer in the ***Olympics. I have done so many interesting things in my life, people have said I should write a book. I now work in the entertainment industry as a make up artist and a producer. I am fortunate to be able to travel to different countries with my work. I enjoy what I do as my profession. But sometimes I work long and unpredictable hours, making it sometimes difficult to plan a coffee date. I am usually working with beautiful sexy women so it's hard to meet any eligible men, so that is why I am on this dating site.I enjoy going to antique auctions and car shows. I've had several different classic cars. An ex-boyfriend and I would buy a classic car then fix it up and sell it. It was a lot of fun because I used to drive it around while it was for sale. I've learned a lot about construction and how to repair things.I love to go roller skating. At one point in time I was an excellent skater. I was in several skating movies including roller boogie and skate town. I'm totally into the alien conspiracy theories. I enjoy going to MUFON meetings. I actually held the star child skull, which was amazing! I love to look at the stars and wonder when the mother ship is coming back. LOLI am into holistic medicine and natural products. I am interested in all the New Age type of things. I am a tree hugger at heart. I am a vegetarian/vegan and have been a vegetarian for over 30 years. I will not date a hunter and I am against fishing. But if you're a meat eater I can deal with that but would prefer someone with a healthier lifestyle. The majority of my ex boyfriends and my good friends eat meat so I do not preach. (It's your karma! lol). I love going to the theater, seeing live music, comedy shows, movies, certain lectures and conventions. I consider myself a never ending student of life and everything it has to offer. I love talking with people whom are interesting and have experienced a lot of life situations.I am honest, loyal, kind, faithful, health-conscious, respectful, likes people, has a good sense of humor, spiritual, loves animals, somewhat intelligent :-), spontaneous -yet grounded, easy--spirited, self-sufficient, strong, old soul type, motivated, helpful, good morals, positive and upbeat, resourceful, clean, nonjudgmental, not into games or drama and I want someone with those same qualities. :-) I do know that no one is perfect and it is a daily job for me to remember to be some of those things too. I would love to find a man who has the above qualities and wants to go on walks or hiking to get physically fit with me. I used to be a dancer so I was in great physical shape but now that I've gotten older I keep forgetting that I have to actually work out to retain a nice body! I also want someone who is wanting to travel to see different countries with me. I love to see the culture and architecture.I’d love to find my best friend and a lover all mixed into one man. Is that too much to ask for. :-) Please not try to convince me that you are an old soul at 27 or a young hip 63 year old. I'm sure that you are, but I'm just not interested. :-) And if you don't have a profile picture, most women will not open your *** would have never written your *** first place had you not seen our profile picture, so it's only fair! And please don't message me if you are a jealous type or that is into games, negative, Immature and Insecure. And I don't want to hear about you bashing your ex wife/girlfriend. I don't have time to be a therapist lolWith all that being said, I hope that everyone finds that special person that they are searching for. :-) For a first meeting type of date, I am open to suggestions. But I do love frozen yogurt. I am not a coffee drinker but I love a good cup of tea. Lunch, brunch or dinner would be nice too but I am a picky eater so I am just forewarning you. :-) I am a vegetarian who is allergic to gluten so I know certain places that I absolutely love to eat at! For a possible second date, Disneyland sounds fun. I haven't been there in many many years. Or a movie at my three dollar theater lol :-)

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  • Candance from Northport | Woman | 55 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hello, Gentlemen, So for those inquiring minds that would like some need to know "basic" things about me are that: I am fun, kind, loving, energetic, & hard-working. I love to laugh, live & love. I am sassy, classy, preppy and athIetic all rolled into one. I teach, but, I also, equally like to learn how to do new things that I have never done before. Those exciting new things and first time experiences are so amazing, so I definetly appreciate and cherish every moment of them whole heartedly! I still have a few of those “things” on my bucket list that I would like to accomplish. For ***, like going for a ride in a hot air balloon, learning how to fly fish, or to drive a stick shift. I like to get dressed to the nines, wear heels & go out on the town, sometimes just staying in and hanging out is fine, too. I have a chocolate lab; he is one of my pride & joys! I pretty much love to do anything with an "ing" like golfing, bowling, skiing, horseback riding, & dancing, etc. Music.. Moves the sole...if I feel it, I like it...rock...country, soul, the blues...stuff from the 80's, 90’s and oldies but goodies. I like going to concerts, the movies, and sporting events (not a fanatic just like my teams for whatever sports are in season, ‘specially the playoffs, Indy & The Masters & The US Open), etc., etc., and doing what you want to do, too, within reason:) I am healthy and try to stay fit & trim. I like to walk & hike. I really like to dance and if you like it too, that's a plus! But, honestly all of this is fine & well, because it’s about the connection, and that is what I am looking for, it’s that feeling you get when you meet someone who you can see yourself with no matter what you do together on a daily basis and with a future that looks promising. Bottom line I wouldn't expect anything from you that I don't expect in myself. Am the real deal and am who I say I am. So, be real & true to who you really are & who knows the rest is up to whoever crosses in each others path. A first real date... past the meet & greet stage... would be romantic and fun...spontaneous.. yet planned...dining & music & dancing...then.. nightcaps at new places with exciting adventures...or strolls w/ moonlight & stars ...imagination for exciting dates can be equally planned or surprised as long as there is a connection then the rest usually falls into place.

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  • Lorin from Northport | Woman | 52 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hi, I am new back into the world of dating, and at 52 I should be terrified but I'm not, I am excited to start living my life again, I had put me on the back burner for way to long, because there are only so many options for answers, I'd like to say that even though I'm not ready or looking for anything more than friendships and dating, I am not against being serious if the right person came along, I miss having passion in my life, but I am also not going to be a booty call either..!. I love to cook and I'm a very good cook, I enjoy going out to listen to music and I aspire to take some salsa dance lessons...but I also love time at home, funny movies and down time..( my life has had it's fair share of chaos lately) ...so peaceful time is important too, I have a Harley and love going for rides, wish I had someone to ride with...lets meet for coffee, that's easy and everywhere...I'm pretty awesome, don't let thus pass you by.... Our first date, we meet for coffee, we strike up conversation, maybe go for a walk, if we have a spark or at least great chemistry we might go get lunch or dinner, we hopefully find a desire to keep talking, by now if there is something we should have a pretty good idea, with that I'm guessing we go onto dinner or if your lucky I make you dinner, who knows, a kiss...that's super important, a kiss the right type of kiss tells me a lot about what else would come with that...forceful tongue jamming is not to desirable, however soft tender lips touching...now that will spark up a flame and make me want more...and from there I certainly hope we want to see each other really soon...

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