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Ricki, 54

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About Me

Big smile and warm heart, easy going, in shape lady. I like to be on the go and always have a project going. Divorced after 32 years of marriage, 30 of them wonderful. Not sure what's next but looking forward to the future. I'm a positive, can do type, looking for the same. Conservative, with old fashioned values and morals, I treat people with kindness and respect. Always up for fun or an adventure I also have a quiet, reflective side. I'm a one man woman and I'm looking for someone who is looking for the the same. Life's to short not to have that special person to laugh, love and share with. The work I do allows me a lot of free time and I would like to spend some of that time with you. I'm affectionate and a toucher. If you are the right one you'll never have any doubt that you are loved and appreciated.I'm looking forward to meeting that one great guy, a special, considerate, romantic and compassionate gentleman who can laugh and knows it's not all about him. Integrity and trustworthy are two words that should be used to describe you. I prefer a down to earth man with a sense of humor. I stay active and in shape and it would be great if you did too. I'm looking for that rare man on here who really likes being part of a couple. My family and close friends are important to me and I enjoy spending time with them. My friends have been made over a lifetime and I would do anything for them. What's important is that we enjoy being together, not what we do. You can have fun running an errand if it's with the right person. That's why I'm looking for a friend and lover. Someone I look forward to being with. A man who is well rounded, calm and strong. I don't need to be joined at the hip, I like some time to myself and will respect your need for time and space. I love nature, I'm a water baby and enjoy the mountains and beach, the desert not so much. I love animals of all kind, and do volunteer rescue work. I can ride horses, enjoy sports and most music--rap is not music. I like cooking and having friends over--BBQ anyone. I love new adventures and seeing new places. If it doesn't go well, ok, it makes a good story later. I just went kayaking and for my first motorcycle ride within the last few weeks. I moved here from N. Cal. after my divorce a year ago, and enjoy so much of what S. Cal has to offer. If you propose an adventure I'm very likely to say "Let's go for it." With the hope you have enough training or common sense to keep us safe. If you are looking for someone who is easy going, can laugh at life, is ok on her own but likes to be part of a couple and might surprise you once in a while when the smarts show up, then I may be right for you. Guys I'm a woman, of course I enjoy concerts, fine dining, gardening, art shows and would think you are wonderful if you would enjoy those things with me once in a while but I'm happy if you'll just dig a hole for the new plant I bought. I will enjoy a car show, museum or sports event with you. I know the give and take a really good relationship requires. I will never jump out of a plane with you. You're on your own there, but I've got your back for anything else.If we're neighbors say "Hi" and let's get acquainted. I'm open, as long as it's a public place and we can talk

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    A little about me... I am fun, happy, compassionate and have have an aura that people are attracted to. I treat people the way I want to be treated and have a great deal to offer the right guy. I am in the medical field and have been at my job for nearly 24 years, and looking forward to retirement in the next few years. I am an active woman. Golf has become my newest passion, am loving it and looking forward to improving my game. I love life and everything it has to offer. I have a magnetic smile, a very big heart, and would do anything for anyone. I have an extremely positive outlook on life, and believe everything happens for a reason. God has us always where he wants us. I am of christian faith and try my best to live by those values, though far from perfect. I have always led a clean life, no drugs or excessive alcohol. I believe that is the key in living a long life, as well as a healthy mind, body and soul. I have learned a lot the last few years, life has unexpected turns in that I have had to endure much suffering and pain. I have lost a son who was who was the most treasured gift to me and my family, but for reasons that I will never understand, God called him home. Life is to be valued, as well as our loved ones. Dreams... To live happily with no regretsAbout the one I'm looking for...My ideal guy would be someone that cherishes family, is sensitive, has a sense of humor, creative, honest and spiritual, preferably of christian faith. I have a special attraction to guys. who are mechanically inclined. Character is very important to me. Be on time and respectful. Mean what you say. Actions do speak for themselves. Honesty and communication are essential. No excessive drinking and absolutely no tolerance for drugs in any way, whether it be abuse of prescription or illegal. Life is too short to be wasted on a road that takes you nowhere. I like fun, outgoing and assertive guys. I like spontaneity, it is the spice of life. I do have alot of energy for my age, and hope to meet a guy who can keep up with me, lol. I want to make the next few decades the best years of my life. Initially, I am hoping to meet a guy that I can hang out with and have fun, get to know one another as friends and see where it goes. -Thoughts-We can't change the past...but we can gather up its lessons and move on, stronger and wiser.We can't control the future...but we can send our dreams ahead of us to help prepare the way.We can live each moment, heart and soul, and cherish this day's greatest gift...the gift of NOW. Roller skating? Bowling? A walk in the park?

  • Zita

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi there, since I've been on this site, I've re-evaluated what it is that I am looking for.I am taking a huge step backward and am just looking for friendships at this time.And I don't mean friends with benefits, that sounds so shallow, for me anyway.Sounds like something an Insurance company might offer you, "and now, you can have friends with benefits! Operators are standing by!"Doesn't mean I don't want a long term connection, I am just being cautious. And with friends, you never know, you might find the friend you want to be with. I'm a happy person, and if I never get into another relationship I know I'll be happy anyway, maybe lonely at times, but that's normal. But in reality, I'M probably the Knight-and Shining Armor-ette who will find a guy that trips me as I walk by him and I realize he's the one.Divorced in '08.Not bitter, just did not make the right choice in a partner and it became necessary to part ways. I'm very independent and would never ask a guy for money, and I cannot be bought. So relax the high maintenance worries!I'm NOT looking for a guy who's only looking for a lady with superficial qualities.I have a good sense of humor and don't like to take myself too seriously, although I'm human and have my serious moments. I think I'm too sensitive at times, I'm a softy, not harsh. But that's part of who I am, I will not ever have a tough exterior or calloused hide as some people have suggested I develop. That will never be me.However, I'm not a push over either, and I will stand my ground and protect myself if I'm being picked on, even if I go cry in private later. I may be sensitive, but I'm also a survivor.I love being out in nature, looking at all the details God has created on this earth.Looking up at the night sky and wondering what is beyond what NASA has discovered so far,beyond awesome!! I won't pretend to be an expert at space science, but I love to learn as much as I can, even if a lot of it is beyond(there's that word again, but can't come up with another word to take it's place) my comprehension.I have a wonderful elderly mom,wonderful younger sister with special needs, and a great brother too.Have great friends from childhood. I love them dearly. I'm prior US Navy RN,Nurse Corps x4 yrs, retired as a LT.Now I work as an advice R.N. and love what I do, how lucky I am to be able to speak with patients and give them advice and discuss prevention for good health!I have a clean history.No trouble with the law nor drugs and proud to be the nerd that I am!! I believe in God, although I haven't been to church in yrs.Baptised Catholic.Bad boys need NOT apply.. NO Criminal History please,Looking forward to whoever is out there meant for me to meet and enjoy! :) Coffee, ok tea or whatever else you want to drink ,as long as you are not impaired by it and can therefore drive SOBER !. Go for a walk and talk.Will never argue with having dessert. Even lunch. But in a public place. I want to feel out the situation and make sure I'm safe.

  • Aletha

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am a hopeless romantic. I am feminine, sexy, soft and warm, kind and caring. I am also a lot of fun to be with and seem to have a way of putting people at ease. I'm easy to talk to and a good listener. I would prefer the same attributes in a man.....I am honest, loyal, passionate, funloving, witty, kind & compasionate. I am looking for my soul mate and the absolute love of my life!!!!! I have much to offer to the right man. I have raised three of the best kids I know. My youngest is 18 and is at UCLA. He is the vice president of his dorm. I feel like these should be the best years of my life and I would like to share them with one special man.... Let's decide together...

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