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Delisa, 51

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About Me

Upon meeting a man for the first time, I can usually tell whether he is someone I want to see again or not. The way we act and speak gives off volumes of information. I am an old-fashioned, conservative person who believes in God. My marriage lasted 14 yrs. and I was faithful until my husband lost his life. I am not looking for someone to replace my husband, but am looking for someone to go out with occasionally, be a friend to, and maybe have a dating relationship if all goes well. Eventually I will want to marry again but not anytime soon, unless you knock my socks off. Honesty is key, even if it hurts. It is better to know the truth than to believe a lie. You need to be yourself, have a strong work ethic, be down to earth, and have compassion. I teach library classes in a local elementary school. Most folks have a vision of librarians wearing horn-rimmed glasses, hair in a bun, wearing ugly shoes and shushing people. I don't have much tolerance for country or rap.Sadly, outside of work, there isn't an opportunity to go out much. I am a working mom who is raising teenagers and feel like I am a taxi driver. I value staying home but need adult company. Drinking and partying does not appeal to me. I prefer to hang out with friends in small groups rather than in large groups. Please don't contact me if you are financially needy, in credit trouble, if you are a metrosexual, a long haired hippy, have bad teeth, or if you are way younger than me. Someplace public like a coffee house or cafe is a good first date. That way we don't feel awkward for too long if there isn't chemistry. I prefer to pay for myself the first time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am retired Navy girl.....a born and raised country girl at heart, and a proud Mom and Nanna to two kids and a grandbaby. My son recently graduated from high school this past June so my job is pretty much done or so they say. LOL But a Mom, I will always be at heart and my job will never be done in that area. However, it is now getting to be the time to focus on my happiness and start moving on with my life. I have devoted my entire life to my kids and now I am starting to find a lot more time on my hands and I think it is time to fill that void within me. All I need is the right guy....that's the tough part. But I do have faith that there is somebody out there for me. I'd love to find a great guy who treats a lady with respect and honesty. Somebody who makes me laugh and makes me feel like I can't wait to see him again even before the first date is over. I love the beach and long walks and a ride in the mountains is always nice. Its great therapeutic treatment and when I am there, I forget everything else. A glass of wine under a sky full of stars is very relaxing and would be even better to have someone to share that wine with. Dating has become so hard at this age of the game. I guess because it has been too long since I've been in this type of atmosphere ***years) and I don't hang out at bars and don't want to be viewed as just a pick up. Living in a small town doesn't leave a lot of options for dating either. But I do believe in happiness and that there is somebody just for me out there in this big ole' world. So as recommended by a friend, here I am on this dating site to see how it goes. Well if you find anything of interest in what I have said, please feel free to contact me. Otherwise, good luck in your relationship search as well and have a great day. :) Possibly a nice place to meet up and get to know one another over coffee, dinner or a drink. If there is a connection, we can see where the adventure takes us.

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