SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Delisa
Online
Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 48-58
Upon meeting a man for the first time, I can usually tell whether he is someone I want to see again or not. The way we act and speak gives off volumes of information. I am an old-fashioned, conservative person who believes in God. My marriage lasted 14 yrs. and I was faithful until my husband lost his life. I am not looking for someone to replace my husband, but am looking for someone to go out with occasionally, be a friend to, and maybe have a dating relationship if all goes well. Eventually I will want to marry again but not anytime soon, unless you knock my socks off. Honesty is key, even if it hurts. It is better to know the truth than to believe a lie. You need to be yourself, have a strong work ethic, be down to earth, and have compassion. I teach library classes in a local elementary school. Most folks have a vision of librarians wearing horn-rimmed glasses, hair in a bun, wearing ugly shoes and shushing people. I don't have much tolerance for country or rap.Sadly, outside of work, there isn't an opportunity to go out much. I am a working mom who is raising teenagers and feel like I am a taxi driver. I value staying home but need adult company. Drinking and partying does not appeal to me. I prefer to hang out with friends in small groups rather than in large groups. Please don't contact me if you are financially needy, in credit trouble, if you are a metrosexual, a long haired hippy, have bad teeth, or if you are way younger than me. Someplace public like a coffee house or cafe is a good first date. That way we don't feel awkward for too long if there isn't chemistry. I prefer to pay for myself the first time.
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Peter
Online
Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
I've been off meetville for awhile, preferring real human contact to speaking in one liners through brief messages. Felt encouraged to search again, this time with higher hopes & expectations. I love life. I love being a woman. I am creative, spiritually grounded, playful, love doing new things and going to new places. I prefer being outdoors, especially on or by the water. I'd love to have a partner who is also spiritually grounded, playful, fun, does not take life seriously, available & desires to travel, and is positive & optimistic. A partnership where two people support and enhance the best in self and the other is a remarkable partnership. I have friends like that. Now I desire a man for that and the other fun stuff ~I would say being positive is a very important quality I embody & desire in the other. We each have moments of frustrations, perhaps sadness, & it is what one does to climb out of those places that is important. And someone who will stand by me, nonjudgementally, softly holding me, when I might encounter a piece of myself healing & I will do the same for you.I live life sensually~ meaning I experience through all my senses so my experiences are deep, rich and pleasurable. I come from an Italian background, where feeling life is natural. We hug, touch, laugh, sing, whatever feels pleasurable in the moment. When was the last time you paused & focused on the foods you were eating, to notice the flavors, the textures, the smells? I definitely stop to smell the roses, drink in luxuriously the slow sunsets, and breathe in the beauty of Nature & music. I wake up each day with a smile & go to sleep each night with a warm smile. I love hugs, real embraces. I feel each person we meet is an opportunity, for something good. I would love to be with my "One" and I will not rush, settle or make up fantasies before we have gotten to know each other. I am not high maintenance, it is the simpler, more authentic things that bring a smile and a laugh...Kindly, if you choose to ***, send more than a sound bite or cliche. Be real, say something about yourself and why you are interested in getting to know me better. First, it is the person, not the place. Right person & anywhere we go, we'll laugh, talk, look deeply into one another's eyes & continue to learn & enjoy more about the other.That said, please someplace more than the coffee house (unless you want a quick dash). With the right guy, it would be something outdoors. When we meet, do us both a favor, please don't pretend, just breathe & be yourself. Yes, I know it takes courage to date & get to know someone~ please, no false impressions, don't put on an act. I am real and speak honestly, please do so as well. You don't have to tell me your life story the first time we meet, just don't put on an act, a show. Either we will like each other or not. If not there is someone better for each of us elsewhere, no big deal. Please no desperation~ actually like yourself & your life. I'm not here to fix you, heal you or complete you. I am here to complement you. As you are for me. Let it be easy. Let's PLAY!
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Flo
Online
Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 50-60
I'm a confident female that's easy going and excited to explore new possibilities. This is the best time of our lives! I enjoy "me time" but I miss male companionship and being close to someone I care deeply about. I'm fun loving and unconventional in my thinking. I'm always exploring new ideas and ways to make the most out of life. I'm not materialistically driven but I do like creature comforts and I live a conservative but comfortable lifestyle. More important to me than a closet full of shoes is the opportunity to have a family bbq or to spend time in the great outdoors. There's nothing better than cuddling under a warm comforter on a brisk morning with the birds singing and the smell of a distant campfire. I'm not much of a city gal, having grown up in the country. Perhaps one day I will end up back there. Personal growth and self awareness are priority at this stage of my life and I'd love to meet a gentleman who is experiencing his own journey of self awareness and not afraid to own it. I am very loving and giving and I will recognize him when he comes along because he will also be of that nature. My Mate thrives on easy, stimulating conversation without a need to prove anything to anybody. He is self assured with physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual depth and awareness and we share this depth. His self confidence and playfulness allows him to believe in all possibilities and dreams come true. When we come together the possibilities magnify exponentially. He is real and unconventional at the same time.Who said we weren't allowed to dream??????Simply put, it will feel right when it's right.If in some way what you've read and seen here feels right, drop me a note. We might be destined to meet or at least chat... If not, may the universe smile on you in your quest to find the one that feels right!