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Avah, 51
United States, Alabama, Muscle Shoals

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About Me

Hi! and thanks for stopping by... I am here hoping to find my best friend, my lover, my confidant and my life companion. I understand that sometimes two people that have similar interests just may not click when they meet. That's OK, that is life! We are all adults here. I am not into weeks of texting or messaging and talking on the phone, if we share the same interests lets meet somewhere, face-to-face, and see what happens! The worst that can happen is there is no "spark"...no harm, no foul, and not a lot of wasted time...If you find someone else or decide we are not a good match, tell me! I have feelings, and it hurts when people just suddenly stop texting/calling/whatever...and you don't have to lie to me!I can weep at a chick flick or cuss out a ref that makes a bad call while watching my fave football team...I am one heck of a cook but enjoy having help in the kitchen too. i am honest, straightforward, rather old-fashioned in many ways, and was raised with an appreciation of the finer things in life, and the value of hard work. I worked hard for 25 years and am paying for it now. lol...everything works, i am just a little slower than I was at 20! I am by no means perfect and am not looking for perfection, just a real man who is perfect to me!I am looking for a man that wants to meet his best friend/lover/confidant and life companion. You must be honest, straightforward, and know how to and be willing to communicate! If you work 60 or more hours a week and want to spend your spare time with your kids, why are you here? just sayin... Being able to dress up for a night at the symphony is a plus...as is knowing how to cook both on charcoal and gas grills! I live with my Dad, and am quite content to continue to do so. I will answer every message that is sent to me, even if it is just to say "sorry, not interested"!. I would NEVER be rude to someone and *** message! Please don't add me to your favorites without sendiing me a message, it confuses me! lol (is he interested? is he not?...) same with the MEET ME feature, just drop me a line for goodness sake! I'm a nice person! If I drop you a line like so many of you say you want if a woman is interested, can you not at least acknowledge that? Even if it is just "no thanks"? I am NOT looking for fwbs or one-nighters. Sorry, I am just not into big-bodied men! I like all music, from Mozart to Metallica, and everything in between except rap and hip-hop. i still love life and get enthused about the good things!Going to the symphony, the theater, out to see a good blues band, a ball game, or the tractor pulls at the fair are some things I enjoy.Walking in the park or on the beach, sitting on the back porch watching the sun rise (or set) are also good times. Road trips are fun too, both planned and spontaneous! I have a great sense of humor and can laugh at myself when I have a blonde moment. I am well-read and never intend to stop learning. I have patience for just about everything except willful stupidity and deception! I am not into the bar or club scene, I just don't drink much, but will go see a good band. I love animals, and have owned many different kinds over the years. I have a valid passport, and would love to see more of the world someday. I enjoy the slower pace of country life and the culture available in cities.I prefer small gatherings to large parties, don't need to have money spent on me to have a good time, appreciate the gift of a compliment when warranted more than a thousand birthday gifts on that one day of the year. I am very affectionate, and passionate and want someone that is the same. I will be your cheerleader 110%, I am not into drama, and will NOT fight with anyone! If you are still interested, and feel you and I would be a possibilty, drop me a line...if not, good luck! Meet somewhere for coffee and chat.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Korean Portuguese
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