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I like reading,movies,football,dogs,swimming and I have a self deprecating sense of humor. Big fan of sarcasm,salsa and chips, snowstorms and Seinfeld (see what I did there? They all begin with the letter "S"...interesting? No? Ok,lol. My goal is to be with someone who "gets" me...other than that....my cooking stills are very,very sad....however I have excellent dish washing skills! I think it's important to be able to communicate....at this stage of my life I have no interest in head games. (From what I can tell, the previous sentence is mandatory in all profiles...but how funny would it be if someone actually wrote: game playing appreciated because i'm attracted to guys who are in the midst of a deep homosexual panic and need to over compensate.....lol).I'm 50 and I am a woman who is comfortable with who I am. I'm not a woman who will go out to dinner and order a salad and water,lol. I'm not so much into going to a bar....but if I do go...I like an "old joint"....I was married for 10 years then divorced...then had an 18 year relationship that I should have left much earlier...my son is grown...I feel like this is my time.....oh....one more little teeny,tiny thing: I sometimes have this tendency to go off topic during discussions....for example, we might be having a perfectly lovely conversation about quantum physics or Einsteins Theory of Relativity and I suddenly ask if you've ever seen an Amish person with a wooden leg.....because I haven't. Seriously.....think about it...(sigh....)these are the things that keep me up at night. ;). UPDATE: I apparently need to clarify something....when I said I prefer "an old joint" I meant an old Bar or club. VS a new loud, noisy club.....an. old joint. With a jukebox and a mahogany.bar....lol....not an old joint as in smoking.....lol! ***. Does anyone on this site DATE? I get lots of messages but when I suggest setting up a date, dead silence. Seriously....this isn't rocket science. Get out from behind your computer and lets go on a date! A couple drinks....some laughs....geez.....if its not a "love connection", so what? Big deal! A few hours of laughing will be fun!!!!!! ***.... Not interested in a texting relationship!!!! Coffee or drinks....some flirting....laughing and a really great kiss...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tsipporah

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Trying to find you is like putting together a million piece jigsaw puzzle. I haven't even found the straight edge pieces to connect the borders. I go to meetville just like I read the paper these days, read profiles as if to say what's new in the world of men. Occasionally a guy will catch my eye, and sometimes we talk, and if I am lucky I get a dinner date. But it is not there, that spark we are all looking for. The pieces of the puzzle just are not coming together. Why is this so hard!!I will tell you I am not perfect. My youth is gone and my Barbie days with Ken is just a memory. But I am still breathing, it's not over!!My life is messy, yet, that just keeps me looking to my Father in Heaven for help to keep it together. I can't promise you an existing rose garden, but, I can promise you that the bed of roses is waiting to be planted.As you can see from my pictures I love the water, I enjoy swimming, boating, fishing, anything that has to do with the water!! I also like to travel and go on weekend trips. I love music, thank God for writers who can put some of our feelings into words. It helps us get through those moments.Someone like you makes itAll worth whileSomeone like you keepsMe satisfied. Someone exactlyLike you.I've been travellin' a hard roadLookin' for someone exactly like youI've been carryin' my heavy loadWaiting for the light to comeShining through.Someone like you makes itAll worth whileSomeone like you keepsMe satisfied. Someone exactlyLike you.I've been doin' some soul searchingTo find out where you're atI've been up and down the highwayIn all kinds of foreign landsSomeone like you... [etc.]I've been all around the worldMarching to the beat of a differentDrum.But just lately I haveRealisedThe best is yet to come.Someone like you... [etc.]I wrote the rest of this profile about 8 years ago. (catch your breath, lol didn't I just say I been searching a long time for you). I am looking for a man that can be real and true. I would like him to be honest and real with himself, first. Would like to grow together and become best friends, first. I would like him to want me more than he needs me. I will say at this point that all of these things is what I strive to be also. I am looking for a man that does not have a wall around him protecting him from what has hurt him in the past. Although, I know that there may be times that the wall is there, yet not afraid to put it down when it comes up. Life is full of changes and I try to learn and grow from each one. I strive for excellence, although must admit I don't always achieve it. I am not afraid of change or correction in my best interest. Which brings me to my next search, lol, looking for someone who has my best interest, as I would have his. Honesty, faithful, trustworthy, fun, compassion, sincere, spiritual, physical, is just some of the personality traits I am looking for. I believe that if we all adhered to the golden rule there would be less people on match. " treat others as you would want to be treated". If we all asked ourselves that question before we said or acted, wow what a better world this would be! Are you ready to be treated, as I would want to be treated? Thanks for stopping by, best wishes on your search. MUST HAVE PIC ON YOUR PROFILE!! First dates can be awkward and uncomfortable, lets fast forward to the 5th date.

  • Lula

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a woman in my 50's and proud of that! If you are looking for "arm candy", stick thin with a 20-year old hard body then boy are you on the wrong profile! I am secure with who I am and want to find that special man who sees what is on the inside as being the MOST important feature. I try to take care of myself and I do "clean up" nicely. I have a sense of humor and admire that quality in the man I'm with.I love the outdoors, the beach, outdoor cookouts with friends. I feel I'm at the stage in my life where it's time to ride in the front seat with that special someone, that person who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with him.I've never been "into" game playing and am definitely too old to start now. I'm not looking for casual sex, I want someone to share things with such as walks on the beach, watching sunrises and sunsets. Sharing a good movie on the TV together just enjoying each others company.I treasure honesty and loyalty in my friends and relationships, if this is not something you live by then thank you for stopping by my profile but no thanks. Also I would like to add that I like to meet someone in person to see if there is any chemistry....I am not looking for another *** I am not a big fan of texting. Don't mind talking first and then meeting.

  • Jonquil

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hi! My name is Jonquil. I am divorced other caucasian woman without kids from Moulton, Alabama, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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