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Vivian, 51

United States, Alabama, Moody

Offline, last seen Thu, 20 Aug 2026 18:22:12

About Me

I love my family, love being social, grew up in a sports-oriented family and value a sense of humor. I need someone with high ethics, high intelligence and not too much baggage (we all have SOME). Self confidence is very sexy and must love dogs.....I'd like to think at this stage in my life a relationship should be drama-free. With me, what you see is what you get. I work hard, play hard, love to travel and would love to find someone to do it with. The thought of dating is scary--from the awkward first date, to revealing idiosyncrasies,finding out what makes someone else tick and hopefully building a future. I grew up in a family where my parents adored each other and my brother and I knew it. I would love to have a relationship like that--I'm not talking about over-the-top PDA's, but just the underlying understanding that the other person will always have your back.Love old school R & B and pretty much anything else--never took a liking to country music--must be the Yankee in me. Love action/comedy, chick flicks and thought provoking movies. I am not religious, but I believe in God, and talk to him every day.I spend most of my time in a hockey rink or watching cross country. I would love to have a change of scenery, glass of wine, quiet conversation and to learn more about you.If anything I've said makes sense to you, let me know. Showing interest is nice, but a message is better.....and if you have taken the gratuitous picture of yourself in the bathroom mirror, please move on....**October ***Update---The art of communication is lost.....if you contact me, and I reply, we have now started a conversation. If you reply with responses and no further questions, the conversation is over. If you want to continue to converse, ask questions.....it takes two. And I am a firm believer that first impressions are important. If you haven't put much effort in to your profile and/or pictures, chances are we would not be a match. Why even bother to be on this site if you can't take the time to double check for spelling errors, or put less than flattering pictures out there? And I don't need your life history up front, but more than a sentence or two would be nice. I have met some nice guys on this site, but no sparks--I haven't given up hope. Life it too short not to have someone significant in your life. Guess the only way to find out is to ask......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian House Punk Cycling Dance
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  • Charley from Moody | Woman | 52 years old | Taurus
    Charley

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    It's hard to talk about yourself without it sounding boring or conceited but since I have to here goes.I'm a hard-working woman who finished nursing school and wants to get out and start dating. I like most kinds of music except rap I especially like listening to and dancing to country music and oldies.I've got 2 awesome kids and a beautiful granddaughter. I would love to find someone to do things with and spend time with whether it's out dancing, home watching movies or sports on the couch, or even going for a hike somewhere. I like to get together with friends and BBQ or just sit around and visit. If I meet someone and it developed into something long lasting great but if not I've made a friend. I work nights and have a unconventional work schedule so it's easy to get away with friends or finish projects around the house. I don't want a hookup or someone who wants to play games and have drama in their life so if thats you please just pass on me. If you have any questions just shoot me a message and I'll answer ASAP. Good luck with your fishing Meet someplace public, talk, have soda or adult beverage and go from there. Whatever we decide

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  • Gabriele from Moody | Woman | 52 years old | Aries
    Gabriele

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    i'm usually positive, mostly outgoing and 89% smart. that should be true about you too.i love this city. i love that there are so many fun and great things to do here.i'm good with staying home and relaxing in front of the tv and/or computer too.be a one-woman man. realistic and dreamy. i believe that when two people are open and honest the relationship works. ps. i am talkative, just can't seem to spell anything out for this site. different fact about me than most new yorkers - i know that city really well. i go down there several times in the winter because their weather is great for running when nyc is way to cold for me. and i like to do their annual cap10k and the 3m half running events. my mom lives right on townlake. please know; i will not respond if you don't have a photo or two. don't worry if you aren't into the same sports as me. (note: i'm only into these outdoor sports in the nice weather. i will only be too happy to sit by a fireplace and enjoy the indoors when it is cold.)you will really earn points with me if you can change all the music on my ipod.don't click on the "meet me" thing - write me if you actually think we are a good match and should meet.If you see me visiting your profile, it means that I'm thinking about maybe ????? but wasn't sure or rushed off / work or ......if you wanted to hear from me, Send me a message. sometimes i can't make the first move...........and yes we can do it all while walking, talking and drinking coffee, tea, or drinks......or just take me out for ice cream, because it's my favorite first date.

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  • Stacey from Moody | Woman | 51 years old | Aquarius
    Stacey

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Not really a hobby but my favorite thing in life is being a mom to my 2 grown children. Nathan has started college this fall and studying Accounting and playing baseball. I now want to add a hobby to be totally happy with a great guy and do everything to make him happy!I love watching youth, high school, college and professional sports. I enjoy doing yardwork/gardening in my large yard. I work in a professional position testing software for a large technology company. I have a great group of friends which I enjoy being with. I grew up in a large family that all live around the area. I normally listen to county music but I am not too picky about music. Honesty is important to me and I want a guy who thinks that is important too. I like to believe if you work hard, then you can play hard too. I want to find my new best friend, have my last first kiss that I will always remember and spend the rest of my life making each other happy! I would like to meet somewhere for a couple of drinks and just talk. I enjoy listening to people talk about themselves and would like to after 1 night know enough about a person to decide if we should go out again. I would prefer a casual setting. I am pretty low maintenance and just like to have fun.

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