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Vivian, 51
United States, Alabama, Moody

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About Me

I love my family, love being social, grew up in a sports-oriented family and value a sense of humor. I need someone with high ethics, high intelligence and not too much baggage (we all have SOME). Self confidence is very sexy and must love dogs.....I'd like to think at this stage in my life a relationship should be drama-free. With me, what you see is what you get. I work hard, play hard, love to travel and would love to find someone to do it with. The thought of dating is scary--from the awkward first date, to revealing idiosyncrasies,finding out what makes someone else tick and hopefully building a future. I grew up in a family where my parents adored each other and my brother and I knew it. I would love to have a relationship like that--I'm not talking about over-the-top PDA's, but just the underlying understanding that the other person will always have your back.Love old school R & B and pretty much anything else--never took a liking to country music--must be the Yankee in me. Love action/comedy, chick flicks and thought provoking movies. I am not religious, but I believe in God, and talk to him every day.I spend most of my time in a hockey rink or watching cross country. I would love to have a change of scenery, glass of wine, quiet conversation and to learn more about you.If anything I've said makes sense to you, let me know. Showing interest is nice, but a message is better.....and if you have taken the gratuitous picture of yourself in the bathroom mirror, please move on....**October ***Update---The art of communication is lost.....if you contact me, and I reply, we have now started a conversation. If you reply with responses and no further questions, the conversation is over. If you want to continue to converse, ask questions.....it takes two. And I am a firm believer that first impressions are important. If you haven't put much effort in to your profile and/or pictures, chances are we would not be a match. Why even bother to be on this site if you can't take the time to double check for spelling errors, or put less than flattering pictures out there? And I don't need your life history up front, but more than a sentence or two would be nice. I have met some nice guys on this site, but no sparks--I haven't given up hope. Life it too short not to have someone significant in your life. Guess the only way to find out is to ask......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian House Punk Cycling Dance
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  • Jonie from Moody | Woman | 55 years old | Pisces
    Jonie

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    !! Yeah!!!!! My goal has come forth, I will be a permanent resident as of ***!!!!! Yeah Me!!!I'm a fun loving, attractive, witty, playful, kind(not to be mistaken for weakness), classy yet sassy loving woman with a wonderful sense of humor. I am very independent woman, yet, would love to share what life has to offer with a companion. A man who is fun loving, adventurous, spontaneous, having a great sense of humor and style. A man who isn't afraid of being friends first, and taking things naturally, which could lead to a Long term relationship. A relationship built on RESPECT, HONESTY, and TRUST which is so easily said, yet not easy to find. Someone I can be comfortable enough with to be myself, me, and who is comfortable enough to be himself. That is where TRUST comes into play. If you can not trust the person you are with, you can never be who you truly are. Please DO NOT HAVE any emotional baggage larger than a shaving kit. If you are unable to communicate, if you are not happy and content with your life...move along please..The only one who can bring happiness to your life, is yourself...a partner can only enhance one's happiness. I am not looking for is "a casual sex partner", I am interested in a Long term relationship and becoming wonderful companions/friends. If it happens today, or if it happens 20 years from now, doesn't matter. I know what I want, and I will not settle for anything less. I love to dance, my dogs, my family and friends. I love music, life and all it has to offer. Yankee's baseball, YEAHHHH!!!!!! Going to Yankee's stadium, gardening, the beach, NYC, the mountains, the rain, boating, I'll even fish, but I won't bait the hook. Cuddling on the couch with that special man with a good movie on a chilly or rainy afternoon or evening IS as romantic to me as a candle lite dinner in a romantic setting. I love to kiss, often and ALLOT, it's a must...do you love kissing also? I'm very affectionate, caring and giving. I'm very kind, and I believe no one should see kindness as a weakness. It's a wonderful quality to have...Thank you!!!! Most of all, I love who I am, being a woman, and I love my life. I am as comfortable in a pair of jeans as I am getting dressed up for a night on the town. "I love being a girl!" Life is very precious, I only want to be surrounded by positive people in my life... I'm real, please be also...now that being said... I'm a woman who doesn't need a man in her life to complete her, yet, a woman who would love to have a gentleman compliment what I have in my life as I would him/his. A couple things to tell you about myself: I do have one tattoo, I wish I never had gotten, I can tell you where and why if asked. I smoke. ***** UPDATE**** I QUIT!!! :)I may snore, but my dogs don't complain. I sometimes snort when I laugh, and I laugh often. (allot of times at myself) When I'm really cold, my nose runs. :) I love holding hands and PDA's. A few of my dislikes are, being lied too, whiners, negativity,(I refuse to be around negative people, life is to short...stop whining) lack of self respect and respect of others. Ask and I will tell you what ever you would like to know about myself. Thanks for stopping by, and reading. I wish you all great happiness, and great love in your lives. Have a great day and smile!!! Something casual, coffee, lunch, laughs....we'll play it by ear after that.***HERE'S AN IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR YOU***When I talk to you, I don't want to talk about sex, I don't want to hear how great and passionate a lover you are. It is a total turn off just starting off talking to someone and sex is brought up in the first conversation. I am no prude at all, but c'mon guys..... Why do some men feel the need to go there with a women he doesn't even know. A TOTAL TURN OFF!!! Next!!*****Another update....So that you do not feel deceived, I have been on a prescribed medication to help with nerve pain the past year and a half(you've seen the commercial on tv...(Lyrica))....some of the side effects is weight gain/swelling legs, feet, arms, blurred vison etc.... I have been blessed with MOST of the side effects including weight gain....I've gained 43lbs on this medication unfortunately. I am not happy about it, but it is what it is, and there is no alternative medication to take for this unfortunate pain. I'm average in body type, but not a skinny mini. If this is a problem for you, move on. Like I said, it is what it is.

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  • Lucina from Moody | Woman | 52 years old | Sagittarius
    Lucina

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am a caring, honest, true full, faithful, I am a natural red head, I no what I what out of life, I like to go mudding ,camping at the lake, I deer hunt , fishing ,gambling, take trips ,cook grill, I like to live life . I have positive attitude ,life is what u make of it .life is to short so lets not waist it. Live today like there is no tomorrow . I am financially stable .an I am looking for good man to share my life with . I am not lazy an I don't wont a lazy man . I smoke daily, I socially drink . So if u or for real lets chat . , Lets meet an see what happens .

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  • Amy from Moody | Woman | 55 years old | Scorpio
    Amy

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am a woman that loves the outdoors. I like to dabble in crafts but never seems I have time to do these things. I love life and want to make the best of my life right now while working and saving for retirement in 10 years. I love my job, the people I work with. I am a positive person. I am a unique person in that I never give up when it is something I think is worthwhile and beneficial to myself, my partner or of course my sons. I love my life right now and have not had Joy in my heart about the simple things in life until about 2 years ago. I love to listen to live music. It can be blues, a rock band, a recital of a classical guitarist, or just listening to a marching band. Music fascinatates me and I don't play any *** all. Strange huh?? I love to dance and would love to take salsa dance lessons or even ballroom dance lessons. I would like to go meet and have dinner some place nice, not fancy but not too noisey so we can talk and get to know each other. Casual dress. Since we are both in this together, I can pay for my own and you can do the same. After we finish eating, it would be nice to sit and chat a bit and maybe have a glass of wine or drink of choice. When we decide that our evening is ending I think it would be best to go our seperate ways in case one of us just does not feel the chemistry is there between the two of us. I may or may not be a little shy. I go back and forth. I would definitely like to talk on the phone a few times before meeting in person.

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