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Vivian, 51

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About Me

I love my family, love being social, grew up in a sports-oriented family and value a sense of humor. I need someone with high ethics, high intelligence and not too much baggage (we all have SOME). Self confidence is very sexy and must love dogs.....I'd like to think at this stage in my life a relationship should be drama-free. With me, what you see is what you get. I work hard, play hard, love to travel and would love to find someone to do it with. The thought of dating is scary--from the awkward first date, to revealing idiosyncrasies,finding out what makes someone else tick and hopefully building a future. I grew up in a family where my parents adored each other and my brother and I knew it. I would love to have a relationship like that--I'm not talking about over-the-top PDA's, but just the underlying understanding that the other person will always have your back.Love old school R & B and pretty much anything else--never took a liking to country music--must be the Yankee in me. Love action/comedy, chick flicks and thought provoking movies. I am not religious, but I believe in God, and talk to him every day.I spend most of my time in a hockey rink or watching cross country. I would love to have a change of scenery, glass of wine, quiet conversation and to learn more about you.If anything I've said makes sense to you, let me know. Showing interest is nice, but a message is better.....and if you have taken the gratuitous picture of yourself in the bathroom mirror, please move on....**October ***Update---The art of communication is lost.....if you contact me, and I reply, we have now started a conversation. If you reply with responses and no further questions, the conversation is over. If you want to continue to converse, ask questions.....it takes two. And I am a firm believer that first impressions are important. If you haven't put much effort in to your profile and/or pictures, chances are we would not be a match. Why even bother to be on this site if you can't take the time to double check for spelling errors, or put less than flattering pictures out there? And I don't need your life history up front, but more than a sentence or two would be nice. I have met some nice guys on this site, but no sparks--I haven't given up hope. Life it too short not to have someone significant in your life. Guess the only way to find out is to ask......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kirsten

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am very active, love running and being outside. I have run 3 full marathons, and many half marathons. The mountains are my passion. I used to live in WY. Before moving to WY I was a city girl, but came back to WI with a love and respect for the beauty of nature. There is a profound feeling of peace, but also a challenge in living in one of the last frontiers. If I can't have the Mts I will take the lake! Running on the beach is a similar high to running in the mountains. I love my lake views. The lake has a definite sense of calm about it. I'm a cowgirl at heart. I really like the new country music, and love love love my cowboy boots. I used to have and show quarter horses. So my cowgirl roots run deep!Animals and old people are also a passion of mine. I wish I could rescue all of them from shelters, and nursing homes. I have 2 cats, which were rescues that I brought back from WY. They still have their WY accents HAHA!!I love my family, the reason I came back to WI. Its good to be back with old friend too, but I miss all my peps in WY.I am a free spirit, and never know where the wind might blow me next. With that distance is not an issue!Peace and luck to all that have entered this crazy world of internet dating :) Meeting for drinks

  • Lolicia

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    "Now she stepped forward to the end of the hallway and to the main bedroom. Here is where Jeanette felt the true energy that had pulled her to this home from the start. She closed her eyes and let her senses take her along the journey.Slowly she stepped forward into the room, her eyes still closed, but now she could feel him. His presence comforted, the scent of him excited her. She waited longingly for his touch. It came at first as just a gentle breeze the brushed against her skin but then she felt soul alongside of hers. The lips that touched hers were warm and that surprised Jeanette so that she opened her eyes.The man that stood before her amazed her. She was certain she was feeling no more than a spirit locked in time…she was not ready for someone real to have followed her so stealthily or for them to know what was running through her mind as she had walked into that room with her eyes closed to the real world. She did not panic; she felt he was here for the same reason she had been drawn here. This is how they were to meet; this was a destiny of two souls that had been displaced in time."~J~ (an exerpt from one of my works)Do you like the theater, symphony, opera, musicals? I do. I am a woman of substance, intelligence, class.... I would hope to find a man who might possess some similar intetests. So fall is upon us...Summer breezed on by. I have looked at events and festivals coming up in these next few months and I certainly am looking forward to those, as well as the opera and theater in addition to regular activities. I am sociable and love getting out and doing a variety of things, very outgoing, fun natured with a love of life and self. I love sharing my laughter with others...family, friends and even strangers but I am also responsible and take care of what I must. My life may seem far to busy for some but for the right person, the busy part of that can change.I don't do the hunting, fishing camping, flea martkets, garage sales, etc. My interests really vary for I can go from something simple to sophisticated and elegant (I love the Opera and symphony). I love to write when I have spare time.My dislikes are liars, dishonesty, low self esteem, couch potatoes and those who say they want to meet someone but cannot seem to leave their computers to do so, people who have no drive or desire to take in what life has to offer and those who cannot carry on a civil and intelligent conversation. Most important... I AM NOT A ONE NIGHT STAND and I hear Craigslist is much better suited to those loose people.The link below is so inspiring and yes, I am Loved and I am *** A first date would be nice to meet in a casual, relaxed atmostphere where we could have all the time in the world to talk if we wanted...No cell phones, texting or business to interrupt, no appointments scheduled...because business should not be included.

  • Sarita

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Well about me my hobbies are gardening and working in the yard.It kinda gives peace of mind.I love all outdoors activites fishing,camping,walking in the park.I love listening to music.Im pretty much a country girl and love the simple things in life.I love romantic dinners and moonlight walks they are great.A romantic at heart i guess you would say.I want to find that someone special to spend my life with.He must be loyal and honest and love to have fun.Be willing to work hard to build a good life together.Looking forward to meeting that special someone if thats you please write me.Thanks for reading my profile. I guess a great first date would be dinner and movie,but i leave that up to the man.Whatever pleases him will be fine.

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