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Luis, 51

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About Me

Single for ***yrs, I'm far from being frigid. I'm not interested in an attempt for a one night stand. I prefer the man I date to not be interested in my clothing size so we may swap clothes. If I'm asked to do a 3 way, I'll block you. Well, ^^^^, those are my tough rules.; Dating within 30 min of my town is a prerequisite. You don't have to have a motorcycle, or *** boat/car/truck/iphone. You might be picture proud of your fish/deer/Hooter's chick/roadkill, but honestly, a smiling picture of you would probably light my fire. Are you hair challenged? You'd fit in with my family. Your six pack isn't your abs, but in your hand? It's all good. If you do have a motorcycle, I still have my jacket & helmet ;-)Hopefully, if you're "all in", you'll like crowds. When the kids & I meet up, there's usually ***different conversations going on at 1 time. They have my back, & I have theirs. Youngest is 21, no need to find a babysitter.My eyes sparkle when talking to someone I'm interested in. I want it back! The hand easily placed on the leg while watching a movie. Facing each other while sitting cross legged, completing each others sentences. I miss being a twosome. And texting/saying phrases &/or words that only me & the other person understand. Occasionally, I'll send out a first *** respond to everyone. Ya just gotta ask! IF, I don't have one posted, I'll send a full length pic of me when you send an *** a person can be assertive w/o being a b*tch/jerk/swine/dog.; I'm not the typical "; as I once was labeled. I'm very thankful to some men in my life who showed me a brand new world of kindness & gratitude.I tend to date within 30 min travel time in my area. I love the smell of coffee, but don't drink it. I'll meet you for "coffee" & order up something else. I once enjoyed a 1st meet at a greenhouse, looking for tomato plants w/ a guy. I was quite surprised how we would see a plant, & tell each other memories it provoked. So maybe....Everyone's so skittish.Just do it.Really.Truly.I'm easy going. Not to be confused with easy ;-) I'm generally open to any type of idea for a date. Except horror movies. Nope. Not gonna happen :-)Life is so tender, so fragile. If you have wounds to heal, please consider doing it as soon as possible. Not everyone dies after living a long life. Side note. I am annoyed that my "interests" self corrects and doesn't allow words that should be capitalized. Big O's restaurant, St Lucia. Ugh.I have a friend who'll be taking professional pictures of me soon. Can't wait!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shenna

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Wow, you'd think this would be such a easy thing to do, write about the person you know the best, yourself, but its hard. Anyway, here goes.I am growing more and more evolved as a person, confidante, friend, lover, sister, mother. I have been blessed with two amazing children (most of the time) lol.My desires are simple. I am a woman that would hope to easily earn your respect, and honor, have a have degree of integrity, and wants true commitment. I would like to find someone that has an awesome sense of humor, can keep me laughing during challenging times( as all couples occasionally have) loves the outdoors and nature, and respects and values thoughts and opinions of others even if You and or I may not resonate with that opinion. I have a real desire to connect with people of other cultures, and enjoy great conversations and experiences. I do not "date around", so if you are a serial dater, or are just interested in an occasional fun night out without looking any further into the future, please do not respond to me. I am a one man woman.... like my mom used to say, " you never know when you kiss that frog you may just fall in love". Those pheromones can be pretty strong!But believe me, I've been divorced over 10 years and it hasn't happened yet, but I am the eternal optimist.... and I do believe I'll find " my" perfect one.Additionally I have known people that feel that they needed to drink every day to "feel good, relax, and enjoy themselves". I have dated people that do this, and realize fully that this is not a habit I feel is healthy and beneficial. Do I drink socially, yes, but only socially. I love outdoor sports, especially water skiing, snow skiing, swimming, fishing, mountain biking, soccer, basketball, and rock climbing (before rotator cuff tear repair). I love to try new things, and typically don't shy away from challenges, unless the result could be dangerous ( I love my kids too much)! As for travel and nature, there is nothing better than spending time in the sun, and taking in all that nature has to offer. I love the mountains, (camping also) especially in the fall, but also have a real affinity for the ocean. I also am a real fisherwoman, therefore I try to spend as much time around any body of water. It brings great calm and serenity over me, and makes me feel one with the earth.My profession is slightly atypical, as I am in the naturopathic healing field. I am VERY happy with my life, feel blessed that I too spend my life in a field that I am helping other people to improve their lives, and am at a great place. I have many clients, and want to continue a more natural, healthy lifestyle. Unfortunately I have had a couple of sports injuries in the past couple of years, but am getting ready to get that taken care of as well. LIFE!! It's all good!Animals are a huge part of my life, always have been, and I have shih tzh puppies and young persian cats. I believe they are truly a valuable addition to one's psyche. Some I simply can't pull from my hat right now.Travel and culture is also a passion of mine. I have had the opportunity to visit Europe several times, have taken my 2 children for extensive periods of time, and believe this is one of the best forms of education you can provide to children.I hope this gives you some insight into me, and my desires for my a continued healthy, happy life. Want to become acquainted if for no other reason a new friendship with a native Charlottean? Please, please know though if you only feel that sending a note with a "hi" it says to me you don't think taking the time to right a more personal note is worth your time. Additionally, I don't date anyone that are separated or recently divorced. I do feel it takes time to get through several ( at least 2 years) to work through necessary angst, pain, and ex issues to become ready for a real, happy and non comparison relationship. I've seen it too often hurt too many people, as well as myself and don't choose to walk that path again. I'm a realist, and want to bring and experience pure joy with the person I have a relationship with, without being compared.I wish you all happiness, peace, and blessings of finding the next forever "love" that will rock your world!Natural Carpe Diem Something casual that allows for great conversation and activity.

  • Lucina

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am a caring, honest, true full, faithful, I am a natural red head, I no what I what out of life, I like to go mudding ,camping at the lake, I deer hunt , fishing ,gambling, take trips ,cook grill, I like to live life . I have positive attitude ,life is what u make of it .life is to short so lets not waist it. Live today like there is no tomorrow . I am financially stable .an I am looking for good man to share my life with . I am not lazy an I don't wont a lazy man . I smoke daily, I socially drink . So if u or for real lets chat . , Lets meet an see what happens .

  • Sapphire

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    What does one say about themself? I am an honest up front woman that expects the same from the people in my life. I am a Special Education teacher and I really enjoy what I do. I enjoy going to the gym and walking. Any one out there looking for a gym partner? I could sure use one. LolI am at a loss here. You hear from someone and then never again. What is a man looking for? I sure wish someone would explain it to me. Meeting in a public place for a cup of coffee, lunch, or dinner would be nice. Conversation to get to know one another would be a great start.

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