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Vennie, 53
United States, Alabama, Montevallo

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About Me

God is first in my life. I am Spiritual, not religious. I live by the Ten Commandments and the Golden Rule (I.e. Matt 7:12; Karma; Law of Attraction) I have been bountifully blessed. I can gratefully say that I had/have it all:Deep Spirituality; Loving Relationship(s); Intense Passion; Health/Wellness; Financial Success; Hobbies/Fun; Fulfilling Career... Plus two successful, intelligent, kind, adult sons who've given me lovely daughters-in-law and so far one amazing granddaughter with another on the way!!!I was completely invested... firing on all cylinders... having the time of my life... and then mid-life hit... after more than 30 years of friendship/love/trust... I find myself unexpectedly single... alone for many years now.I am still blessed, happy, and completely fulfilled. I am not in need of anything or anyone... but it would be an amazing gift to have a second chance at the ultimate bond shared by two... to experience the joy of sharing the simple and spectacular wonders of this world with that person... to celebrate the rest of this journey with the love of my life. I could need, want, and, of course, love one special man, if he shares similar blessings. A little about me...-ite so generally happy, friendly, fun, outgoing, and tolerant. I see the God/Good in every one and every thing and feel we are all sharing this life as both students and teachers.A little about you... Must love God, be emotionally available/stable, honest, loving, kind, generous. Please be respectful of the gift of your body/face so that you feel/look the very best you can for yourself, for me.On a completely different wavelength here... I could REALLY use a man around the house to relocate my spiders along with the dead/undead that my killer cat drags in! My neighbors say they are happy to rescue me, but it's been 3+ years! They will soon be growing weary of me (and my cat). Oh... and maybe some help with my dress zippers, on occasion, please.I wish you only the best in your search for love everlasting... I don't really consider first "meets" a date. Meets sh be simple, somewhere private in public, like a coffee shop or restaurant bar. Pick a quiet spot where we could get to know one another to see if there may be chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Hardcore Chinese Mexican South American Crime Music Cricket Play Sport Games
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