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Tula, 53
United States, Alabama, Montevallo

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“He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.” If you are reading this, it means you have taken the time to look beyond the pic. I appreciate that. What you would get to know if you got to know me is a somewhat goofy woman who loves to laugh and is passionate about alotta things. I love lake life, camping, sporting events, concerts, yard saling, walking, drives to nowhere in particular, cooking, friendly debates, relaxing and the list goes on and on. I'm finding the site a tad confusing to say the least...lol We're all on here for our own reasons and for me, well, I know that there isn't a chance in h*ll of success with anyone if you cant be friends first. So yes, often I do say hello first cuz I've read your profile and I think you'd be interesting to hang out with. I don't really think you can base a connection on location....hey, that just sounds like creative thinking to me. It's not a bad thing to wish you were with someone more than you are and look forward to being with them again To say hello is not to imply I'll be your forever or vice versa but it's gotta start somewhere. If you ended up just being someone who filled a void on a quiet Saturday evening with something we both enjoyed doing, I see that as a pretty great thing as well. There seems to be a lot of discouraged disheartened people on the site...wouldn't it be great if we all just said what we meant and meant what we said. That of course, would be in a perfect world....and I don't know about you but I found out a long time ago, that it's about accepting imperfections rather than looking for perfection. Good luck everyone and YES..i mean what I say :) All I wish for is a "can't wait till i see you again" feeling again

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American British Caribbean Middle Eastern Adult Biography Family & Kids Mystery Ice Hockey Soccer / Football To Work Out
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