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Carleigh, 53
United States, Alabama, Montevallo

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About Me

I am looking for a man in his mid 40's to late 50's, that looks like he is 40 to early 50's. I like a man who loves his mom but is not a mamas boy. You love music, cooking, golf and travelling. You are successful in your career but have time for us.I do enjoy having time to myself, as I hope you would also, and need someone who is not threatened by that. I do enjoy having****ails and not interested in someone who has a problem with alcohol. I like a strong man who isn't afraid to let me be a strong passionate woman. If this sounds like your kind of relationship then contact me.PS Ok, are you really into the " hiking , biking, mountain climbing, dirt biking, skiing, boarding, ice climbing, fishing, camping in a tent on the ground, hockey, soccer, volleyball, golfing, baskets just for fun, yoga, weight lifting, canoeing, surfing, snorkling, scubadiving, running, power walking, parasailing, chi gong, thai chi, etc ( don;t know all the marshal arts). there are many more sports, so be honest with you outdoor/indoor activities. xxAll I can say is if you do 3 of those, you do not have time to work , spend time with your family, and have a fabuous relationship with me. PPSS, ok so I have been contacted with many nice men. I have decided a few years younger fits me better. ( not 20 , lol ) I am a fun woman, have a huge heart and a great sense of humour. I would not mind if someone wanted to help me off the sofa to walk run around the block., lol .I just know there is someone out there that will be perfect for me, and me for them. Will post some new photos soon. Xoxoxo First I would like to meet for a coffee or drink. An hour or so to see if there is any chemistry. After that if we are both interested then a dinner out, possibly a walk along the river, or along some interesting part of the city. I would like it to be a quiet venue so we could chat without shouting.I want a man that has his poop together. It will not be an interview I promise. My pics are resent, so get a nice new photo. Have a good friend take one or two of you in your finest duds, lolHope that has not offended anyone, just gave them something to think about. x

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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  • Sanda from Montevallo | Woman | 54 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Depending on the situation or activity, I can be low-key and reserved or high-energy. And, it's difficult to compare myself with others but I feel I'm in very good physical shape...I enjoy hiking, cycling (road cycling and rail-trails) and still use my cross-country skis. My preference would be to enjoy your company and get to know you while we spend time together outdoors...why don't we meet up to go kayaking, canoeing, hiking, or sailing together? (There are many rivers and lakes to explore in Pa.) When I have any free time, I prefer spending it outdoors or going to concerts. I studied visual arts in college and taught arts & humanities for most of my career.- June through mid- At some point, I would like to ..canoe in the Adirondackes, sail anywhere, hike in the White Mts. of NH, Shining Rock Wilderness Area in NC or State Parks in Pa., do some star-gazing in remote areas, and find time to draw/paint outdoors. I've had to be practical while raising my daughter and have stuck it out for her (in the middle of nowhere and hours from anywhere). Now that I can retire..or cut back to an easier part-time job, I will have more time to travel. I am seeking direction on this site (but, I wonder is this too idealistic or unrealistic?..).), enjoy the outdoors, learn a folk ***, and spend more of my free time volunteering. Music: americana 'roots', folk, world, celtic, swing/big band, some rock. Favorite recent songs: 'That's the way love goes.' (Shawn Colvin &; Ride). Books: currently reading The Plot Against America. Favorite books last year: The Warmth of Other Suns: The Epic Story of America's Great Migration, Blink, Outliers. It's also nice to get together for an activity such as a hike.

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  • Sindy from Montevallo | Woman | 52 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^I WILL NOT ANSWER IF YOU DON'T HAVE A PICTURE^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^I am always at a loss as to what to say in this section, so you will have to ask me for more info when we chat. I have lived in the Philly area since I was 11, and grew up in Media. I am very easy going and am told have a passionate personality.. or is that just emotional? LOL I enjoy a wide variety of activities including spending time with family, pets, exploring new places and experiences and meeting new people.I am very hesitant to say what my "ideal guy" is-- why box myself in? But qualities I find very important are a sense of humor, equal temperament (hint: if you have a chip on your shoulder or think the world owes you something, keep going!), and a great communicator.Also, a note to the separated guys: something is wrong with this picture if you are separated and already looking for "long term". If it's been a few years and can't say legally yet you're divorced I understand though. You should know also that I have 2 kids so please keep this in mind. (No you won't meet them on the first date.) Some various likes and dislikes....I LIKE:coffee (dunkin' donuts and wawa rock! starbucks is too strong)maragaritas (in moderation of course)a lazy summer day on the beach with a novel and a nap...dogs..preferably the sporting breeds...crabcakes..a massage...a hot shower..flowers, all kinds..romance, intimacy, kisses.. (hey don't you?)browsing the book store..DISLIKES:Liver and onions - ptewysnakes and other reptileshumidity (yeah I know why do I live in philly? LOL I dunno)mathangerpassive aggressive peoplePLEASE NOTE: If you don't have a pic, you will not receive an answer from me. Don't tell me you 'don't have one', of course you do or can get one. If you don't, you're immediately open to suspicion.Also, guys if you are separated, I'd really rather wait until you're divorced. Just a personal preference.Thanks. Something low key such as lunch or coffee-- and as we see how that goes we can decide how the date should proceed***\\***You Can***\\\***Put This***On Your***Account If I miss you Dad.***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\---Thanks

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