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Phebe, 52

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About Me

Hi! I am updating this for the last time I think. I guess I am not a "twinky" (you know the twenty somethings, or a skinny minny) so I don't attract people like I used to... your lose I guess! I am a kind, considerate person, who always tries to smile no matter what kind of day I have had. If I am destined to be alone, so be it! I am just disappointed in the quality of people out there who are only wanting to chat, play games, or lie, lie and lie some more! My profile might not "fit" into the "mold" of what men want, and that is fine! I would rather not be a cookie cutter fit like everyone else and not meet anyone, than be just like everyone! I am an original and proud to be one! This is my brief synopsis of myself, whether you like me or not: I have a quirky sense of humor and am an avid reader. Strangers tend to talk to me and tell me their troubles while standing in line or sitting on the bus, I missed my calling I think, lol! I am generally an even-tempered, kind person who has one or 2 pet peeves; which are that I detest liars and players. I would want to start out as FRIENDS and grow from there. I am really tired of people who only want to "chat" on-line. If we live in the same city, whatever happened to communicating in person? You know, meet for coffee or tea? I am tired of the games people play, I am too old for the "crap"! If I sound too blunt for you, then sorry, but this is me! I am honest and don't believe in playing games, lying ...... If I don't answer you, it is because I don't think we would make a good match, Sorry! OH.. I don't drive which seems to be a problem for some (due to vertigo) which just means I have a dizziness problem, not that I am a "dizzy dame"... I have been looking for a job for over a year now, please do not ask if I am looking for someone to support me, I AM NOT! Also, do not try to "help" to find me a job, or ask me what I am looking for. At this point, I am willing to fit the job and not the other way around! I am also only looking for a Part-Time job, not full-time due to the Vertigo issue. So.... please, don't try to help, I will find a job in my own time and in my own way. Thanks anyway as many of you are very condescending the way you ask and "try" to help! I am kind of tired of it! So please, just leave it be if you contact me. I will see how many of you actually read my profile in its' entirety, so if you do offer to help, don't be surprised if I tell you please refer to my profile! No, I am not being a "B", just being honest and forthright! One more thing, I can be somewhat shy until I am comfortable with someone even if I don't come across that way here. I just believe in saying what I think by being honest.Thank you and good luck in your search! Meet for coffee/tea.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kiana

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I love the smallest pleasures in life. Daisies are my favorite flowers, I don't like diamonds, don't wear gobs of makeup, I am who I am. I have a great love of children, people,volunteering,camping,gardening,cooking, grilling outdoors, drawing, painting, music, singing, life. I love sunny days, rainey days, snowy days, even stormy days. Sunrises and sunsets and rainbows are beautiful. The ocean is a magnificant wonder. I enjoy fishing,watching baseball and football, love nascar and funny cars, singing, dancing, smiles and giggles of everyone. I don't drive a fancy car and I don't want one either, saw a truckvan and put that on my "would love to find one and fixitup list. I believe in putting my best foot forward, at all times, even through the tough times. I do not like arguing and avoid it like the plague. I think anything can worked out logically. I work hard because that is my work ethic and it's what I have to do to make it, which is fine with me. I don't complain, don't need to, that is not going to improve my life. I have a heart and use it every day. I do what I can to help others; it's part of my nature. Random acts of kindness are one of my favorite things to do, everytime I cross a toll i pay for the car behind me. I am tickled when I see the car behind me pay for the car behind them. It makes it all worth while. I love a good cup of coffee, walking around barefoot, but must keep the toes polished. I love bluejeans but can also clean up well and dress up to the nines. I prefer picnics or cookouts to going out to dinner. Being single is ok, but I would love to love and be loved. You; You have a great heart, you either show it well or it is apparent in your actions, you are kind to me and to others, your not a pushover but strong to a fault, you don't try to impress me or others with your wit because that is apparent, it is part of you, you listen to a variety of music, but save the loud music for your time with your buddies (Ha) you either are a countryman or you appear to have some of their strong qualities...ie, hardworker for you and for others, busy usually on your days off with a project of creativity, fishing, camping, hunting, mudding, who knows, you just enjoy life, so being a part of it is a goodthing *** hanging in front of the tv all day. Money is a necessity, either you have it or you're making it work for you. You understand that your money is yours and mine is mine,(hey, I don't have lots of it, but I don't get upset that I am not rich) I'm not after a man for his money...is my point. You love life and care for people. I am NOT a materialistic person, you, I hope are not either! If you have a bike, that is cool, but I am not a biker babe., If you like to ride, thats great but it is not something I care to do, but I think if you have a love of it, you should enjoy it. Hopefully,this site will bring together two people, that don't expect to impress each other, with being someone they're not, they work together because of what we are, real. Something simple. A cup of coffee, a beer, a picnic. Just meet and get to know who we both are.

  • Nella

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Let's try this AGAIN. I am a fun outgoing woman who like the outdoors, a vartiety of sports, music and love to make other people laugh when I can.. . A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOUR is a must. If you are expecting a reply from me then be sure to include a photo otherwise you're out of luck. Meet up for coffee or a drink and see what happens!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Dora

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I would rather.......scuba than lie on the beach...cook gourmet than eat fast food...drink single malt than rum and coke...hike mountains than walk a treadmill...read a gripping novel than People magazine...eat dark chocolate than M and Ms...lie in bed on a Sunday morning, preferably with someone else, than get up and go for a run...debate than agree all the time...tease and laugh and smile than not...kiss slowly than almost anything else...watch a movie than sports (though I might if you wanted to)...take a risk than be too safeYou would rather.......be active than watch TV (except sometimes when we both just want to do nothing at all)...be fit than slouchy and grumpy.....watch movies with plot than action films with car chases...read a good book than surf the net...be passionate about your beliefs than accommodating...make decisions than wait...take a risk than be too safeYou will never know if we have enough chemistry for that elusive something unless you try. Coffee is fine. Wine is good.

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