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Calista, 53

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About Me

I am honest, genuine, funny and loyal. I may not fall for someone right away but once I do you have a best friend forever. I think laughter is very important in a relationship. I am looking for someone whose values are the same. I love the water, anything to do with water, I would sleep by the ocean forever given the chance. I like the outdoors. I like many types of music except hard rock, rap or heavy metal. Love animals. Love to travel, I have been quite a few places but cant wait to see more. Although I love making friends and casual fun, that is important,If long term relationship i think it is important we want the same thing. Here goes lol. .My top 3 No's in a relationship (after friendship) Once committed I. Looking for one woman, faithful man, Cheaters stay away! If someone cheats I never look back, it is easy to be over. 2. Liars and thieves, honesty and openness keeps your relationship growing once someone lies to you you can never trust anything they say again especially if it is serious with no remorse I believe you have no respect for someone if you lie. 3. Disrespect alone or in public everyone has arguments but no need to loose respect with words that can never be taken back especially if used over again without an apology.I believe TRUST AND LOVE GO HAND IN HAND, RESPECT AND LAUGHTER PLUS HARD WORK TO UNDERSTAND AND BOUNCE OFF EACH OTHERS QUALITIES, STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES (we are not all good at everything, its team work) if all of these are in a relationship I know it should be the same in the beginning at the end hopefully forever, lol.I like men with hair on their head. Just got a thing about that, lol.Do not want to get involved with any one with ACTIVE Drug, Alcoholics or gambling ADDICTIONS.I am far from perfect but your mom and kids will like me, maybe you dog? lol.. . Coffee, outside (park, river etc) breakfast, Lunch, Dinner, A drink, Casino? Have I missed something?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

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  • Tony

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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