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Aiko, 53

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About Me

I AM ACTUALLY 56. (POF WON'T LET YOU CHANGE AGE)I am not looking for someone that is perfect but someone that is perfect for me.Not into the bar scene but I do love music and love to dance.Looking for my best friend, lover, and partner. I want someone that I can't wait to see and feels the same about me. I would like someone who can contribute to the conversation. I am a very open and direct, independent women. But I want a man to share the good and bad times with. We were not meant to be alone(all the time) I enjoy going to the beach, and mountains. I like looking in antique shops, and flea markets. I enjoy eating out or cooking a dinner for that special guy and dancing under the stars on my terrace.I like bowling,the symphony, live music,dancing, and drinving with the top down and the music blasting. Snuggling on the couch watching a movie is the best feeling. I am a giver and I want someone who gives as much as he takes. I know how to make the other person feel like they matter. I love to laugh, and I want a man that can make me laugh, knows how to be romantic, cares about my feelings, and how to treat a lady. I like a guy to be from the old school of dating. He opens the door for me, and makes me feel like I am the only person in the room when we are together. That is how I will make him feel. I am very affectionate. Once it gets to that level. I enjoy hugging, and kissing is WONDERFUL. I enjoy just about anything, especially if I am with that special someone. You only have one life so don't waste one minute. On my first date I would like to go someplace quiet where we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ami

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Clarifications: I am not sure if I am exactly thin. (weigh 127ish, depending on my potato chip consumption) The photos are recent and not altered in any way, so decide for yourself. Also, I am ***cm tall. One kid lives with me, the oldest visits.Usually, people assume I am in my 30s or 40s, attitude, energy, interests, etc. wise.I can be glamorous (or edgy) and I can be goofy. When it's a good tune, I dance all around the house. I am a rock star in my car. I really enjoy other people. I have lived urban, small city, rural. All are great. I am stable and dependable, yet spontaneous and able to take risks. I am passionate and enthusiastic about my work. Actually, that's true about all my interests! Really though, I do know how to relax too. (can't get enough of the beach)My perspective on things is often irreverent or unconventional, but never mean. I tell it the way I see it. I make a lot of people laugh but I am a terrible joke- I am looking for love and fun and companionship -- I am not looking to rescue you in any way; I am not looking for a provider or a protector or a toy boy. However, if you are the one for me, I will turn cartwheels for you! (former cheerleader, can you tell?)My kids ***and ***are my number one priority, without a doubt! They are amazing. Weird and wonderful. And so much fun. I am a lucky mom and I know it. This past weekend I watched my son be 'trainer' for a Major Atom AA hockey team.. Awwww. (jsyk, his tie was ugly-- but he was very handsome. and so serious. So proud I could pop!)My interests are learning and doing. Everything from fitness to psychology. Cultural events to creative arts. Reading to dining out. Marketing/business to home renos. The list goes on and on.... My goals in life are to learn a lot, do a lot, achieve a lot of my dreams, love a lot, laugh a lot....... :) I am sure we can find interests in common.I see an ongoing back and forth conversation bubbling over with energy, ideas, laughter and passion for life, often while doing things or going places! maybe hiking, going to an estate auction, painting a room, attending a concert or play, hanging out with family or friends, exploring a new location, etc. I am not willing to settle. I want a lot, but I have a lot to give! (apparently, my fave phrase today is 'a lot')And YOU? You're uniquely you! I look forward to learning about you, your ideas, interests, etc.Actually, we do need to share some of the same traits and attitudes toward life (this list is not in any order):ethical, reliable, responsible, thoughtful, trustworthy, affectionate, considerate, kindenthusiastic and energetichave got your life together, capable, financially stablenot one of those people whose lives are always full of drama physically fit, look good in your clothes.....mostly good-humoured, play well with others, friendly, prefer people to screensquite talkative, yet listen wellappreciate and respect different people, opinions and viewpoints prioritize your kids (it shows in your actions, not just your words)younger than your years and always will be able to be a team playersmart (always learning)agree that education isn't always found in schoolnot sarcastic or mean, you don't believe in revengecan laugh at yourselfable to accept (and give) love and support freely willing to let a relationship take its course (I am looking for love and like/friendship and chemistry all in one)know the value of simple things (and enjoy the finer things too)not totally obsessed by one aspect (sport, hobby, business, etc) of your life (unless it's your kids)you like hugging (like you like breathing)believe love is a joyful verb, as well as a wonderful experienceglad to be alive every daytry to see the bright side in experiences and learn from them (kinda hokey, but kinda important)It's not about public image or competitive achievement checklists.FYI, I don't like non-readers, facial hair (except eyebrows!), couch potatoes, motorcycles, homebodies, complainers, hunting, or fishing (unless we don't catch anything). Also, I don't believe the world is worse now than in the past.)bookstore (lots of ideas for conversation there, I would think)flea market?sports event?maybe we could arrange to observe each other (at a gym or somewhere) for a while to see if we like what we see?? (just thinking out loud here.... and 'observe' sounds less creepy than 'spying')what's your idea?

  • Cassia

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a very out going person love to have fun a laugh nice dinner an a movie

  • Journee

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I like spending time with family and my grandkids.I love to dance, I like to go out walking.I love country music but I do listen to classic rock, rock and roll and Top 40 .I'm kind hearted and try to always be honest,I'm not getting any younger and would really like someone special in my life to share the rest of it with. I just got a passport, so I would really enjoy going to some fun new spots with someone that makes me smile. I like watching movies (even scary ones!) and cuddling on the couch with my someone special. I have been alone for awhile and I am hoping to connect with someone and start again.Although I smoke more out of boredom than anything, if I had an incentive (like the right person) I would be inclined to quit. I'm a bit shy at first, so maybe just go out for coffee and see if we make each other smile.

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