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Pattie, 53

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About Me

I have many diverse interests. I am always open to trying new things. I love love love NYC , , , , the arts, museums, restaurants, parks and nightlife. I also love being close to the ocean and enjoy beautiful days at the beach. My lifestyle is based around health and fitness as is my business. Music is essential in my life. It encompasses my work and play time. I love anything from Classical to Jazz to Grass Roots Rock and Roll. Looking for someone who wants to be active but yet who can wind down at the end of the day for a little wine, candlelight, good conversation and romance. Is that you?I am looking for a type of man who is willing to think out of the box and venture out to new horizons. Some qualities that are important to me are loyalty, a definite sense of humor, a positive outlook on life and a flair for romance. Would love to have a cup of coffee or perhaps a glass of wine to get to know each other and see where that leads . . .

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mahalah

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm definitely a "what you see is what you get" type person. I enjoy interacting & get along well with all types of people. I don't pretend to be somebody I'm not though. I'm a Christian woman, and try to live my life as He has taught. I'm honest & appreciate honesty in others. I'm caring, sensitive of others, quite dependable & conscientious; have a good head on my shoulders. I can handle a lot & don't give up easily. I appreciate all that I've been given, and look for the good in most everything. I love to laugh. I live each day to the fullest. I like being active & having fun. I love boating, the sun, beach & water. I like warm weather & hate the cold. I enjoy traveling & visiting new places. I love music, especially 80's rock, country & jazz. I don't care for rap & heavy metal. I like going to concerts a lot. I enjoy watching sports on TV & in person, mostly football & baseball.I'm comfortable at formal affairs, but can also let loose & be a little crazy. I do know where & when certain behavior is appropriate. I like holding hands & cuddling. I love kissing. I like to pay attention to my partner & for them to pay attention to me. I like romance - candlelight, music & special times. Call me old-fashioned, but I still enjoy having a door opened for me, my chair pulled out, help with my coat or carrying things, getting cards & flowers, etc. I enjoy very much making my partner feel special too.I'm a good Mom & am very family-oriented. I have two beautiful children, a 22 year-old boy & an 19 year-old girl. Both are attending college, are very social & fortunately overall good kids. I'm also a proud first-time Grandma of a little girl, my sweet angel, born May ***.I am drama-free. I have good relationships with my kids, family, friends, ex, his family, etc. No real enemies that I know of anyway. I like my job & pay all my bills. I am happy with what I have & what I've been able to do. I'm in good health, as far as I know at least - no addictions & emotionally strong. All-in-all, I'm unbelievably blessed. I am happy with my life. I believe it can be even more wonderful though when it's shared with somebody special. I'm looking for a man who's:- honest, caring & willing to help others- sensitive & affectionate- respectful, mature & dependable; can make a commitment & will follow through with his promisesI'd like a man who:- has some backbone & will stand up for what he believes in- doesn't settle for mediocrity, but has goals & ambition- works hard but also enjoys life & likes to have fun (wants to go out & do things)- is generally happy & optimistic- can carry on a fairly intelligent conversation, is easy to talk with, can open up & be his true self- makes a decent living- is good with kids & is family oriented; he must be dedicated to his own children & fair with mine- can be a partner in a relationship & still have a life of his own- generally knows what he wants in life & in terms of a relationship with a woman- takes care of himself & what he owns; somebody nice looking is a plus!I'd prefer someone who likes the water, who drinks socially, enjoys the holidays & has some other interests similar to mine.I do not want someone who:- has a lot of drama in his life that will affect a new relationship- is so engrossed in his job that he forgets other things in life are important too.I'm not looking for the perfect man, just the one who's perfect for me.“Don’t go for looks; they can deceive…Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one who makes your heart smile!” For a first date, maybe dinner and a few drinks. Casual happy-hour? Want to talk and get to know you. Other dates...dinner, movie, drinks, comedy club, concert, bowling, sporting event, etc. Like to have fun.(Not looking for a pen pal)

  • Pollyanna

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I Love music many types not so much rap though! I love playing pool, swimming, going to the beach, Walks on the beach or lake. Fishing, reading a good book, SYFY! Animals, Yard Sales in the summer, Cooking, Playing games on computer, Cuddling, Holding hands, So much MORE!! New to the area!, I don't want just hook ups! I want friendship that grows into something worthwhile!Would be nice to find an interesting man who is not only looking for looks because that's now what its all about! I guess i'm a country girl at heart but find my self living in the city.. I am not so much interested in the body type, or looks! I care about the heart and mind!! Do you like to laugh? Do you see the potential? I do!!Ok here goes the hard part.. I do not date men of color! I know this sounds racist but I really am not! I just know what I am comfortable with! I am sorry if this offends it is not my intention.. I guess someplace quiet so we could be able to talk, Maybe a park with the sun shining!! Share a cup of coffee Really depends,,,

  • Birgit

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    After being a widower for 6 years now, I was hoping to find a gentleman with warmth, caring, supportive, traits who might be looking for the same. I am a moderate thinker and support gun rights. Looking for a gentleman with a sense of humor, yet can be serious when need be. Willing to pick up the tab at least 50 % of the time. Hopefully he enjoys yard work along side of me, tools - A fix it guy. Patient, cuddly, touch of a romantic spark. Must be okay with Grandchildren coming around. Happy...

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