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Al, 53

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About Me

Success in any relationship for me is about being present, for honesty, sincerity, and actualization of wishes. It's good to have an idea of where we want to go but when we are in step with ourself we are already there. The temptation at first glance is to give away ourselves in order to meet our needs, and when we look at anything, honoring necessities is always top of the list because it is living in the real world. And any measure of any aim is willingness to commit to it, because with commitment all the rules change. So how do we remain flexible, true to ourself, open to new ideas, sustain meaning, comfort, love from the heart, growth, security, freedom? Balance is essential, yes? Letting go continuously in intelligent ways, yes? Growing with shared experiences? My parents were married for 60 something years and they were able to transform negative experiences into mostly positive, though not always easy to do, over time they knew they could trust the process. Yet here I am at 53, here,now, looking for a beginning, for some organic benevolence that I trust is possible. It is the third relationship composed between two individuals and everything they bring with them that defines where we can go. Through the possible being possible the impossible becomes possible. Now forget all of this. Becoming acquainted in a casual atmosphere where we can see, hear, smell, each other for the right thing in the right place at the right time. This like most things should be discussed.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Efren

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58

    I thought I would throw some keywords that would describe what I like to do. If you recognize yourself in some of them, I think it might be worth taking the time to keep on reading my profile. If you don’t keep on reading, I swear I won’t be upset with you. I will never know anyway Travel, surprises, music, dancing, sports, books, last minute plans, open mind, photography, museum, craziness, spontaneity, going out (but also staying in), sharing, simplicity, respect, flip flops (yes, the sandals), down to earth (however fantasy is also very important), people, casual, word, news, work, sense of humor about yourself, awareness.And yet another short list of things that I’m not really fond of:- Cars (can’t tell why I put this one first…)- Self-centered people (but, hey… Have you already heard anybody saying “yes, yes, I am definitely self-centered.” So this one doesn’t really count!!)- TV (even if I like one or two shows and some movies)- Excessive work out / complete body addiction- Superficial people (but same problem as #2…)In addition, if you happen to pronounce the following sentences regularly, we’re definitely increasing the chance of a good match here:“Ok let’s give it a try”“To be honest, I don’t know”“I respect that”“J’adore les escargots” ok this one doesn’t really count either… Walking in the park at sunset.

  • Van

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60

    I'm closing the page on one chapter of my life, but opening a new chapter of my life. Part of that new chapter will be figuring out how to be single after ***years (divorced in summer of ***, and finding new friends. But, it will also be a chance to explore some of the things I’ve wanted to do for a long time, but haven’t been able to do. I love the outdoors, maybe because I spend most of the week in front of a computer. I enjoy discovering new places and traveling. My friends would describe me a funny, smart and generous. I also love to read. I read a lot of non-fiction, but sometimes a novel (especially mystery or science fiction) will catch me a really hold me . I usually have a stack of books waiting to be read, but I also have a Kindle app on my phone and my tablet computer and I do a lot of my reading electronically. I love to discuss the ideas I read about and see what others think about them. Coffee, lunch or dinner. Something where we can talk and get to know each other.

  • Terrell

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58

    Sooo... a lil about me...love to play Baseball, love rib-eye steaks (I really think I have an unhealthy relationship with !) I like the gym, kickin it watching bad movies with friends, recently a friend got me learning political correctness...I suck at it right now. Watching... Well...I'm very clean.. (not Howie Mandel clean!...but, I don't like touching handles in bathrooms!) Veerrrry Happy for my League Leading Rangers!!! A Happy Camper most of the time :)Want to meet a girl with two eyes...or a really good glass one. Tend to be attracted to people who are like Champagne!...Sweet and Bubbly!! I believe there is someone out there for me...hoping I meet her soon. Oh..... No, this is not an invitation for you to come with me I was simply being informative ;)For work I do Power Plant Specialist Senior by day and fight zombies by night!....think you can handle that? Oh yeah remember before you criticize someone! You should walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes. whatever we decide it will be the best time EVER!!:P A date with me may include... gator wrasslin, Calamari, Telekinesis, homeless feedings, underwater chess (with or without tanks), fruit juggling, snake charming, rolling huge cheese wheels, hurling obscenities at the elderly, food fights with or without clothes, lookin for scoundrel's, pretending not to speak english, you know....the usual stuff....

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